Have Sex Like You Just Met - No Matter How Long You've Been Together: Every Girl's Guide to a Sexy and Satisfying Relationship [NOOK Book]

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They say all you need is love. Joselin Linder and Elena Donovan Mauer beg to differ! They say a little sex wouldn't hurt either--especially the scorching and urgent variety that's so common in the beginning of a relationship.

But for many committed couples, heat seems to be in short supply. Fortunately, help is here for lovebirds who spend more time Dancing with the Stars than they do tangled in the sheets. Featuring case studies of twenty- and thirty-something women who have ...

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Have Sex Like You Just Met - No Matter How Long You've Been Together: Every Girl's Guide to a Sexy and Satisfying Relationship

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Overview

They say all you need is love. Joselin Linder and Elena Donovan Mauer beg to differ! They say a little sex wouldn't hurt either--especially the scorching and urgent variety that's so common in the beginning of a relationship.

But for many committed couples, heat seems to be in short supply. Fortunately, help is here for lovebirds who spend more time Dancing with the Stars than they do tangled in the sheets. Featuring case studies of twenty- and thirty-something women who have lived through their own sexual slumps, this risque; guide covers everything from sex toys and fantasy roleplay to rediscovering passion and good old-fashioned romance. Packed with practical, pithy, and provocative advice, Have Sex Like You Just Met...No Matter How Long You've Been Together helps bring sizzle back to the bedroom!

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Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9781440504471
  • Publisher: F+W Media
  • Publication date: 11/18/2009
  • Sold by: Barnes & Noble
  • Format: eBook
  • Pages: 256
  • File size: 571 KB

Meet the Author

Joselin Linder (Brooklyn, NY) is a writer, filmmaker, and author of The Good Girl's Guide to Living in Sin and The Purity Test. While she's had her share of long-term love affairs, her most recent two-year relationship with Aaron is her favorite thus far.

Elena Donovan Mauer (New York, NY) is a writer and editor specializing in relationships. Recently, she embarked on an experiment to have sex with her husband every day for thirty days for a Self magazine article. Her writing has also appeared in Bridal Guide, Modern Bride, Psychology Today, and Lifetime magazine. She coauthored The Good Girl's Guide to Living in Sin.

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Table of Contents

Acknowledgments v

Introduction: Love, Fidelity, and Happiness xv

Chapter 1 The Sexification and Desexification of Relationships 1

Losing Our Collective Virginity 2

One-Night Stands 5

Why Dating Is Fun 7

The Days Before You Could Pick the Smell of His Farts Out of a Lineup 10

Chapter 2 Finding Compatibility With Him-In and Out of Bed 15

The Good-on-Paper Guy 16

Cultivating Chemistry 19

Great Expectations 21

Out of the Box 23

Myths and Truths about Saving Yourself 29

For Those of You Who Have Done Dallas 31

Chapter 3 Staying Monogamous ... and Trusting Him To 35

Pookie vs. Snookums 36

Making a Man(tain) out of a Mole(hill) 38

The Importance of Being Honest 40

When Harry Met Sally 42

Fantasies and Crushes 46

Setting the Rules 48

Road Maps Back from Betrayal-Land 51

Close the Open Book (If You Want Him to Write in It) 53

Chapter 4 Teaching Him ... and Letting Him Teach You 57

Put On Your Own Oxygen Mask Before Assisting Other Passengers 58

Getting Serious 65

Why It's Harder to Enjoy Yourself Now Than It Was in the Beginning 67

The Elusive Orgasm 69

Sexy Teacher Outfits ... on the TV Screen 71

Chapter 5 When the Day-to-Day Gets in the Way 77

Your Own Private Island 78

Fold Laundry, Do It, Write Dissertation, Walk Snuggles 80

The Flirtation Situation 91

The Art of the Arousal 96

The Blue Lagoon 98

Chapter 6 Birth Control and Other Smart Decisions 101

HIV Test + The Pill = Commitment? 102

The Battle Between Pills and Rubbers-Who Will Reign Supreme? 106

A Birth Control Refresher Course 108

What's Up, Doc? 119

Helping Condoms to Take Back the Power 121

Saying No 125

Chapter 7 Identifying Problems-and SolvingThem For Good 129

Spicing It Up 130

It's Not You; It's Me 131

It's Not You; It's Him 135

When It's Both of You 138

The Last First Kiss 142

Chapter 8 Trying New Things: Games, Toys, Lingerie, and Fantasies 145

It's all Fun and Games Until Somebody Loses a Dildo 146

The Stuff You Wear Just to Take Off 148

Much, Much Better than Parcheesi 155

What That Lockable Drawer in Your Nightstand Is For 159

"We Tried It!" 163

Fantasizing about Things Other Than Shoes and Your Boss's Decapitation 165

How to Feel Safe Trying Things Out 171

Chapter 9 Utilizing Tricks of the Trade-The World's Oldest Trade 175

Creating a Sexual Identity 176

Superhero Sex 178

The Rebel Romance 179

The Damsel in Distress and the Knight in Shining Armor 180

The Teacher and the Naughty Student 181

Is Anal Sex the New Black? 183

Turning Your Man from Vanilla to Super Sexy 187

Taking the Dirty Back 188

Chapter 10 Keeping it Healthy and Fun 193

I'll See Your Two Weeks of Lawn Mowing and Raise You a Hand Job 194

Why Am I Not in the Mood? 197

Sex Gone Wrong 199

Fixing Things 205

Chapter 11 The Long Haul 207

Fluctuating Trajectories and Other, Smaller Words 208

There's No "I" in Team 211

Playing the Part 214

Sexual Healing and Feeling 215

The Physiology of Love 218

Resources 221

Index 223

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