If you have aging parents, you need this book!
This is the book I wish I had, when my mother encountered a crisis in her late 80's. Like the author of this book, I had to make dozens of frantic phone calls, and navigate my way through the maze of home-care options, legal matters, care facilities, and more.
Maria Tadd's book is a true beacon of light for anyone who has aging parents and wants to prepare for their care in advance.
Although the content of the book is centered around home-care, the information is still invaluable for anyone facing the stressful and overwhelming responsibility of having to place their parent in a care facility.
This book is eminently practical and real. There is no fluff.
It begins with assessing the home as a suitable place for an aging parent, with numerous suggestions as to safety, costs of home-care versus care in a facility, and how to adroitly and compassionately discuss care issues BEFORE a situation becomes critical.
There is even a fascinating chapter on how a care-giver can use natural methods such as nutrition, gentle exercise, as well as herbs and supplements to promote an aging parent's health and fitness for as long as possible.
One of the most interesting portions of the book deals with leading-edge technological inventions, such as passive monitoring devices and even robots which can make an aging person's life at home much safer and more manageable at a very moderate cost.
All in all, pretty much everything a caregiver will need to know about providing care for an aging parent is covered in this book. As a tremendous timesaver, the author has provided numerous questionnaires which can be copied and then filled out when screening in-home caregivers or care facilities. There are even daily schedule charts which can be completed to ensure the aging person lives each day safely and comfortably.
In short, this book has it all.
Unlike some other books on this topic which are written in a somewhat cold and clinical style, Maria Tadd's book radiates warmth and compassion, while being meticulously researched. Much of the book weaves the author's personal narrative in caring for her 95 year old mother with the factual information which she discovered along the way. It makes for an easily readable tone which inspires as well as informs.
As a matter of personal disclosure, I know the author personally, and was able to witness much of the process of her ongoing Odyssey in caring for her mother. One thing is for certain, the author totally "walks her talk" and her book is based totally on her real-life experience.
If you have an aging parent who may need care in the near future, I would most highly recommend this book. It is so much better to be equipped in advance than to face the stress of a crisis unprepared.
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Overview
At last a book that explores innovative ways to help elders live out their
years in the comfort of their own homes.
Maria Tadd, a medical writer, has written a thoroughly researched book that offers creative, cost-effective ideas on how to help a parent grow old at home with dignity. She introduces the reader to an exciting world of new, easy-to-use, high-tech devices and...