Hanging on to Max

Hanging on to Max

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by Margaret Bechard
     
 

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It's Sam Pettigrew's last year of high school. And he's spending it figuring out how, at age seventeen, he is supposed to care for his baby son, Max.
Max wasn't part of the plan. He wasn't even part of the backup plan. But he's here now, and Sam is attending an alternative high school with other teen parents like himself. Talk about a wake-up call. But Sam is

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It's Sam Pettigrew's last year of high school. And he's spending it figuring out how, at age seventeen, he is supposed to care for his baby son, Max.
Max wasn't part of the plan. He wasn't even part of the backup plan. But he's here now, and Sam is attending an alternative high school with other teen parents like himself. Talk about a wake-up call. But Sam is determined to make it work, to show everyone — his dad, his new girlfriend, himself — that he has what it takes to be a good dad.
Trading footballs for diaper bags and college brochures for feeding schedules, Sam gives fatherhood his best shot. Only no one told him it would be this hard. What if his best isn't good enough?

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Publishers Weekly Unfailingly real.

SLJ starred review A breath of fresh air....A poignant winner of a book.

Booklist Realistic and perceptive.

Publishers Weekly
A 17-year-old unwed father struggles to juggle his responsibilities as a parent and student. "The teen's conflicted perceptions of his role as father, friend and son are intermittently droll and wrenching," wrote PW. Ages 12-up. (Dec.) Copyright 2004 Reed Business Information.
VOYA
This short novel examines teen parenthood and how its responsibilities can interfere with students' lives. The twist in this story is that the parent is a boy. Sam is a basketball star with plans to go to college, but a fling with his girlfriend changes everything. Holding his newborn in the hospital, Sam knows he cannot give up his son, although his girlfriend has already decided to do so. With help from his father and aunt, he begins the life of a struggling single parent, attending an alternative school while losing his friends and lots of sleep. Sam faces sexism as the only male in the program and fights daily fatigue. Only a chance to take the SATs and a budding relationship with a young mother in similar straits keep him going. He promised to get a construction job when he graduated to help his father with expenses, but his scores encourage him to consider college. Baby Max is almost a year old and consumes the bulk of Sam's time and money. His girlfriend and her baby could become his new family—albeit one with many financial difficulties. He could choose a future that selfishly would include only himself. Sam's surprising decision involves a gut-wrenching look at his priorities. This book is a quick, easy read that touches upon many real-life issues. Some characters are a little underdeveloped and might be too good to be true, but the story will make the reader think, "What would I do?" PLB
— Kevin Beach <%ISBN%>0761315799
KLIATT
To quote from the review in KLIATT, May 2002: This is a poignant story of a 17-year-old who wants to raise his baby son when the mother says she will give the baby up for adoption. With the help of his dour father and helpful aunt (Sam's mother is dead), Sam gets through almost a year with Max, his son. He had promised his father to "take responsibility," giving up his social life, sports, and plans to go to college. This novel tells about how Sam's life unravels in his senior year. Part of the catalyst comes when a teacher helps him prepare for the SATs and he studies with another teenage parent, Claire. The two teenagers get close and it seems like it could be easy to team up and become a family, raising their two babies together. A night out being "normal" teenagers, playing ball in the driveway, fixing a meal, ends in an accident and a trip to take Max to the emergency room. Although this isn't ultimately too traumatic, it proves to Sam that he has to rethink his decisions about being a father. Readers may not quite understand all of Sam's reasoning. It looks as though the plot is heading in one direction, but it veers sharply after this trip to the hospital. A final chapter, when Max becomes 18, helps us realize that Sam's ultimate decision is a wise one for himself and for his baby son. I'm not positive about the statistics, but would imagine that for cultural reasons, being a teenage father happens less frequently with white middle-class teenagers, because so frequently abortion is the option for teenage pregnancy in that group. Sam is white and middle-class; he would have been heading for college and a promising future, given his academic skills. Still, the story could work as acautionary tale (and it is a good story in itself) about the difficulties of parenting. (An ALA Best Book for YAs; ALA Quick Pick for Reluctant Readers.) KLIATT Codes: JS*-Exceptional book, recommended for junior and senior high school students. 2002, Simon & Schuster, 204p., Ages 12 to 18.
— Claire Rosser
Sam fell in love with Max at first sight. And when Brittany admits the "mother thing" is not for her, Sam becomes custodial parent. At seventeen, it means that Sam must give up all his plans for his high school senior year and beyond: football, college and becoming a computer engineer. At his alternative high school, Sam is the only male single parent. And so he wonders: Is he right on course? Sam's father, a single parent himself (Sam's mother died when he was eleven), offers to help Sam finish high school and arranges for a job in construction afterwards. College is not in Sam's plans. Parenting, as Sam learns, is not easy, and every day brings another challenge to keep Sam from achieving success. Slowly, Sam realizes that his own life — now with child in tow — will never be the same. An easy read filled with practical wisdom, this book is highly recommended as an important edition for any adolescent classroom collection. 2002, Roaring Brook Press, 160 pp., Anne Webb
School Library Journal
Gr 8 Up-Sam Pettigrew has transferred from his old high school to an alternative school for a very good reason. When his girlfriend wants to give their baby up for adoption, the 17-year-old assumes the role of custodial single parent of his son, Max. The story begins with Sam in his new role as father and moves back and forth between his current troubles and his earlier ones: the death of his mother, his emotionally distant father, and his peer relationships. Sam's world is generally a supportive one, full of friends, teachers, and family. However, he and his father made a deal; if Sam graduates and then goes on to work a construction job, he'll support Sam and Max for one year. There will be no college in Sam's future, even with his great SAT scores. The young man has taken responsibility for himself and his actions. However, he is still an ordinary teenager trying his hardest to do the right thing, the best thing for the tiny, much-loved son that transformed his life and possibly his future. As Bechard deftly shows, the choices made in small ordinary moments are as important as the big "turning points" in determining the course of a life. In a world where much of YA literature is fraught with "noir" plots peopled with dysfunctional characters caught in tragic situations, Hanging on to Max is a breath of fresh air. Bechard has written a poignant winner of a book peopled with human beings all struggling to make their lives work. And she has created in Sam an unforgettable and realistic protagonist full of heart and guts.-Jane Halsall, McHenry Public Library District, IL Copyright 2002 Cahners Business Information.
Kirkus Reviews
A high-school senior copes with the challenges of taking care of a baby while trying to get a diploma and maintain a social life. As she did in If It Doesn't Kill You (1999)-which was about an adolescent boy dealing with his father's homosexuality-Bechard again takes on a challenging issue: teenage parenthood. But in a nice change of pace, Bechard's protagonist is that unusual breed of kid, an unwed father with sole custody of his infant son. Told in the first person by a youngster who has powerful feelings he has trouble expressing, the narrative neatly lays out Sam's dilemma-how to be a good father without completely sacrificing his dreams for the future. While many young adults in his situation are truly caught between a rock and a hard place, some of the obstacles Sam faces feel manufactured, giving the reader the sense that they could be ameliorated if he would just open his mouth and ask for assistance. The protagonist, who lives at home with his equally inexpressive father, is nicely foiled by two classmates, both teenage mothers, who help round out the situation and demonstrate the various experiences of young parenthood. A disconcerting resolution mars the piece, negating much of the action that came before it and leaving the unprepared reader unsettled and dissatisfied. Even so, the author should be commended for taking on a tricky topic, the demands, delights, and difficulties of being young, single, and a dad. (Fiction. 12+)

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Product Details

ISBN-13:
9780689862687
Publisher:
Simon Pulse
Publication date:
12/01/2003
Edition description:
Reprint
Pages:
176
Sales rank:
165,907
Product dimensions:
5.00(w) x 7.00(h) x 0.50(d)
Age Range:
12 - 17 Years

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Chapter One

The total silence woke me up. I opened my eyes, slowly, and there they all were, watching me. Ms. Garcia, with her sad little worn-out smile. The rest of the class, grinning like monkeys. The room was almost dark, except for the light from the slide projector.

"Nice nap, Sam?" Ms. Garcia asked. Everyone burst out laughing. Ooh. Good one, Ms. Garcia. Except what teacher in her right mind would turn out the lights and show slides at 1:30 in the afternoon?

I shrugged upright in my desk. "Sorry." I shook my head, trying to clear it out.

"Do you know what this slide is, Sam?"

I squinted at the screen. "Jupiter?"

People applauded. Someone in the back whistled. I rubbed my eyes. When I'd fallen asleep, there'd been a slide of a woman making cookies. Ms. Garcia's "Why We Should Study Math" inspirational slide show.

"Okay," Ms. Garcia said, "in 1995 NASA sent a probe from the Galileo spacecraft down through the atmosphere of Jupiter." The slide projector clunked to a picture of the probe.

"It looks like a giant tit," some guy said.

Ms. Garcia sighed. "Okay. Well. The probe sent back a stream of data for 57.6 minutes, until the incredible pressure of the Jovian atmosphere crushed it."

"Poor little probe," the girl next to me said.

"Bor-ing," somebody in back said.

I imagined the probe, analyzing, computing, while the weight of Jupiter pressed in heavier and heavier.

"So," Ms. Garcia said, "do you think the scientists at NASA had to use math to design this probe? And to communicate with it?"

"I'd rather design a giant tit," the guy in back said.

Ms. Garcia sighed. The next slide was a Volvo. "Now back on Earth the safety engineers..."

I put my head back down on the desk and closed my eyes.

The bell woke me up. Kids were grabbing books and papers, cramming them into backpacks. Everybody talking at once. At the front of the room, Ms. Garcia was saying something about turning in the test papers from the beginning of class and something that was due next Wednesday. But nobody was listening. People were jamming up in the doorway, pushing to get out. "Test papers," Ms. Garcia said again.

The guy who sat behind me, who always smelled faintly of sweat and cigarette smoke, slapped my back. "Hey, dude. At least you weren't drooling."

"Right," I said. "Thanks." I stared down at my test. I'd finished it in the first ten minutes. And that had included checking my answers three times. I stood up slowly and shrugged into my backpack.

As I dropped the paper on her desk, Ms. Garcia's hand snaked out and grabbed my wrist. "Give me a couple of minutes, please, Sam?"

I glanced at the clock. "It's 2:30."

"They'll wait for you."

I sighed and moved out of the flow of kids. Good job, Sam. Two weeks into September and already you've ticked her off. Already you're blowing this. A kid stopped to explain why he'd done only the first three problems on the test. And then Marcella went into a long thing about how she was going to Mexico for two weeks and needed to know what she'd miss. I shuffled around a little, banged my foot against the garbage can, just to let them know I was still standing there, but nobody paid any attention.

Finally the last kid left. Ms. Garcia ran her fingers through her hair. Her face was tense, like maybe she had a bad headache.

"I've really gotta go, Ms. Garcia." I pointed to the clock. "And I'm sorry about falling asleep. It's just...we had a bad night last night. I didn't..."

She waved her hand. "I know. I know. Everybody had a bad night last night." She leaned toward me. "The real problem here, Sam, is you don't belong in this class."

I took a breath. "But this is the only math class that fits in my schedule. We went through this whole thing, Mrs. Harriman and me." Besides, I liked this class. I needed an easy class. I took another breath, deeper, slower. Don't panic here, Sam. Get a grip. "I need the credit. I have to graduate this year."

Ms. Garcia tilted her head to one side and looked up at me. "I talked to Mr. Wright, Sam, yesterday. Your math teacher at Willamette View?"

I nodded. Mr. Wright. He'd been okay. Andy had called him "Mr. Wrong," which was pretty dumb, but I'd always laughed, because it was Andy.

"Mr. Wright loaned me a different text. It comes with a computer program. It'll let you work at your own speed."

I laughed. My own speed? My own speed was like a dead stop. "You know, Ms. Garcia, I sort of dropped out of Mr. Wright's class."

"But he says you had a good grasp of all the concepts. A very good grasp, he told me." She pointed to the iMac in the corner. "We can set you up over there. You can work on the computer in class and take the textbook home with you." She held it up, barely. It looked like it weighed about 500 pounds. "It actually gets into precalculus."

I could tell she wanted me to be impressed, excited. "But..." I started.

"And if you get stuck, I can help you out. I was a math major, you know." She smiled at me, her eyes big behind her wire-framed glasses. "I'm not saying it won't be hard work, Sam. But don't just say no. At least think about it." And her smile widened, a little desperate looking. Ms. Garcia, the math major, teaching bonehead math in an alternative high school. "I don't want to lose you, Sam. I think, if you were challenged more, you might sleep a little less."

And who needed sleep? I took another breath. If it would make her happy, if I could stay in her class, if I could graduate like I was supposed to, what was one more thing? "Sure," I said. "Sure. I can give it a try." I took the book. It did weigh 500 pounds.

She nodded, once. "Good. I'm glad, Sam. I don't think you'll regret this."

It took me five minutes to get to my locker. The halls were packed with kids, goofing around, laughing, yelling. Typical end-of-the-day high.

I jerked my locker open. It smelled funny. Gym socks? Rotting sandwich? I didn't have time to figure it out. I grabbed my English book and the stack of government worksheets. I stuffed them all into my backpack and slammed my locker shut.

The secretary looked up from her monitor as I burst through the day care doors. "We'd about given up on you," she said, but she was smiling. They all smiled at me, all the time.

"I had to talk to Ms. Garcia," I said. I shouldered through the door into the crawlers room.

"Here he is!" Mrs. McPherson, the teacher, said. "Here's Daddy."

Max leaned out of her arms toward me, his hands stretched out, his face red and swollen with crying.

I took him. "Hey, buddy. It's okay." He wrapped his arms around my neck, taking a big hiccuppy breath, twining his fingers into the long hairs at the back of my neck. I patted him gently. "Let's go home."

Copyright © 2002 by Margaret Bechard

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Meet the Author

Margaret Bechard is the author of five novels for younger readers, and one other young adult novel, If It Doesn't Kill You, which SLJ praised for its "healthy dose of humor." She lives in Tigard, Oregon, with her family.

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Hanging on to Max 4.4 out of 5 based on 0 ratings. 58 reviews.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
What a good book. We took a vacation and I read this book to pass the time. I fell in love with Max and was conflicted about the ending. It didn't seem to fit with the characters or the rest of the book. However, I still highly recommend the book. It is a quick, but deep, read.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
I loved this book. I recently just read it, I could not put it down. It was amazing, I didn't expect it to be that good. I loved the over-all story as well. It was great. Very much. But, I kept rereading the last couple of chapters, trying to figure out what I was missing, the major question was, "Why did he give up Max, the kid seems to love him so much and he loves the kid too, why would he do that after he saved him the first time, and what was I missing that got him thinking about sending Max to adoption?" Another question I had was, "After eleven months of caring for Max, almost a year, why now decide to let him go? Why isn't he capable of taking care of him?" I realized it was just another tale, probably based on some true story. But I couldn't help to wonder, so of course I kept rereading the book until I caught it. Since I sometimes skim, apparently I did there. There was a clue several times telling us that he was thinking of letting Max go up for adoption. I wish there's a sequel of some sort, it was really interesting and I want to know what ends up happening with Sam and Max, how Emily and Claire are, or how Andy or Jenny is. Or about Sam's new family, I just can't help to wonder. Is there a sequel to this story?
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
As a birthmother who parented first and then placed my birthson when he was 9 months old - I can relate to the pain, decisions, and difficulty a decision like that can be. He never gave up he's still involvedI know the description uses some not ethically appropriate lingo like &quot;gave away&quot; but, the book: Hanging on to Max was one of the first venues I looked to for any kind of support.  My Issues in Contemporary Literature teacher my junior year of high school made it mandatory that we read novels on our own so I asked her if she knew of any &quot;young adult&quot; (my favorite genre) adoption related novels. I had just placed my birth son over the summer. She recommended me this one.  This book couldn't have been a better match. This book was the first thing to ever show me &quot;you are not alone&quot; and probably kept me from looking into other inappropriate ways of coping. . 
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squishy123 More than 1 year ago
this was a great book! i thought it was very interesting how well sam was willing to watch over max and try and raise a baby by himself when he is still very young.
alizea More than 1 year ago
honestly had to be one of the best books ive ever read.
LittleMary More than 1 year ago
I wish this book were available for Nook :(
Mikayleepike16 More than 1 year ago
Hanging on to Max is a realistic fictional book on teen pregnancy and the life of a high schooler taking care of a baby. It is about a boy named Sam who is faced with the life of an average teenager and the life as a teenage parent. Sam's girlfriend became pregnant and wanted to give her baby up for adoption after it was born. Sam didn't like the idea so decided to take in his son and be a single parent. When a teacher offers Sam the chance to take the SATs Sam doesn't quite know what to do. Taking the SATs could change his whole future. Sam is a wonderful person; he is responsible but strives to be a regular teenager. I really loved the story, the wording, and everything about this book. It was great. The best part about it was how it reflects the true life of a teenage parent. I disliked one thing about this book. Almost every other chapter is a flashback of Sam's "previous life" and the whole thing gets a bit confusing if you don't pay attention. Another dislike would be how the book ends. I would really love a follow-up book. I would really recommend this book to any junior high or high schooler, especially one who is into gooey drama.
Sarakeealter6 More than 1 year ago
Hanging on to Max is a realistic fiction about a boy who has to raise his own baby boy while going to high school. It is told from the point of view of Sam, who is very stressed out and self conscious about what others think about him. Sam goes through a lot of trouble, and faces many challenges, including his own father. I really enjoyed reading this book, and I couldn't put it down. I actually ended up reading it all in about 1 hour. I was reading it along with another student in my class, and we both felt the same way about how the story was told. I didn't really have a specific favorite part, but I just loved how it was told and how it explains in great detail everything that Sam is feeling. The only part I actually disliked was the very ending. I wasn't happy with Sam's final decision. I would recommend this book to anyone who loves books that really keep your attention, and wants to know more about how hard life is raising a child while you're still considered a child.
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the book hanging on to max was a very emotional book i had read it and was almost about to cry when i read all the books telling about how Sam had to take max from his mom brittney. but it made me happy when he said he would take care of Max.
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I didn't this it would be good at first. It was pretty good. Definitely realistic. But yes, as someone else said, the ending did very much suck.
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mathisfamily- More than 1 year ago
I did not understand this story for the most part! Why did he give up his little boy like that?! And to "see him" eighteen years later is bull. I hated the ending- and why did he have to lose Claire?! Ugh! It was very real & well written, but the plot had so many holes. Buncha crap! Got three stars- it kept me wanting to turn the page, good dialogue, and some touching father/son moments. Lost two stars- SUCKY PLOT!!
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Guest More than 1 year ago
a down to earth story of teanage parenthood and relationships a bit sad but very realistic
Guest More than 1 year ago
The book Hanging on to Max by Margaret Bechard is about a seventeen year old,named Sam, that is trying to figure out how he's going to take care of his baby son Max. Max was not plan in his future, but yet Sam as a single parent does the best for his son Max. Will he be able to do on his own and show everyone that he could be a good parent or is he will to give him up? You got to read the book to find out! I like this book a lot it shows a lot of about life. I recommend it to everyone it is a great book to read I'm sure you will not put it down.
Guest More than 1 year ago
The book I read was Hanging on to Max. It was by Margaret Bechard. The numbers of pages in the book are 204 pages. The book is mostly told in 3rd person. The person telling the story is Sam. The theme of the book is growing up. The characters are Sam, Max, and Claire. The exposition is dealing with an unexpected pregnancy. The climax is getting good scores on SAT¿s. The thing I liked was the ending of the book if you read the book and find out yourself. Also, I like when they took Max to the hospital, when he cut his hand. The thing I didn¿t like were the bad words because they had too many of them in the book. I also don¿t like when they move to a different things when they are talking. I also didn¿t like some of the book because it talks about weird things they do.
Guest More than 1 year ago
Hanging on to Max is the best book I have ever read. It is about teenage parenthood and all of the difficulties involving it. Sam, the father at age 17, is forced to make a challenging decision on whether or not to give up his son, Max. He holds out for as long as he can, but in theend he knows he has to make the decision. What will it be, keep his son, or give him up for adoption?
Guest More than 1 year ago
hanging on to max is a story of a young father named sam, he has to learn how to raise his son at the age of 17 after his girlfriend brittnay decides she doesnt want to keep max. this book shows all the struggles and responsibilities that a young parent goes through. having a child so young makes you give up all the things you used to do, like sam giving up football and hanging out with friends. i really enjoyed reading this book and i think alot of other people would to.
Guest More than 1 year ago
I love this book because i love how sam wants to hold on to max but he knows he will never be able to handle a responsability like that. i think boys around the globe are going throught this every minute and i think that i would recomend this book to people who are looking for real life situations.
Guest More than 1 year ago
Hanging on to Max is a courageous story about a 17 year-old father (Sam Pettigrew) who takes over his son from his unwilling mother who almost had an abortion. Sam wanted to keep the child because he felt that abortion is not the solution to their mistake.I really enjoyed this book beacuse it opened my eyes to see the true life of a teenage parent. I recommend this book to teenagers so they can get an understanding of what teenage parenting is really like. This novel was great for ages 13 and up.