The Genius of Instinct: Reclaim Mother Nature's Tools for Enhancing Your Health, Happiness, Family, and Work [NOOK Book]

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Why do we sometimes get into the wrong relationships, take the wrong jobs, and make the wrong choices? The answers and solutions to these everyday plights are revealed by today’s “scientists of the mind,” evolutionary psychologists who have discovered stunning new lessons about the power of instincts and their capacity to transform lives positively. But too many of us have lost contact with our instincts. We don’t hear them. We don’t use them. And that gets us in trouble–over and over again. Now, Dr. Hendrie ...

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The Genius of Instinct: Reclaim Mother Nature's Tools for Enhancing Your Health, Happiness, Family, and Work

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Overview

Why do we sometimes get into the wrong relationships, take the wrong jobs, and make the wrong choices? The answers and solutions to these everyday plights are revealed by today’s “scientists of the mind,” evolutionary psychologists who have discovered stunning new lessons about the power of instincts and their capacity to transform lives positively. But too many of us have lost contact with our instincts. We don’t hear them. We don’t use them. And that gets us in trouble–over and over again. Now, Dr. Hendrie Weisinger shows how to reconnect with the instincts Mother Nature gave you. You’ll rediscover the six most indispensable human instincts that have evolved over millions and millions of years. Then, you’ll learn why you have emotions, and how to listen to them...how to scout out an environment that'll nurture you... how to become more comfortable with your vulnerabilities... have more fun by stimulating your curiosity... build deeper bonds with those around you... make yourself more attractive to mates and employers alike! You're hardwired for success. Use the powerful instincts Mother Nature gave you and gain the joy, fulfillment, and pleasure you deserve!

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Editorial Reviews

Publishers Weekly
Author and psychologist Weisinger (Nobody's Perfect), an executive educator specializing in organizational psychology, posits the idea that human beings are "hard-wired for success" (not simply for survival) by mechanisms in our brain developed over ten million years of natural selection-instinctual mechanisms like emotion and empathy which we devalue against higher functions like reason and analysis. In this lively self-help, Weisinger offers fairly standard advice (maximize attractiveness, keep learning, practice reciprocity), but his approach is frequently counterintuitive, often with illuminating results. Locating the hardwired center for emotions in the face (rather than, say, the brain stem), he suggests that the way to get yourself out of a bad relationship is to use "your angry face," which communicates feelings not just to your partner but to the rest of your body, "giving you the energy to rid yourself of something that is toxic to you"-literally, the strength to walk out the door. Elsewhere, Weisinger explains why contentment often prevents growth, and why "tending," giving care to others, is a "life enhancer for the entire family" and/or the office staff.
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Weisinger (Emotional Intelligence at Work) argues that six instinctual processes can be used to enhance life: shelter seeking, care soliciting, caregiving, beauty seeking, cooperating, and being curious. Weisinger elaborates on these drives, claiming that they can help resolve marital discord, enhance sex, and aid in leaving a distressing relationship or job. The whole book, however, isn't particularly unique. For larger libraries only.


—Deborah Bigelow
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Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9780137011766
  • Publisher: Pearson Education
  • Publication date: 3/20/2009
  • Sold by: Barnes & Noble
  • Format: eBook
  • Edition number: 1
  • Pages: 272
  • File size: 348 KB

Meet the Author

Dr. Hendrie Weisinger is trained in clinical, counseling, and organizational psychology. His work is known internationally. A New York Times bestselling author, he is a leading authority on the application of emotional intelligence, an expert in anger management, and the originator of the highly regarded techniques of criticism training. He has consulted to and conducts workshops for numerous Fortune 500 Companies, including IBM, AT&T, Intel, Motorola, Merrill Lynch, State Farm, The Hartford, Morgan Stanley, Wachovia Securities, Wells Fargo, Medtronic, Chase Manhattan, Nabisco, General Dynamics, Bank of America, Hughes Aircraft, TRW, Control Data, Nintendo, Merck, Avon, Hyatt, Sheraton, and Estée Lauder, to name just a few.

Dr. Weisinger’s expertise has also been sought out by government agencies, including the U.S. Justice Department, IRS, EPA, Secret Service, National Security Agency, FBI, and others. In addition, Dr. Weisinger has repeatedly addressed numerous professional and educational organizations, such as the Young Presidents Organization.

Dr. Weisinger is the author of several successful books. His first, Nobody’s Perfect, reached The New York Times Bestseller List. Dr. Weisinger’s Anger Workout Book, published in 1985, is now in its 27th printing. Anger at Work, a 1995 release, was hailed by the Journal of the Library of Congress as a book that “managers at all levels will find useful. Highly recommended.” His book Emotional Intelligence at Work is considered to be the best book on the application of emotional intelligence, and The Emotionally Intelligent Financial Advisor is the first book on emotional intelligence customized to a specific industry. His book The Power of Positive Criticism has already been translated into ten languages.

Dr. Weisinger has made more than 500 appearances on major television news and information programs, including The Today Show (several times, including five consecutive days for its show on anger), Oprah, and Good Morning America, and on other television and radio programs on CNN, CNBC, and NPR.

His work has been featured in numerous newspapers and national magazines, including The New York Times Sunday Business Section, USA Today, and BusinessWeek. His article for The Wall Street Journal, “So You’re Afraid to Criticize Your Boss,” was selected by Dow Jones as one of the 60 best articles published, and his article for TV Guide, “Tutored by Television,” is an example of how parents can help their children develop their emotional intelligence.

Dr. Weisinger has taught, and currently teaches, in many leading executive education and executive MBA programs, including Wharton, UCLA, NYU, MIT, Cornell, and Wake Forest.

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Table of Contents

Introduction 1

Part I: Shelter Seek…So You Can Find Your Home 9

Chapter 1: Selecting an Empowering Environment 11

Chapter 2: The Face of Emotions 17

Chapter 3: Home Hunting 27

Chapter 4: Shelter Seeking Today 37

Part II: Care Solicit…So You Can Protect Your Vulnerabilities 51

Chapter 5: Protecting Your Vulnerabilities 53

Chapter 6: The Benefits of Vulnerability 65

Chapter 7: The Importance of Ghost Busters 71

Chapter 8: Care Soliciting Today 77

Part III: Care Give…So You Can Develop the Future 89

Chapter 9: Developing the Future 91

Chapter 10: I Gave at the Office 95

Chapter 11: Care Giving Today 99

Part IV: Beautify…So You Can Pull People Toward You 115

Chapter 12: Pulling People Toward You 117

Chapter 13: Beautify Today 123

Chapter 14: Broadly Attractive 133

Part V: Co-op…So You Can Get People Working Together 143

Chapter 15: Team Game 145

Chapter 16: Interaction: Play Ball! 153

Chapter 17: Stimulating Cooperation 161

Chapter 18: Co-Op Today 173

Part VI: Curious?...So You Can Stay Ahead of the Pack 185

Chapter 19: Accelerating Your Learning 187

Chapter 20: Becoming a Curious George/Georgette 193

Chapter 21: Curiosity Every Day 205

Chapter 22: Curiosity Satisfied 219

Conclusion: Use Your Natural Genius 231

Appendix: The Life Enhancement Instinct Inventory 233

References 237

Index 241

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  • Anonymous

    Posted February 17, 2009

    the genius of instinct

    i found this book to be very enjoyable,stimulating and useful.the author a psychologist makes the interesting and provocative point that we are all hardwired to be successful and many of us find ourselves in bad situations because w are disconnected from our six key instincts. the author shows how to reconnect with these instincts and apply them in all aspects of our lives.i found the book to be very useful in my personal and professional life. The chapter on using our curiosity instincts is very entertaining and refreshing.i recommend highly.

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