Finding Our Fathers

Finding Our Fathers

by Samuel Osherson, Stephan B. Poulter
     
 
Finding Our Fathers examines the hidden struggle faced by millions of men: how to reconcile their childhood images of their fathers, and all men, as silent, stoic breadwinners with the life they want to live now-embracing two-career marriages, closer ties with their children, and greater emotional awareness. Harvard psychological Samuel Osherman shows how a man

Overview

Finding Our Fathers examines the hidden struggle faced by millions of men: how to reconcile their childhood images of their fathers, and all men, as silent, stoic breadwinners with the life they want to live now-embracing two-career marriages, closer ties with their children, and greater emotional awareness. Harvard psychological Samuel Osherman shows how a man's "unfinished business" with his father affects his relationships with his spouce, children, friends, and boss, and how it can lead to a profound sense of loneliness, vulnerability, and rage.

Osherman's work penetrates the shroud of silence that prevents men from coming to terms with their deepest feelings and fears. He shows how every man can resolve the inner conflict of the father-son relationship and begin to develop a new sense of strength and purpose in his family life and career.

This new, thoroughly revised edition of Finding Our Fathers, which became an instant bestseller when originally published in 1986, is the first and most crucial step to finding a more rewarding, more vital masculine identity. It is one of the most important books you'll ever read about your father-or about yourself.

About the Author:
Samuel Osherman, Ph.D., is a practicing psychotherapist of the faculty of Harvard Medical School. He has taught at Harvard, MIT, and the University of Massachusetts and is the chairperson of the psychology faculty at the Fielding Institute, a pioneering midcareer graduate program in clinical psychology.

Product Details

ISBN-13:
9780809293308
Publisher:
NTC Publishing Group
Publication date:
05/08/2001
Pages:
256
Product dimensions:
5.99(w) x 9.02(h) x 0.73(d)

What People are saying about this

William S. Pollack
"A groundbreaking, classic work, Finding Our Fathers, offers a beacon of understanding and a ray of hope for men and boys in America and the women who love them. It is a must-read."
— William S. Pollack, Ph.D., author of Real Boy: Rescuing Our Sons from the Myths of Boyhood
Dan Kindlon
"Finding Our Fathers is a treasure. It is a classic that greatly influenced my thinking. It made me and a generation of researchers expand our horizons, to no longer cast a blind eye on the psychological impact of fathers on children."
—Dan Kindlon, Ph.D., coauthor of Raising Cain: Protecting the Emotional Life of Boys

Meet the Author

Samuel Osherman, Ph.D., is a practicing psychotherapist of the faculty of Harvard Medical School. He has taught at Harvard, MIT, and the University of Massachusetts and is the chairperson of the psychology faculty at the Fielding Institute, a pioneering midcareer graduate program in clinical psychology.

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