Don't Use Your Words!: Children's Emotions in a Networked World

by Jane Juffer

Overview

How children are taught to control their feelings and how they resist this emotional management through cultural production.

Today, even young kids talk to each other across social media by referencing memes,songs, and movements, constructing a common vernacular that resists parental, educational, and media imperatives to name their feelings and thus control their bodies. Over the past two decades, children’s television programming has provided a therapeutic site for the processing of emotions such as anger, but in doing so has enforced normative structures of feeling that, Jane Juffer argues, weaken the intensity and range of children’s affective experiences.

Don’t Use Your Words! seeks to challenge those norms, highlighting the ways that kids express their feelings through cultural productions including drawings, fan art, memes, YouTube videos, dance moves, and conversations while gaming online. Focusing on kids between ages five and nine, Don’t Use Your Words! situates these productions in specific contexts, including immigration policy referenced in drawings by Central American children just released from detention centers and electoral politics as contested in kids’ artwork expressing their anger at Trump’s victory. Taking issue with the mainstream tendency to speak on behalf of children, Juffer argues that kids have the agency to answer for themselves: what does it feel like to be a kid?

Product Details

ISBN-13:	9781479831746
Publisher:	New York University Press
Publication date:	05/28/2019
Pages:	304
Product dimensions:	6.00(w) x 9.00(h) x (d)

About the Author

Jane Juffer is Professor in the Department of English and the Program of Feminist, Gender, and Sexuality Studies at Cornell University. She is the author of three books: Intimacy Across Borders: Race, Religion, and Migration in the U.S. Midwest (2013); Single Mother: The Emergence of the Domestic Intellectual (NYU Press, 2006); and At Home with Pornography: Women, Sex, and Everyday Life (NYU Press, 1998).

Table of Contents

Introduction: "Run Over by a Unicorn" 1

1 Affective Intensity and Children's Embodiment 33

Part I Political Subjects 55

2 The Production of Fear: Children at the U.S.-Mexico Border 61

3 "I Hate You, Dunel Trump": Anger or Civility? 83

4 "Criss-Cross Applesauce": Keeping Control in the Classroom 107

Part II Kids' Television, from Problem Solving to Sideways Growth 137

5 TV's Narratives for Emotional Management 142

6 The Steven Universe, Where You Are an Experience 173

Part III The Limits of Digital Literacy 201

7 Minecraft's Affective World Building 205

8 From Memes to Logos: Commercial Detours in the Game of Roblox 232

Conclusion: "Shame on You Killers, Shame on You" 255

Acknowledgments 261

Notes 263

Bibliography 271

Index 279

About the Author 285

Color photos appear as an insert following page 162.

Editorial Reviews

"Juffer values children’s media, demanding that we pay attention to how influential their cultural production is. Including cultural analyses of Blue’s Clues to YouTube, electoral politics to immigration policy, and education to affect theory, Juffer deepens each field as much as she puts them in conversation with each other through careful, deliberate inspection. Her discussions of emotional intelligence, expression, and management are woven alongside her treatment of children’s drawings, art exhibitions, and writings in a way that expands the scope of contemporary media studies. Don’t Use Your Words! is a great accomplishment and a true gift to us all—children, parents, and scholars alike."

Sarah Projansky

"Juffer raises provocative questions concerning children’s emotions... Recommended. Graduate students, researchers, faculty."

Choice

"[Juffer] develops a theory challenging the idea that children cannot be viewed as having emotional intelligence. [...] This book is an excellent read for parents, psychological researchers, and educators of all sorts."

Communication Booknotes Quarterly

"Juffer values children’s media, demanding that we pay attention to how influential their cultural production is. Including cultural analyses of Blue’s Clues to YouTube, electoral politics to immigration policy, and education to affect theory, Juffer deepens each field as much as she puts them in conversation with each other through careful, deliberate inspection. Her discussions of emotional intelligence, expression, and management are woven alongside her treatment of children’s drawings, art exhibitions, and writings in a way that expands the scope of contemporary media studies. Don’t Use Your Words! is a great accomplishment and a true gift to us all—children, parents, and scholars alike."

Sara Projansky