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Evil Beside Her: The True Story of a Texas Woman's Marriage to a Dangerous Psychopath

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Sleeping with a monster

At first, Linda Bergstrom's marriage to her husband James was idyllic. They were young and in love; he was about to enter the Navy and she was eager to start a family. But it wasn't long before the dream exploded. James became abusive and violent, prone to sudden bursts of anger, long silences, and unexplained disappearances. But Linda vowed to hold on, despite the pain and fear . . . and her disturbing suspicions ...

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Overview

Sleeping with a monster

At first, Linda Bergstrom's marriage to her husband James was idyllic. They were young and in love; he was about to enter the Navy and she was eager to start a family. But it wasn't long before the dream exploded. James became abusive and violent, prone to sudden bursts of anger, long silences, and unexplained disappearances. But Linda vowed to hold on, despite the pain and fear . . . and her disturbing suspicions about her husband's secret life.

Then, not long after their move to Houston, Texas, she made a terrifying discovery: James's hidden cache containing duct tape, a ski mask, and handcuffs. No longer could Linda Bergstrom deny the hideous truth.

The man she lived with, the man she married for love, was a dangerous psychopath. And there was no escape and nowhere to run. Because no one—not her friends, the Navy, or the police—would believe her.

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Editorial Reviews

Ann Rule
“Kathryn Casey is one of the best true crime writers today...This is a ‘do not miss’ book.”
M. William Phelps
“With She Wanted it All, Casey stakes her claim as one of the best in the business.”
Carlton Stowers
“Never has a book been more aptly titled. Masterfully, Casey weaves a dark and disturbing look into a world of advantaged youths who throw it all away in favor of drugs, booze and bad company, leaving a sordid trail of destruction - and death - in the wake. A troubling tale, indeed.”
New York Times
“Superbly researched and beautifully written. Kathryn Casey joins Carlton Stowers as the premier chroniclers of Texas crime. I devoured this book in one Texas-sized gulp.”Gregg Olsen, New York Times bestselling author of Abandoned Prayers
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Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9780061582011
  • Publisher: HarperCollins Publishers
  • Publication date: 10/28/2008
  • Format: Mass Market Paperback
  • Edition description: Reprint
  • Pages: 384
  • Sales rank: 368,478
  • Product dimensions: 6.78 (w) x 4.14 (h) x 1.07 (d)

Meet the Author

Kathryn Casey is an award-winning journalist, who has written for Rolling Stone, TV Guide, Reader's Digest, Texas Monthly, and many other publications. She's the author of seven previous true crime books and the creator of the highly acclaimed Sarah Armstrong mystery series. Casey has appeared on Oprah, Oprah Winfrey's Oxygen network, Biography, Nancy Grace, E! network, truTV, Investigation Discovery, the Travel Channel, and A&E. She lives in Houston with her husband and their dog, Nelson.

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Evil Beside Her
The True Story of a Texas Woman's Marriage to a Dangerous Psychopath

Chapter One

What attracts one person to another has long fascinated poets, perfumers, psychologists, astrologists, and biologists. Is it an emotional, spiritual, or physical link that binds a man and a woman? Unable to diagnose passion, experts have relegated the phenomenon to the territory of the unknown. "No human creature can give orders to love," dismissed George Sand. "Do you know how uncontrolled and unreliable the average human being is in all that concerns sexual life?" asked Sigmund Freud.

When a union turns violent, criminologists are left to ponder the dilemma of what first drew, and later bound, a woman to her lover/abuser. Why didn't she just get out? they ask. Such large numbers of those battered as adults were abused as children that decades ago experts reluctantly came to one conclusion: Somewhere—whether in DNA or day-to-day experience—there is a force at work that defies random coupling. Abusers and victims seek each other out.

After it was all over, with the acute perception of hindsight, Linda would conclude life had set her up for James Bergstrom. That she had been bred to accept violence. And that their union was a tragedy she was fated to live.

The neighborhood in which Linda Martinez, nicknamed Lily by her family, grew up is the type of uniquely Houston setting only possible because of the city's lack of zoning. Businesses and industries mix with homes in a patchwork of unrestrained urban development. Tucked just outside the 610 Loop, the area is bounded by two thoroughfares on which strips ofprefabricated metal warehouses, stores, and factories are interrupted only by the occasional tavern or storefront church. Nearby is a heavily industrial district bordering railroad tracks. Even on quiet side streets, like the one on which Linda's parents, Santos and Jesse Martinez, bought a modest frame house in 1963, the homes are interlaced with small factories and businesses.

Despite strong Hispanic roots, both Santos and Jesse were born in the United States, the children of Mexican and Spanish parents respectively who immigrated in search of opportunity. They met in Arcola, a small town southwest of Houston where Santos's parents raised ten children surrounded by trees and rolling acres to run. In 1958 they married and moved to Houston to start a family. The children came quickly: first Gino, then Mary, Linda on Halloween day, October 31, 1963, Alice, and finally Daniel. Another son died at the age of two, a victim of pneumonia.

The Martinez house, sitting firmly in the center of the block, was proud if modest. Its white clapboard exterior was faded but not unkempt. Its yard, like those of its neighbors, was encircled in a sturdy metal fence to ward off the encroaching violence of the city. Inside, it was well maintained, decorated with framed religious prints depicting the Virgin Mary and the Sacred Heart of Jesus amidst photographs of the couple's five children. Jesse had a good job working days in the shipping department at Devoe & Raynolds, a regional plant for the national company which manufactured paint for stores throughout the Southwest. The factory was just a short walk over the railroad tracks from the house. Each evening when Santos, a seamstress, returned from work, the Martinez house filled with the pungent aroma of frying corn tortillas and simmering tomatoes.

Despite its peaceful facade, Linda's childhood home was a terrifying place. "It was like a prison camp," she would say, with a grimace. Of course, there were the happy times: fishing trips, parties, weddings, quinceañeras (elaborate fifteenth-birthday celebrations in Hispanic cultures that mark a girl's entry to womanhood), picnics, and afternoons on the beach. Yet from the beginning, Jesse, a short, stocky man with dark brown hair and strong, thick hands, was a frightening presence. Though he worked all day and often drank with cronies at night, when he was home, the family trembled under his domination.

One of Linda's earliest memories was of an incident when she was five. "My father was angry with me because I got up off the couch. We were never allowed to walk around unless we got permission," she whispered. "He took a belt and began walloping me." Santos stepped in to save her middle daughter and shared in the flogging. Days later both were still marked with bruised reminders of the battering.

According to Linda, when she was nine the physical abuse turned sexual. It began one morning as she stood on a footstool washing dishes. Her brothers and sisters were relegated to the living room, where they silently watched Sunday morning church shows on television. Her mother was visiting a neighbor. Alone in the kitchen, Linda heard her father enter, so quickly she at first feared his intention was to punish her for some minor offense. Instead, he pulled her toward him, groping between her legs. To her surprise, he stroked and fondled her. Linda wasn't sure what he was doing or why, but something told her it wasn't right. "I was terrified," said Linda. "I cried so hard, I couldn't stop."

The scene, she maintains, repeated itself twice more. After the final incident, Linda cried so uncontrollably, despite her father's threats, that her mother, who was in another part of the house, came to investigate. Pressing her head against her mother's chest, Linda recounted amid sobs her accusations against her father. Jesse Martinez denied Linda's accusations, yet an angry Santos warned her husband, "If this is true, it better not ever happen again."

By the time she was ten, Linda had become a reclusive yet pragmatic child. Since the alleged sexual abuse took place when she was alone with her father, the solution was not to be alone with him. "She would follow me wherever I went," said Santos. "Lily became my quiet, little shadow." On Saturdays when her mother cleaned another house on the block, Linda would tag along silently behind.

Evil Beside Her
The True Story of a Texas Woman's Marriage to a Dangerous Psychopath
. Copyright © by Kathryn Casey. Reprinted by permission of HarperCollins Publishers, Inc. All rights reserved. Available now wherever books are sold.
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  • Posted July 9, 2009

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    Very troubling story, well written

    This is a sad tale, all too common, of a battered wife and mother, Linda Bergstrom, at the hands of a sick controlling psychopath. She remained married to James Bergstrom longer than she should have in order to protect her daughter and prevent James from molesting her as an infant. She gave James every opportunity and more to get professional help while also doing everything within her power to try to alert the various police departments in and around Houston, TX, to the fact that her husband was a rapist and on the prowl. Prior to Houston, he had been arrested in Kitsap County, WA, while they were stationed there during his stint as a submariner in the Navy. While there she faced the sad truth that her suspicions about her husband were true. The Kitsap County police knew he was guilty of rape and voyerism in their jurisdiction, but they did not have the necessary evidence to arrest and prosecute him. Ironically, after trying desperately to believe in him and wanting so much to have a child, she found out she was pregnant just prior to his discharge back to Houston. She had just come to the conclusion that she would have to stay with him in order to get back to Houston and her family and had decided to initiate divorce proceedings in Houston. After she found out she was pregnant, however, and after James' threats that she could never get away from him and that he would kill her and the baby, she knew she had to stay until she could convince the police that he was a serious threat to all women and until she could help them to catch him in the act. What this brave woman went through is quite an inspiration, if not often very frustrating. Kathryn Casey's recounting of her ordeal is engrossing and well-written. If you enjoy true crime writing, you will enjoy this book. It is among the best I have read in this genre.

    6 out of 7 people found this review helpful.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted November 2, 2013

    Upset

    It is extermly upsetting that someone who has never been in an abusive relationship will pass judgement. If you are scared,and isolated,have no money or support of any kind. What are you to do? Every thing is not black and white. If you have never been there...dont judge about why not just leave it isnt that simple.

    2 out of 3 people found this review helpful.

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  • Posted January 31, 2013

    I was very impressed by this author.  This story was about a bru

    I was very impressed by this author.  This story was about a brutal marriage to a brutal man.  I read it in one day
    because I had to find out if the wife ever got away from this sick man.  I'll let you find out for yourself.  It was an
    excellent read.  Story flowed well.  The author never went off story to describe trees. buildings, etc. I hate when authors do that.
    do that sort of thing.  Well not this one, she flowed through the story which made it a good true crime read.

    2 out of 2 people found this review helpful.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted October 16, 2014

    To anonymous - From Tammy

    Women cannot judge other women who stay in messed up marriages. You must walk a mile in her shoes to know the answer to that. No its not that simple. Don't call the victim "ridiculous or desperate. You just can't know. You better jope you never know.

    1 out of 2 people found this review helpful.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted May 29, 2013

    Another good writer

    Very good writer
    Reminds me of ann rule
    Must read all her book
    I have
    Patiently waiting for her next book :)

    1 out of 2 people found this review helpful.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted January 2, 2013

    Good

    Well written...please never let this monster out !! ....Bn

    1 out of 1 people found this review helpful.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted December 9, 2011

    Really???

    I have no idea why this woman stayed in this relationship so long . Ridiculous.

    1 out of 8 people found this review helpful.

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    Posted September 7, 2013

    YYU

    Yj

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    Posted August 27, 2013

    Red

    She paded in and as quick as wind she darted thro this part of the forest killing prey she sees

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  • Anonymous

    Posted August 18, 2013

    Sneer

    Zzzz....

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  • Anonymous

    Posted April 17, 2013

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    Why do woman stay with men like this for any length of time?  

    Why do woman stay with men like this for any length of time?  

    0 out of 2 people found this review helpful.

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