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Genuine Happiness: Meditation as the Path to Fulfillment
     

Genuine Happiness: Meditation as the Path to Fulfillment

by B. Alan Wallace, The Dalai Lama
 

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Discover your personal path to bliss

"This book will give anyone interested in the spectrum of core meditative practices stemming from the Buddhist tradition but in essence universal the deepest of perspectives on what is possible for us as human beings as well as excellent guidance in the essential, time-tested attitudes and practices for actualizing our

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Discover your personal path to bliss

"This book will give anyone interested in the spectrum of core meditative practices stemming from the Buddhist tradition but in essence universal the deepest of perspectives on what is possible for us as human beings as well as excellent guidance in the essential, time-tested attitudes and practices for actualizing our innate capacity for wisdom, compassion, and well-being, right here and right now."
Jon Kabat-Zinn, author of Coming to Our Senses and Full Catastrophe Living

"In Genuine Happiness, Alan Wallace displays his rare talent in boiling down the complex to the clear and in guiding readers through a practical path to contentment. A gift for all moods and seasons."
Daniel Goleman, author of Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ

"This lucid and rich book offers brillant, wise, and accessible teachings on the essentials of four core meditation techniques that lead one to genuine joy and happiness. Alan Wallace's years of practice and teaching shine through every page, as with ease and great humanity, he brings to the reader the possibility of liberation."
Joan Halifax Roshi, abbot of Upaya Zen Center

"Genuine Happiness is a treasure chest of wisdom: clear, inspiring teaching jewels. It is an excellent support for any student of meditation."
Sharon Salzberg, author of Faith: Trusting Your Own Deepest Experience

In today's overstimulated world, many are realizing that happiness gained through material wealth and frivolous conquests is short-lived. To achieve long-term happiness, you must access your own bountiful resources—housed in your heart and mind. In Genuine Happiness, longtime Buddhist practitioner Alan Wallace shows you the path to bliss.

Drawing on more than three decades of study under His Holiness the Dalai Lama and sixty other teachers, as well as 2,500 years of Buddhist tradition, Alan Wallace guides you step by step through five simple yet powerful meditations to help you focus your mind and open your heart to true happiness. Featuring a Foreword by the Dalai Lama, this book will help you discover that it is possible to experience genuine happiness every day.

As you incorporate the meditations from Genuine Happiness into your life, you will discover that the joy you've sought has always been only a few meditative minutes away.

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Wallace, a longtime student and practitioner of Buddhism, has learned from the Dalai Lama (who contributes the foreword) and 60 other teachers. Here he takes lessons learned to suggest that worldly happiness is short-lived. The happiness that lasts, he suggests, comes through self-awareness. Wallace's remedies for unhappiness and the path to true happiness are deeply rooted in the Tibetan Buddhist tradition, but he makes the material accessible by using a minimum of daunting terms. For most collections. Copyright 2005 Reed Business Information.

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ISBN-13:
9780470353134
Publisher:
Turner Publishing Company
Publication date:
05/02/2008
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256
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967,063
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Genuine Happiness


By B. Alan Wallace

John Wiley & Sons

ISBN: 0-471-46984-X


Chapter One

Mindfulness of Breathing

Methods for refining the attention were already developed to a very sophisticated degree in India 2,500 years ago, during the time of Gautama the Buddha. These advanced states of samadhi, or meditative concentration, were found to yield profound states of serenity and bliss, and many contemplatives cultivated these states as ends in themselves. Gautama's great innovation was to further develop these methods of samadhi, then apply this refined, focused attention to the direct, experiential investigation of the mind and its relation to the rest of the world. In this way, the cultivation of shamatha, or meditative quiescence, is analogous to the development of the telescope for the sustained, precise observation of celestial phenomena. The only instrument we have for directly observing mental phenomena is mental awareness, and this is honed into a fine tool by the development of shamatha.

The Buddha taught dozens of techniques to refine, stabilize, and clarify the attention. One in particular is especially appropriate for highly discursive, conceptual, imaginative, mentally talkative people: mindfulness of breathing. From the earliest records we have of the Buddha's own pursuit of liberation, on the night of his enlightenment, he first stabilized his mind with the practice of shamatha, then applied it to vipashyana,the cultivation of contemplative insight into the nature of reality.

Mindfulness of breathing was the first Buddhist meditation I began practicing, and I often recommend it to my students as the first step on the meditative path. I began learning it from books in 1970, especially the writings of the Thai monk Buddhadasa. I was leading the life of a reclusive college student at the time, spending a lot of time reading about the contemplative traditions of the world, and beginning to study the Tibetan language. A few years later, when I was living as a monk in the mountains above Dharamsala, India, I received personal instruction in the technique from two Theravada Buddhist meditation teachers who had trained in Burma and Thailand, Goenka and Kitti Subho. In 1980, I traveled to Sri Lanka, solely to meditate, and I then had the opportunity to train for months in this practice under the renowned scholar and contemplative Balangoda Anandamaitreya. Over the years, I have also been taught variations of this practice by a number of Tibetan lamas, but I have relied primarily on my Theravada teachers for this kind of meditation.

Practice

In our practices for refining and balancing the attention, we will begin with the Buddhist strategy of moving from the coarse to the subtle, from the easy to the more difficult. This approach begins with mindfulness of breathing, proceeds to settling the mind in its natural state, and concludes with the practice of simply being aware of being aware. In each of these practices, we start the session by establishing a suitable bodily posture, and cultivating three qualities as we "settle the body in its natural state": relaxation, stillness, and vigilance.

Relaxation

There are two postures I would recommend for this practice: sitting or lying down. Generally, the optimal and most widely recommended posture is sitting cross-legged on a cushion. If this is too uncomfortable, you may sit in a chair, with both feet resting on the ground. But another, less commonly used posture is lying down on the back, with your arms outstretched to your sides, palms up, and your head resting on a pillow. This is especially useful if you have a back problem or if you are physically tired or ill.

Whatever posture you adopt, let your body rest at ease, with your spine straight but not rigid. Relax your shoulders, with your arms loosely dropping to your sides. Allow gravity to take over. Now bring your awareness to your face. It's best if your eyes are hooded, not completely shut. Soften the muscles of your face, specifically the jaw, temples, and forehead. Soften your eyes. Let your face be as relaxed as that of a sleeping baby. Then complete this initial relaxation process by taking three slow, deep, gentle breaths through the nostrils. As you inhale, breathe smoothly and deeply down to the bottom of your abdomen. Like filling a pot with water, feel your abdomen slowly fill and expand, then breathe into your diaphragm, and finally into the upper chest. Then release the breath fully, without forcing it out. Do this three times, keeping your awareness present in the body, especially noting the sensations of the in- and out-breaths. Following these deep breaths, return to normal, unregulated respiration. Let this quality of bodily relaxation be an outer expression of your mind: let your awareness be at ease, releasing all your cares; simply be present in the here and now.

As you breathe in and out, direct your attention to the tactile sensations of the passage of the breath at the apertures of your nostrils or above your upper lip. Take a moment to locate the sensation. Rest your attention right where you feel the incoming and outgoing breaths. Once in a while, check to see that you are still breathing down into the abdomen. This will happen naturally if your body is settled, with your back straight and your belly relaxed and soft.

Stillness

Throughout each meditation session, let your body be as still as possible, with a minimum of fidgeting; remain motionless as a mountain. This helps to bring about the same quality in the mind: one of stillness, where your attention is focused and continuous.

Vigilance

Even if you are lying down, let your posture reflect a sense of vigilance, not just collapsing into drowsiness. If you are sitting up, either on a cushion or in a chair, slightly raise your sternum, while keeping the belly soft and relaxed. In this way, you will naturally breathe into your abdomen first, and when the respiration deepens you may feel your diaphragm and chest expanding as well. Sit at attention, without slouching forward or tilting to either side. This physical posture also reinforces this same quality of vigilance mentally.

Mindfulness of Breathing

Maintaining focused attention is vital for virtually everything we do throughout the day, including working, driving, relating to others, enjoying times of recreation and entertainment, and engaging in spiritual practice. Therefore, the theme for this session is learning to focus the attention. Whatever your normal level of attention-whether you are usually scattered or composed-the quality of your attention can be improved, and this brings with it extraordinary benefits. In this practice, we shift from a compulsively conceptual, fragmented mode of awareness to one of deeper simplicity, moving into a witnessing or observing mode. In addition to honing the attention, this meditation will enhance your health, tune your nervous system, allow you to sleep better, and improve your emotional balance. This is a different way of applying our minds, and it improves with practice. The specific method we will follow is the cultivation of mindfulness of breathing.

Due to habit, thoughts are bound to intrude. When they come, just release them as you exhale, without identifying with them, without emotionally responding to them. Watch the thought emerge, pass before you, and then fade away. Then rest your attention in the sense of repose, not dull and sluggish, but at ease. For the time being, if all you can accomplish in one ghatika, or twenty-four minutes, is to bring forth a sense of mental relaxation, that's great. Maintain your attention right where you feel the sensations of the in- and out-breaths.

Maintain mindfulness of your breathing as continuously as you can. The term mindfulness in this context refers to the faculty of focusing continuously upon a familiar, chosen object without distraction. In Tibetan and Sanskrit, the word translated as mindfulness also means remembering. So the cultivation of mindfulness means maintaining an unbroken flow of remembering, remembering, remembering. It doesn't involve any internal commentary. You are simply remembering to attend to the stream of tactile sensations of the in- and out-breaths. The quality of awareness you are cultivating here is a kind of bare attention, a simple witnessing, with no mental analysis or conceptual elaboration. In addition to sustaining mindfulness, it's crucial to apply introspection intermittently throughout the session. This does not mean thinking about yourself. Rather, it is the internal monitoring of your mental state. By means of introspection, looking within, you can determine whether your attention has disengaged from the breath and has wandered off to sounds, other sensations in your body, or vagrant thoughts, memories, or anticipations of the future. Introspection entails quality control, monitoring the processes of both the mind and the body. From time to time, see if any tension has built up around your eyes or forehead. If so, release it. Let your face soften and relax. Then spend a few minutes seeing if you can divide your attention while remaining at ease. Be mindful of your breath, but also be aware of how your mind is operating.

Let me emphasize that this is not a concentration technique in the Western sense. We are not bearing down with tight, focused effort. It is essential to maintain a physical and mental sense of relaxation, and on that basis we gradually enhance the stability and then the vividness of attention. This entails a spacious quality of awareness, and within that spaciousness, a sense of openness and ease; mindfulness comes to rest on the breath, like a hand laid gently on a child's head. As the vividness of attention increases, you will notice sensations even between breaths. As the turbulence of the mind subsides, you will find that you can simply attend to the tactile sensations of the breath, rather than your thoughts about it.

I'll now introduce a technique you may find useful on occasion, a simple device of counting that, done with precision, may bring greater stability and continuity to your attention. Once again, with a luxurious sense of being at ease and giving your overworked and overwrought conceptual mind a rest, place your attention on the tactile sensations of the breath. After exhaling, just as the next in-breath begins, mentally count "one." Maintaining an erect posture, with the chest raised so the breath flows back in effortlessly, breathe in and follow the tactile sensations of the breath, letting your conceptual mind rest. Then experience the wonderful sense of refreshment as the breath is released, all the way out, until reaching the next turnaround point. Cultivate a "Teflon mind"-a mind to which nothing sticks, that doesn't cling to thoughts about the present, past, or future. In this manner, count from one to ten. You may then repeat counting to ten, or continue counting up from ten to higher numbers. This is a practice of simplifying rather than suppressing your discursive mind. You are reducing mental activity to just counting, taking a holiday from compulsive thinking throughout the entire cycle of the breath. Practice for several minutes before ending this session.

To bring any worthy endeavor to a close in a meaningful fashion, Buddhists dedicate merit. Something has been drawn together in our hearts and minds by applying ourselves to this wholesome activity. After completing a meditation session, you may want to dwell for a minute or so to dedicate the merit of your practice, that it may lead to the fulfillment of whatever you find to be most meaningful for yourself and for others. With intention and attention, that goodness can be directed wherever we wish.

For Further Contemplation

The Buddha praised the practice of mindfulness of breathing as an exceptionally effective way to balance and purify the mind:

Just as in the last month of the hot season, when a mass of dust and dirt has swirled up, a great rain cloud out of season disperses it and quells it on the spot, so too concentration by mindfulness of breathing, when developed and cultivated, is peaceful and sublime, an ambrosial dwelling, and it disperses and quells on the spot unwholesome states whenever they arise.

In the practice of shamatha we consciously rest our awareness upon our breathing. The breath is like a steed and awareness is its rider. Attending to the breath is unlikely to arouse craving or aversion. Shifting into neutral, we neither aggravate nor distort the mind. Therefore, you might expect this practice to be rather boring. The object of attention doesn't seem very interesting, just the same old breath. And yet once you have developed some continuity, there are surprises in store. You will find a sense of well-being and balance that arises in a quiet, serene way, as if you are listening to waves rolling into shore. You can rest in that serenity and settle deeper and deeper. Your mind is like a stream, and you are simply not polluting it with distractions. Those who have studied the natural environment know that if you stop contaminating a polluted river, its self-purifying ability will come to the fore. The same is true for the natural healing properties of the mind.

We all know something about the earth's natural resources and the importance of conserving them, but don't we also have internal natural resources? Might not the mind, in a very practical, everyday sense, become its own source of well-being? Whenever I see His Holiness the Dalai Lama, I feel I am meeting a man whose heart, mind, and spirit are overflowing with uncontrived goodwill, compassion, and cheer. He must have done some extraordinary exploration of his inner resources to open up such a wellspring. Since we all have an eternal longing to find real satisfaction that fills the heart, a longing that looks for more than a continuous stream of pleasurable stimuli, for something deeper, something more fulfilling, how can we tap into that resource? Shamatha is like a drilling platform from which to begin fathoming our inner natural resources.

If you are drawn to the practice of breath awareness, do it for at least one session a day, though two would be best-one in the morning and one in the evening. Twenty-four minutes is a duration that Indian and Chinese yogis settled on independently. In ancient Chinese theory, it is said that twenty-four minutes is the duration required for the qi, or vital energies in your body, to go through one complete cycle. For the Indians the same time period was considered optimal for one's meditation sessions when one first begins to practice. Later you may wish to extend this longer. Keep in mind that twenty-four minutes is only a small fraction of the approximately sixteen hours a day that you are awake. If that is the only spiritual practice you do, if there is no carryover to everything else, then no matter what happens in that twenty-four minutes, it will not have a very transformative effect on your life as a whole. There is just too much competition from the activities of the other fifteen and a half hours.

Mindfulness in Daily Life

Here are some guidelines drawn from the teachings of Asanga, a great fifth-century Indian Buddhist adept, that may help you extend your practice into daily life:

Restrain your six senses (mental awareness as well as the five physical senses) from objects that arouse craving or hostility. This doesn't mean that you should never be thinking about anything pleasant or unpleasant. Simply avoid dwelling on them in ways that upset the equilibrium of your mind. If you want to attend to them, do so, but don't feed the mental afflictions of attachment and aversion. That would be like polluting a mountain stream. Similarly, if you focus on things that are disappointing in yourself or in others, they will become your reality. So avoid dwelling on those things that arouse hostility, irritation, negativity, craving, anxiety, and grasping.

Furthermore, don't become attached to the input from your senses. When a monk walks down the road, he is to cast his gaze downward so that he doesn't focus on things that may catalyze craving or hostility. The point is this: don't go to places where you are bound to succumb to obsessive desires. Sensual craving is one of the five hindrances that the Buddha taught as obstructing the process of refining the attention. Another is malice. When you are troubled by someone's negative behavior toward you, attend to that person with compassion. Being dominated by angry, hateful thoughts simply poisons the mind. Protect your mind from malice as you would shelter a child from injury.

(Continues...)



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Meet the Author

B. ALAN WALLACE, Ph.D., a scholar and practitioner of Buddhism since 1970, has taught Buddhist theory and meditation throughout Europe and North and South America since 1976. He devoted fourteen years to training as a Tibetan Buddhist monk and was ordained by the Dalai Lama. Wallace also earned an undergraduate degree in physics and the philosophy of science at Amherst College and a doctorate in religious studies at Stanford. He lives in Santa Barbara, where he founded the Santa Barbara Institute for Consciousness Studies.

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