From DTF to WTF: Rewriting Your Love Life

by Quentin Shires

Overview

This book is for anyone who's ever:

• Thought "maybe they'll change" while sobbing into a Chipotle bowl
• Googled "how to stop catching feelings for people who give zero effort"
• Stayed in a situationship out of optimism, boredom, or sheer delusion
• Gotten emotionally attached to someone who said "I'm bad at communication" like it was a cute quirk

Welcome to From DTF to WTF-your chaotic, hilarious, and occasionally profound roadmap out of romantic nonsense and back to your damn self.

In these pages, Quentin Shires delivers the kind of relationship advice you actually want: messy, honest, unfiltered, and funny enough to make you laugh through the healing. It's part breakup survival guide, part pep talk from your emotionally evolved alter ego, and part "holy sh*t, did they bug my phone?" because yeah-it's that relatable.

You'll learn:

• How to leave a date before dessert without faking a bathroom emergency
• Why your last 3 love interests were just emotional escape rooms
• How to tell the difference between chemistry and anxiety (spoiler: one feels like butterflies, the other feels like a crime scene)
• The beauty of staying single on purpose-even if your aunt keeps asking about grandkids
• How to actually fall in love (with them and with yourself) without spiraling into oblivion

This isn't about finding "the one." This is about becoming the version of you who no longer chases emotionally unavailable disasters because they have a decent jawline and know three astrology signs.

You don't need closure. You need this book.
And maybe a snack. Healing is exhausting.

Product Details

ISBN-13:	9798230152729
Publisher:	Writebooks
Publication date:	03/27/2025
Pages:	84
Product dimensions:	5.50(w) x 8.50(h) x 0.17(d)

About the Author

Quentin Shires is a doctoral-level mental health clinician with over 15 years of experience helping individuals, couples, and families untangle the messiness of love, dating, marriage, and everything in between. Throughout his career, he's guided clients through breakups, breakthroughs, commitment issues, communication breakdowns, emotional glow-ups, and the occasional "accidental texting of an ex."

Known for blending clinical insight with compassion (and the occasional side-eye at toxic behavior), Quentin brings a grounded, relatable, and refreshingly honest perspective to modern relationships. His work has empowered thousands to set boundaries, raise standards, and stop mistaking mixed signals for mystery.

After over a decade of watching brilliant people fall for walking red flags in fitted jeans, Quentin finally wrote the book that says what your therapist wants to say but legally can't.

This is self-help with bite. And maybe a little wine.