Friends for Life

Friends for Life

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by Meg Wolitzer

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Publishers Weekly - Publisher's Weekly
A sitcom already bought for the big screen by Nora Ephron, Wolitzer's ( This Is Your Life ) novel about three young women on the make in New York City has some clever moments, but its foolish premise scuttles credibility. Friends since elementary school in the suburbs, Meredith Guzzi, Lisa Vopilska and Ann Rogoff are now living in Manhattan, where they meet for dinner at a Chinese restaurant every month. Ann, who went to Yale and has a low-paying job in a publishing house, and Meredith, a knock-out-gorgeous public TV commentator, hate each other and always have. Medical student Lisa is the buffer and mediator who keeps the group together. In the course of the episodic narrative, Lisa marries a dermatologist and has a baby, Meredith breaks up with her vain, famous, married lover but finally finds a Mr. Right as beautiful as she is, and Ann discovers that she is a lesbian. These events are accomplished with some snappy dialogue and nicely captured trendy detail: a visit to a condom boutique; the perils of making love in a loft bed; the craze for work-out machines. But the women in this sisterhood are shallow, silly and superficial, given to such pronouncements as ``Marriage is a curtain that drops down between you and your friends. It separates you forever.'' (Mar.)
Library Journal
Three young girls innocently vow to stay friends forever, unaware of how difficult that vow is to keep. As they approach ``thirtysomething,'' discontent over their lives--especially their love lives--grows. Meredith, the beautiful one, is having an affair with a married man. Lisa, the nice one, is a good doctor but a confused wife and mother. Ann, the smart one, becomes an enthusiastic lesbian. When their friendship is temporarily shattered, each woman has time to reflect on her emotional needs. This pleasant tale, yet another entry in the women's friendship novel category, captures the sense of loss and discovery in female friendships. Wolitzer's novel This Is Your Life (Crown, 1989) was made into a successful movie, which may generate interest in this new work. Recommended for public libraries and women's studies collections. Previewed in Prepub Alert, LJ 11/1/93.-- Jan Blodgett, St. Mary's Cty. Records Ctr. & Archives, Leonardtown, Md.
Donna Seaman
Wolitzer, author of "Hidden Pictures" (1986), is a warm, brisk, and extremely funny novelist. Her light touch eschews pretension or false piety, enabling her to write about emotionally charged issues with insight and sophistication. Here, she portrays three Manhattan women on the verge of 30 who have managed to remain close friends through their school years and into adulthood. Meredith is an ambitious media beauty, Lisa is a doctor, and Ann works in publishing. All three are unattached as the novel begins, but soon form alliances that threaten their closeness. As they discuss the pleasure, ambivalence, and risk of their sexual relationships, Wolitzer (who, by the way, writes savvy dialogue that begs for performance) delivers some scathing observations on gender roles. Finally, each woman pairs off: Lisa marries a dermatologist, Ann falls in love with another woman, and Meredith finally gets involved with a man who takes her seriously. While this plot is little more than adequate, Wolitzer repeatedly rises above predictability, crafting scenes that sparkle with wit and glow with the relief of being able to laugh at the ridiculousness of life.

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Friends for Life 4 out of 5 based on 0 ratings. 1 reviews.
Guest More than 1 year ago
This was a good book. Since i have two best friends to start of with, its real easy to understand. I recommend this to anyone who has close friends, they can truly realate to. Also the characters in the story are just so attachable to. Was a great read!