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Overview

FAMILY / CHILDBIRTH

“Should I give birth at home, in a birth center, or in a hospital? Should I see a midwife or an obstetrician for prenatal care? What approach to pain relief should I use during labor? How does a waterbirth work?”

Expectant parents are faced with a daunting array of choices to make about prenatal care, labor, and birth. In Gentle Birth Choices Barbara Harper, renowned childbirth advocate, nurse, midwife, and mother of three, explains all the available choices and shows how to plan a truly meaningful, family-centered birth experience. She dispels the medical myths that so often shift control of birth away from women and reimagines birth without fear or violence and with minimal pain. Harper reveals the abundant range of gentle birth approaches, including:

- giving birth in an independent birth center, at home, or in a hospital birthing room
- finding a primary caregiver who shares your philosophy of birth
- deciding how to best use current technologies

She also provides practical advice for couples wishing to explore options such as hiring a doula or laboring in water to avoid the unwanted effects of drugs and epidurals.

“Exactly the sort of guide that pregnant women have been needing to help them sort through the myriad choices and options that confront them today.”
--Robbie Davis-Floyd, author of Birth As an American Rite of Passage

“Gentle Birth Choices provides a new model of maternity care that reduces the need for high-tech crisis intervention and focuses instead on preparation and health.”
--Healthworld

“A must-have for expectant mothers and their loved ones. . . . Gentle Birth Choices is an intelligent and sympathetic guide to birthing options that explores nontraditional ways that put women and their babies first.”
--New Age Retailer

The author’s accompanying 60-minute Gentle Birth Choices DVD blends interviews of midwives and physicians with footage of six different birth experiences--including a home birth, waterbirths, vaginal birth after a prior Cesarean section, and birth with other children present. The DVD vividly demonstrates the strength of women during childbirth and the healthy and happy outcome of women exercising gentle birth choices. It is a moving and powerful instructional tool, not only for expectant parents, but also for midwives, hospitals, birth centers, and doctors.

“Brace yourself for a powerful experience. This remarkable production combines art, education, and politics. Highly recommended.”
--Mothering Magazine

BARBARA HARPER’s passion for natural birth led to the founding in 1988 of Global Maternal/Child Health Association, a nonprofit organization dedicated to education and research about natural childbirth. She lectures worldwide on maternity care reform and waterbirth. She lives outside of Portland, Oregon.

Editorial Reviews

HEALTHWORLD
“Gentle Birth Choices provides a new model of maternity care that reduces the need for high-tech crisis intervention and focuses instead on preparation and health.”
NEW AGE RETAILER
“A must-have for expectant mothers and their loved ones. . . . Gentle Birth Choices is an intelligent and sympathetic guide to birthing options that explores nontraditional ways that put women and their babies first.”

Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9781594770678
  • Publisher: Inner Traditions International, Limited
  • Publication date: 8/28/2005
  • Edition description: Includes DVD
  • Edition number: 3
  • Pages: 320
  • Sales rank: 241,474
  • Product dimensions: 8.00 (w) x 9.76 (h) x 0.78 (d)

Meet the Author

Barbara Harper's passion for natural birth led to the founding in 1988 of Global Maternal/Child Health Association, a nonprofit organization dedicated to education and research about natural childbirth. She lectures worldwide on maternity care reform and water birth and is the author of Gentle Birth Choices. She lives outside of Portland, Oregon.

Suzanne lives near Durango in SW Colorado and works with the help of volunteer interns from across North America.

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Chapter 1

Gentle Beginnings

Human birth is the most miraculous, transformational, and mysterious event of our lives. It is also an experience that is shared by every single member of the human race. The birth experience indelibly imprints itself in the lives of both the mother who is giving birth and the baby who is being born.

A gentle birth begins by focusing on the mother’s experience and by bringing together a woman’s emotional dimensions and her physical and spiritual needs. A gentle birth respects the mother’s pivotal role, acknowledging that she knows how to birth her child in her own time and in her own way, trusting her instincts and intuition. In turn, when a mother gives birth gently, she and everyone present acknowledge that the baby is a conscious participant in his or her own birth. The experience empowers the birthing woman, welcomes the newborn child into a peaceful and loving environment, and bonds the family. The goal of a gentle birth is to reclaim the wonder and joy that are inherent in the beginning of a new life.

Gentle births occur throughout the world: in homes, where births have traditionally been natural and without intervention; in birthing centers, which are becoming more popular as women demand greater freedom in giving birth; and in some hospitals that are responding to the needs and desires of today’s families. Women worldwide are seeking more natural, family-centered ways to birth their children and experience this passage into motherhood as life affirming, without the suffering and trauma that have been traditionally associated with labor and delivery.

Ingredients for a Gentle Birth

Before describing the important elements of gentle birth, I want to point out that these are merely suggestions. Gentle birth is not a method or a set of rules that must be followed. Rather, it is an approach to birth that incorporates a woman’s own values and beliefs. Every birth is a powerful experience--sometimes painful, always transformational. Each birth is as unique as the woman giving birth and the baby being born. There is no illustrated owner’s manual.

Many women’s early social conditioning that makes them believe they are unable to give birth normally must be replaced with a newfound understanding of the philosophy of and the ideas behind gentle birth. When women realize that their bodies know how to give birth and that their babies know how to be born, they gain confidence. Only then is gentle birth a possibility.

A gentle birth takes place when a woman is supported by the people she chooses to be with during this most intimate time. She needs to be loved and nurtured by those around her so she can feel comfortable and secure enough to follow her natural instincts. A birthing woman must be trusted so she in turn can trust herself, her body, her partner, her baby, and this process of giving birth. Her intuition must be respected. During a natural gentle birth, a woman feels and senses the power of the birth and uses this energy to transform every part of her own being. A gentle birth is not rushed. The baby emerges at its own pace and in its own time, received into the hands of those who love and recognize it for the divine gift that it is.

Some of the most important ingredients for a natural gentle birth are described on the following pages. Each woman has individual needs and preferences, so again, use these elements only as guidelines.

Preparation
 The education that best prepares a woman for a gentle birth is one that empowers her through information and a belief in her ability to give birth naturally. The original childbirth educators were mothers who labored in front of their children and included them in the folk medicine of the day. Pregnant women asked their mothers about a pain or an ache, and the mothers responded by saying, “Oh, I had that with all three of you.” For the daughter to experience her mother giving birth is worth a whole course in childbirth education. In sharing her mother’s labor and giving birth, she learns about the essence of this miracle firsthand.

Today childbirth educators have taken over the job of mothers whose memories of birth were obliterated with drugs, unconsciousness, and the medical treatments of the day. There are many styles of education and preparation for birth. One of the most important components for all methods of childbirth preparation is a healthy attitude. Women pay attention to their bodies throughout their pregnancy by eating healthful foods, avoiding stress, sticking to a physical exercise program, being cautious about exposing themselves to harmful chemicals or toxins, and maintaining a positive emotional outlook. While preparing for a gentle birth, it’s important to keep an open mind as to how the birth will actually proceed. Flexibility is essential, because in some cases medical intervention may be necessary.

I recommend that a woman look into her attitudes, ideas, and beliefs about birth. This may include exploring her feelings about her sexuality, her relationship with the baby’s father, and her relationships with her parents. A woman who is comfortable with her sexuality will feel less inhibited sexually during the birth. A woman who has examined her own birth will not be likely to repeat the pattern of that birth in the one she is preparing for. A woman who has a good sense of herself will not be easily swayed away from what she knows to be right for herself. A woman who is at peace with her partner and her family members will find comfort in and draw strength from those bonds and will want to include those people in the birthing experience.

Table of Contents

Foreword by Robbie Davis-Floyd

Acknowledgments

Introduction

Chapter 1
Gentle Beginnings
Wonderfully Made Ingredients for a Gentle Birth

Chapter 2
The Medicalization of Childbirth
Our Legacy of Birth From Midwife to Physician The Promise of Science Pain Relief: The Era of “Twilight Sleep”
Hospital Births for Everyone Unmasking Prenatal Testing Medical Legal Dilemmas The Results of Medical Intervention

Chapter 3
Dispelling the Medical Myths
Myth: The Hospital is the Safest Place to Have a Baby Myth: Maternity Care Should Be Managed Only by a Physician Myth: The Electronic Fetal Monitor Will Save Babies Myth: All Babies Should be Born On or Before Their Due Date Myth: Drugs for Pain Relief Won’t Hurt the Baby Myth: Once a Cesarean, Always a Cesarean Myth: An Episiotomy Heals Better Than a Tear Myth: Birth Needs to be Sterile Myth: The Older You Are the More Difficult Your Birth Will Be Myth: It’s Better Not to Eat or Drink during Labor Myth: Family and Friends Interfere during Birth Myth: The Baby Needs to be Observed in a Newborn Nursery Myth: Baby Boys Need to Be Circumcised

Chapter 4
A Gentle Revolution
Birth without Fear Birth without Pain Birth without Violence Birth Reborn Birth without Rules Birth with Consciousness Women Take Back Their Births

Chapter 5
Midwifery In America: A Growing Tradition
The Midwives Model of Maternity Care The Evolution of Midwifery Midwifery Revolution The Politics of Midwifery A Midwife for Every Mother

Chapter 6
Waterbirth
Why Waterbirth?
Waterbirth History Beyond the Leboyer Bath Labor Pools in France Making Waves in the United States The United Kingdom Takes the Plunge Waterbirth around the World Questions Everyone Asks About Waterbirth Just For Providers The Future of Waterbirth

Chapter 7
The Mind-Body Connection
Womb Ecology
Mind-Body Response Listening to Your Body Listening to the Baby Mind-Body Preparations for a Gentle Birth The Sexuality of Childbirth Holistic Prenatal Preparation Mind, Body, Spirit in Unity

Chapter 8
Creating Gentle Birth Choices
Planning Your Birth What Women Want Consumers Create Choices Health Care For All Women and Children by 2015

Appendix A: Questions to Ask a Doctor

Appendix B: Questions to Ask a Midwife

Appendix C: Sample Birth Plan

Appendix D: Sample Letter to Hospital

Appendix E: Resources

Notes

Bibliography

About the Photographs and the Photographers

Index

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  • Anonymous

    Posted June 4, 2010

    Great Book!

    I found this book to very informative and helpful. The author reviews a mother's options from a planned ceserean, to homebirth and everything in between. Its a great starting place for someone who might think there is only one way to have a baby, (eventually its coming out, one way or another) or for someone looking for options but really unsure of what options they do have. And its great to start the process of mentally preparing to give birth whichever way one chooses to give birth. The video is great. Prepare yourself. Birth is very intense in so many ways.

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