A must read for those whom have experienced mental illness, whether personally or professionally.
Ghellow Road was much more than I expected, and it left my heart completely weeping for Waters. Mental illness is like a cruel joker, creeping up on happy and healthy individuals and their families, then pulling the rug right out from under them. My heart went out to Waters after the suicide of her father, as he seemed not able to cope any longer with his wife's illness. I don't believe Richard loved his children any less, even after he started to pull away from them or by taking his own life. Richard seemed like he was an amazing father, who wanted to be the perfect husband. I believe Richard was a caring, compassionate, loving soul who felt helpless and fell into a deep depression, when it finally sunk in that his wife would never be the same again. Richard seemed to have loved his wife deeply and couldn't picture his life without his wife, the women he first met, before Schizophrenia took her away. As Waters narrates her story, you can certainly sense when her father lost interest in his children and in his life, in general. Shutting himself off from the world, a coping mechanism commonly used by those with depression, that can backfire. The work Richard did in his basement, focusing all his attention on one thing before his death, were his last feeble attempts at trying to feel alive, find meaning and seeking happiness in his life. I believe Waters is blessed in many ways, some of which includes, the strength she used to keep herself going throughout her traumatic life and the gift of writing, that allows her to share her traumatic past with others. As by sharing her story, she has certainly touched my heart, while also giving me hope. The hope that even though we may be hurt and our hearts shattered by those with mental illness, we can still love them in the end. We may have no control over the type of family we are born into, but we certainly have control over refusing to let those with mental illness suck us up into their vacuum of madness. Waters did the best she could, given her circumstances, to live out her life in peace and happiness. Staying away from her mother Rainy and later her brother, when they were not in their right mind, was crucial to her survival and her own mental state. I also believe even in her madness, Rainy tried to protect her daughter, the only way she knew how, hence the reasons for pushing Theresa away, at those times in her life, when she felt another episode coming on. Waters was given these trials and tribulations in her life for a reason, she was also given the tools she needed, those of which include strength and the intelligence to overcome these obstacles, and she used those tools wisely. A little secret her father knew about her, which is why he left her the message he did upon his death. We are all born for a purpose, most have no idea what that may be, and while seeking continue headed in the wrong direction. Whether that correct path may include helping, healing or just being there, it always involves other lives, and other souls similar to our own. Waters has truly found her purpose, by sharing her painful past in this novel, Ghellow Road. My hope is that Waters continues to write other novels. As Waters is a gifted writer, who's words run fluidly on the pages, keeping the reader suspended in time and space. I also feel Waters has so much more to tell, even if she were to encase those secrets within fiction, she will help many more lost souls on this road we call life.
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