Forty Beads: The Simple, Sexy Secret for Transforming Your Marriage

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With a hilarious, tell-it-like-it-is, girlfriend-to-girlfriend tone, author Carolyn Evans provides married women with an innovative method that is sure to breathe new life into their marital relationship. The Forty Beads Method works by dissolving the negative tension that builds around sex (specifically, the frequency with which it does or does not occur) and replacing it with the sex life you always thought you should have, which in turn creates the relationship you've always wanted. In 40 short ...
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Overview


With a hilarious, tell-it-like-it-is, girlfriend-to-girlfriend tone, author Carolyn Evans provides married women with an innovative method that is sure to breathe new life into their marital relationship. The Forty Beads Method works by dissolving the negative tension that builds around sex (specifically, the frequency with which it does or does not occur) and replacing it with the sex life you always thought you should have, which in turn creates the relationship you've always wanted. In 40 short chapters, author Carolyn Evans illuminates her readers in psychologically-savvy detail why sex is so important to the success of a marriage, and exactly how to put it to the front burner of their relationship in a playful, fun way.
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Kirkus, 4/1/11
A creative catalyst for remedying an ailing sex life. When Evans was facing a particularly arduous period in her marriage, she knew she needed to do something to reignite her love life. She decided to offer her husband sex on a daily basis for 40 straight days, marking each one off with the drop of a Venetian bead into a mason jar. Thus was born the Forty Beads Method, an approach that “assumes a disparity that often exists between the male and female libidos and offers a way to close the gap.” Evans’ observations about sex and marriage and advice for other couples who want to try this at home are laced with attention-grabbing anecdotes and humor. When she explained her plan to her husband, she writes, he "looked at me as if I were Venus, the Goddess of Love, sailing into the bedroom on a clamshell." But she makes unsubstantiated and sweeping generalizations about men throughout the text, most notably in "Sex: The Deal," in which she writes, “Men love sex and for most of them, it’s their favorite thing in the whole world.” She employs limited scientific evidence to justify her oversimplified views. And while the author invites homosexuals to try this method, she fails to suggest any possible modifications to the heterosexual approach to her program. Also includes guidelines for creating a supportive community of Beaders. For women who need help dealing with the sexual power struggles of their relationship.

Kim Barnouin, Co-Author of The New York Times #1 Bestseller Skinny Bitch
"Forty Beads made me laugh out loud and take notes.  Going on 10 years of marriage, I could totally relate to this book.  I read it at just the right time, and my husband will be indebted to Carolyn Evans for her wisdom for many years. A must read for all women."

Fiftyisthenewforty.net, May 2011
“With a keen sense of humor entirely devoid of snarky or resentful undertones, Evans makes it crystal clear that the key difference between men and women is that “men have to have sex to feel close, and conversely, a woman has to feel close to her husband to want to have sex with him.”  Bingo.”

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A creative catalyst for remedying an ailing sex life.

When Evans was facing a particularly arduous period in her marriage, she knew she needed to do something to reignite her love life. She decided to offer her husband sex on a daily basis for 40 straight days, marking each one off with the drop of a Venetian bead into a mason jar. Thus was born the Forty Beads Method, anapproach that "assumes a disparity that often exists between the male and female libidos and offers a way to close the gap." Evans' observations about sex and marriage and advice for other couples who want to try this at home are laced with attention-grabbing anecdotes and humor. When she explained her plan to her husband, she writes, he "looked at me as if I were Venus, the Goddess of Love, sailing into the bedroom on a clamshell." But shemakes unsubstantiated and sweeping generalizations about men throughout the text, most notably in "Sex: The Deal,"in which she writes, "Men love sex and for most of them, it's their favorite thing in the whole world." She employs limited scientific evidence to justify her oversimplified views. And while the authorinvites homosexuals to try this method, she fails to suggest any possible modifications to the heterosexual approach to her program. Also includes guidelines for creating a supportive community of Beaders.

For women who need help dealing with the sexual power struggles of their relationship.

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Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9780762439287
  • Publisher: Running Press Book Publishers
  • Publication date: 4/26/2011
  • Pages: 208
  • Sales rank: 401,432
  • Product dimensions: 5.20 (w) x 7.20 (h) x 0.70 (d)

Meet the Author

Carolyn Evans, MSW developed The Forty Beads Method quite by accident, but when it changed her marriage in such an incredible way, she just had to share it with everyone. A singer/songwriter and former therapist, Carolyn writes for Skirt! Magazine and spends time meeting with her fellow “Beaders” as she supports the growing Forty Beads nation.

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  • Posted February 29, 2012

    Recommended

    I enjoyed reading this book. The author was faced some touchy subjects with wit and humor, very good. Good to read and kick start your relationship.
    I am trying the method with my husband and very pleased so far with the out come.

    2 out of 3 people found this review helpful.

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  • Posted April 19, 2011

    This is a fun read and promises to keep your marriage fun

    I read this book just to get another approach on how to keep a marriage fun and communications flowing. It was an easy quick read with humor and wisdom combined. Carolyn breaks down the Venus and Mars to a vary simple formula that gives both sides of the union what they want and what they need to grow together. I highly recommend it. A real fresh fun approach.

    1 out of 1 people found this review helpful.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted December 6, 2011

    I would buy this product again

    Great!

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  • Anonymous

    Posted June 8, 2011

    Laugh+out+loud+funny

    A+laugh+out+loud+funny+book+about+sex+in+a+marriage.+I+found+myself+laughing+throughout+the+book+which+had+my+husband+wondering+what+was+so+funny.+I+wish+this+book+was+a+lend+me+book+because+I+would+definitely+share+with+all+my+girlfriends%21+

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  • Posted May 16, 2011

    Interesting idea for married couples

    I really liked this book. The writing is laugh out loud funny many times throughout. The method is one i cant wait to try in my marriage and i think it will work.

    0 out of 2 people found this review helpful.

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  • Posted May 8, 2011

    Love this book!

    Great read and the writing style is oh so funny. Buy this book and join the fellow beaders like myself!

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