Dom's Guide To Submissive Training Vol. 3: How To Use These 31 Everyday Objects To Train Your New Sub For Ultimate Pleasure & Excitement. A Must Read For Any Dom/Master In A BDSM Relationship

Dom's Guide To Submissive Training Vol. 3: How To Use These 31 Everyday Objects To Train Your New Sub For Ultimate Pleasure & Excitement. A Must Read For Any Dom/Master In A BDSM Relationship

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by Elizabeth Cramer
     
 

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You may think that every Master has a huge house filled with either gothic décor or fluffy white couches, and a ridiculously full selection of paddles, straps, whips, crops, restraints, sex toys, and bondage gear.

Fortunately, you don't have to pay a hundred dollars for a speciality flogger or purchase a wedge from Extreme Restraints for three hundred bucks

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You may think that every Master has a huge house filled with either gothic décor or fluffy white couches, and a ridiculously full selection of paddles, straps, whips, crops, restraints, sex toys, and bondage gear.

Fortunately, you don't have to pay a hundred dollars for a speciality flogger or purchase a wedge from Extreme Restraints for three hundred bucks in order to be a great Dom and provide your sub with hours of bondage, spanking and fun.

Most of the things you need to give your submissive the spanking of a lifetime, a punishment to fit the crime, or just an incredible bondage experience can be found right in your own home. Your sub will not only enjoy the variety of experiences in her sessions but also appreciate your creativity.

"Dom's Guide to Submissive Training Vol. 3" gives you 31 common objects you already own or can purchase for minimal cost and keep right out in the open that will enhance your BDSM relationship and provide you and your sub hours of pleasure.

Aside from the cost savings, there is another benefit to using everyday objects in your BDSM training and session fun – discretion. Not every person can be seen walking down the street or through an airport with a leather whip in his hand or a wooden paddle in his bag. Many Doms must conceal their activities from employers, social circles, or vanilla spouses. Common objects make it easier to engage in important rituals without detection.

Product Details

ISBN-13:
2940148665168
Publisher:
Living Plus Healthy Publishing
Publication date:
10/04/2013
Series:
Men's Guide to BDSM , #3
Sold by:
Barnes & Noble
Format:
NOOK Book
Sales rank:
151,113
File size:
206 KB

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Dom's Guide To Submissive Training Vol. 3: How To Use These 31 Everyday Objects To Train Your New Sub For Ultimate Pleasure & Excitement. A Must Read 4.8 out of 5 based on 0 ratings. 8 reviews.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
This was a fun and great guide to find the right toys to pleasure your BDSM partner. How to use 31 everyday objects to train your new sub is a great way to have fun with your partner with paddles for spanking, scarves, hairbrushes and assortment of creams and oils that will have him or her begging for more. Wooden spoons and spatulas can be used for spanking toys. What a fun book I will never look at my spoons or spatulas the same way again! I think some of the toys they used would be a great way to spice up any relationship! An exciting, fun read for everyone!
angieAS More than 1 year ago
In this book the author breaks down BDSM training and shares 31 simple bondage objects that are laid out in easy to understand chapters. She shares insight for anyone who is interested in becoming a Dom or submissive or those who are curious about the BDSM lifestyle in her series. I’ve had the pleasure of reading Cramer’s books in the past and what I liked best about her style is that each chapter is short and it's not full of fun and fluff. Cramer gets right to the point and tells you exactly what you need to know. I’m not a fan of writers who fill their books with worthless words just to fill a page. You won’t find that here. If you are new to the world of Dom/sub or you have been around for a little while and are in need of some new play toys, this is the perfect book to get you started. It’s a great tool to start building your toy chest. You and your partner can work together to see what you like/don’t.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
This book is the ultimate guide for anyone that is seriously interested in learning how to train a sub. The first 2 volumes in the series cover the basics of training a sub, and this book offers a bunch of great tips and suggestions for objects that Doms can use to pleasure their new submissive. The great thing about the suggestions in this book is that a lot of the objects on the list are things you have around the house already so once you're done reading you can get started right away. Definitely a great way for Doms to spice things up!
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
This book is a great follow up to the others in the series! I loved reading about using things like hair brushes and rulers for sub/dom purposes. It's especially good if you and your partner aren't very open about it and want to keep it on the down low by buying regular items. It's also great if you want to save a few bucks instead of looking for toys specifically for spanking and BDSM play! The book mentions the types of pains that some of the objects will give and how they can be used most effectively as well as some potential downsides. One of the best parts is that it tells you how you can make your own toys, which I think can give it a little extra meaning when being used on your sub. It gives plenty of ideas on how you can also have your sub give their own punishments when they know they've done something wrong or if they just want the arousal when you're not around, if they're allowed. This book is definitely worth reading if you want some ideas on punishment and training while staying safe and within the limits of the sub/dom culture.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
First of all, I am glad that there is a distinction between what is seen in most pornos and what is reality because I have ran into people that confuse the two a lot. As someone who partakes in both roles (and takes them both seriously) this is helpful to read from both points of view, but it admittedly more helpful for Doms. It is also not only good for people that are already in the bdsm lifestyle, but for beginners as well, which is something I enjoy because I can show it to potential partners if they are hesitant to join the lifestyle or even just try new things. It has also given me new ideas for future sessions and things to try as well as Do it Yourself things.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
I've been following this book. I love the ideas the author is sharing. It's very detail and clear. It's very creative. It tells you ways on how to actually use these toys and be kinky. It's an ultimate guide for beginners and non beginners on BDSM.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
I have delved into the bdsm community a little here and there. But I never took it seriously because of the astronomical cost of some of the gear. I was spending a significant amount on bdsm gear early on. I wish I had found this book earlier although I have still found it useful even at my level. This book has made all the difference. They give great ideas on items you can use to train your sub that is lying right around the house. I was spending 100s of dollars on gear. And I can see how buying gear can easily reach into the thousands but with this book you can at least cut costs and still have the same effects. I would recommend this book to anyone in the bdsm community especially if you’re just starting and unsure if this is where you want to be apart of the bdsm community. Or a domme in need of equipment but on a tight budget.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
This title seems a little risque and it could be, but it doesn't have to be. It can also be for a couple that want to spice up their intimate relationship just a bit with some of these tips. Included in this book are easy to find objects to use in your BDSM relationship, and how to use them. If your partner and yourself are into these behaviors, then you will probably be surprised to find something you already have lying around the house that you can use.