For Your Own Good: Hidden Cruelty in Child-Rearing and the Roots of Violence

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Overview

For Your Own Good, the contemporary classic exploring the serious if not gravely dangerous consequences parental cruelty can bring to bear on children everywhere, is one of the central works by Alice Miller, the celebrated Swiss psychoanalyst.

With her typically lucid, strong, and poetic language, Miller investigates the personal stories and case histories of various self-destructive and/or violent individuals to expand on her theories about the long-term affects of abusive child-rearing. Her conclusions—on what sort of parenting can create a drug addict, or a murderer, or a Hitler—offer much insight, and make a good deal of sense, while also straying far from psychoanalytic dogma about human nature, which Miller vehemently rejects.

This important study paints a shocking picture of the violent world—indeed, of the ever-more-violent world—that each generation helps to create when traditional upbringing, with its hidden cruelty, is perpetuated. The book also presents readers with useful solutions in this regard—namely, to resensitize the victimized child who has been trapped within the adult, and to unlock the emotional life that has been frozen in repression.

In a new preface, the author describes the radical change in her attitude toward psychoanalysis and warns her readers that she considers psychoanalytic treatment to be obscure, misleading and even dangerous.

Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9780374522698
  • Publisher: Farrar, Straus and Giroux
  • Publication date: 11/14/2002
  • Edition number: 3
  • Pages: 282
  • Sales rank: 202,511
  • Product dimensions: 6.02 (w) x 8.99 (h) x 0.89 (d)

Meet the Author

Other books by Alice Miller, the internationally renowned psychoanalyst, include The Drama of the Gifted Child: The Search for the True Self, The Body Never Lies: The Lingering Effects of Cruel Parenting, The Truth Will Set You Free: Overcoming Emotional Blindness and Finding Your True Adult Self, Banished Knowledge: Facing Childhood Injuries, Breaking Down the Wall of Silence: The Liberating Experience of Facing Painful Truth, and The Untouched Key: Tracing Childhood Trauma in Creativity and Destructiveness. Miller lives in Zurich, Switzerland.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted April 8, 2003

    Brilliant

    Considering that corporal punishment has not been banned by Britain, America, Australia etc, this book seems still very relevant after 20 years. Miller brilliantly shows that abusing children serves the interests of the adult, not the child... its an amazing book, it is logical, clever, accessible, and important. A must read

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