Exhibitionism for the Shy: Show Off, Dress Up and Talk Hot!

by Carol Queen

Overview

Exhibitionism as a consensual erotic pleasure and a means to overcome shyness and body image issues. Featuring suggested exercises and discussions of erotic dress, talk, personas and roleplay, involving your partner, exhibitionism and the sex industry, and more. Interviews include Annie Sprinkle, Nina Hartley, Candye Kane, Juliet Anderson, Vanessa del Rio, Lily Burana, Shar Rednour, and others. Updated version (in press) will include a new chapter on Internet exhibitionism and new interview material with Margaret Cho, Violet Blue, Audacia Ray, and Brian Alexander.

Product Details

ISBN-13:	9780940208391
Publisher:	SCB Distributors
Publication date:	08/01/2011
Sold by:	Barnes & Noble
Format:	eBook
Sales rank:	617,474
File size:	496 KB

About the Author

Carol Queen is a writer and educator with a doctorate in sexology. She is a former columnist for Playboy and the author of three previous books and editor of seven more, including Five Minute Erotica. She is an owner of Good Vibrations, a women-owned sex toy and book emporium, and she lives in San Francisco, California, where she also directs the center for sex and culture.

Table of Contents

Foreword Nina Hartley ix

Preface to the Second Edition xi

1 Recovering from Reticence 1

2 What Exhibitionism Is - And Isn't 17

3 1 Like to Watch - And Listen 31

4 Learning To Show Off 45

5 Too Shy to Talk? 69

6 The Librarian Takes Down Her Hair - Awakening Erotic Personas 91

7 Finding Words That Are Hot For You 111

8 I Like To Be Watched 123

9 Practice Makes Perfect: Some Hints for Finding Partners 143

10 Go Where the Exhibitionism Is 155

11 Techno-Exhibitionism: Showing Off By Bits and Bytes 175

12 When Showing Off Is Your Job 189

13 Exhibitionism And Your Partner 207

14 Resources For The Recovering Shy 229

Appendix 1 "Dirty" Words and Phrases 231

Appendix 2 Chinese Taoist Sex Words 235

Appendix 3 Feeling and Emotion Words 237

Appendix 4 Some Erotic Roles 241