Good Kids, Tough Choices: How Parents Can Help Their Children Do the Right Thing

Good Kids, Tough Choices: How Parents Can Help Their Children Do the Right Thing

by Rushworth M. Kidder
     
 

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A practical analysis and inspiring guide for teaching kids "ethical fitness"

Parents are beginning to realize that deficiencies in ethics and character are becoming a big problem among our nation's children. According to the latest data, lying, cheating, and rampant insensitivity to other people are increasingly common. What can parents do? In this book,

Overview

A practical analysis and inspiring guide for teaching kids "ethical fitness"

Parents are beginning to realize that deficiencies in ethics and character are becoming a big problem among our nation's children. According to the latest data, lying, cheating, and rampant insensitivity to other people are increasingly common. What can parents do? In this book, ethics expert Rushworth Kidder shows how to customize interventions to a child's age and temperament. He encourages parents not to give up, since what they do can always make a difference, regardless of how long or deep the bad habits of dishonesty may be.

  • Encourages parents to intervene early and re-establish children on the right course
  • Explores the keys to ethical behavior: honesty, responsibility, respect, fairness, and compassion

All of Kidder's practical advice is based on the latest psychological and neuroscientific research about how kids develop character and learn what's right and wrong.

Editorial Reviews

Publishers Weekly
Kidder (How Good People Make Tough Choices), founder and president of the Institute for Global Ethics, a nonprofit organization that promotes character and integrity in corporations and other groups, focuses on parenting issues in his latest volume on the subject of ethics. Kidder treats children from birth to age 23, with age-appropriate chapters that address such questions as how to respond when children lie or steal, how kids can overcome selfishness, and how to react when a child breaks school rules. Arguing that "ethical fitness" can be taught and requires the same kind of long-term commitment as physical fitness, Kidder considers common ethical challenges through the three "lenses" of knowing what's right, making tough choices, and standing for conscience. Using "extended narratives" developed from seminars and interviews, the author dissects a range of moral dilemmas and explains how, through discourse and conversation, modeling and mentoring, and practice and persistence, parents can help kids develop moral courage and make ethical decisions. Kidder maintains that good moral habits can be taught and developed when parents are willing to make a commitment to communicate and stay involved. (Oct.)
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Kidder (How Good People Make Tough Choices), founder and president of the Institute for Global Ethics, a nonprofit organization that promotes character and integrity in corporations and other groups, focuses on parenting issues in his latest volume on the subject of ethics. Kidder treats children from birth to age 23, with age-appropriate chapters that address such questions as how to respond when children lie or steal, how kids can overcome selfishness, and how to react when a child breaks school rules. Arguing that "ethical fitness" can be taught and requires the same kind of long-term commitment as physical fitness, Kidder considers common ethical challenges through the three "lenses" of knowing what's right, making tough choices, and standing for conscience. Using "extended narratives" developed from seminars and interviews, the author dissects a range of moral dilemmas and explains how, through discourse and conversation, modeling and mentoring, and practice and persistence, parents can help kids develop moral courage and make ethical decisions. Kidder maintains that good moral habits can be taught and developed when parents are willing to make a commitment to communicate and stay involved. (Oct.) (Publishers Weekly, September 6, 2010)
Library Journal - BookSmack!
Kidder, founder of the nonprofit and nonsectarian Institute for Global Ethics, here presents a combo of research and parenting tools for raising kids with strong moral convictions based on five shared values common to cultures around the world: honesty, responsibility, respect, fairness, and compassion. Organizing the book by age group (birth through 23), he shows parents how to navigate dilemmas and live by sound guidelines, arrive at wise decisions, and have the courage of conviction. These three lenses-core values in the early years, decision making in the middle years, and considerations of moral courage for the older set-are explored through realistic scenarios based on actual experiences and interviews with parents. This would pair nicely with Ian James Corlett's E Is for Ethics, which uses sample scenarios to help younger children develop an ethical compass, or The World Needs Your Kid (below). Recommended. Julianne J. Smith, "Parenting Short Takes", Booksmack!, 10/21/10

Product Details

ISBN-13:
9780470547625
Publisher:
Wiley
Publication date:
09/28/2010
Edition description:
Original
Pages:
272
Product dimensions:
5.90(w) x 8.90(h) x 0.80(d)

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