★ 2024-04-04
An “unambiguously Black” Cuban writer uses her life story to examine multiple aspects of community care.
After “two decades working my ass off in the food service industry,” Gordon was exhausted. She left New York City, where she was working as a server, self-medicating with drugs, and making ends meet by selling them. “I was weary in my soul, in my heart,” she writes. “Tired of everything.” She moved to Miami, intending to get sober and to heal. She started therapy and joined an online support group for adults who, like her, have such severe dental problems that they must have all of their teeth extracted and replaced by dentures. While in Miami, Gordon also began Casa de Tami, a program that invites individual Black activists from “marginalized genders” to stay at her home and be treated compassionately. Eventually, with the help of a community fundraiser, Gordon moved to New Orleans, where she continued to document the ways in which members of close-knit communities support each other’s healing. While much of the book is about deeply traumatic struggles, Gordon begins her story by letting readers know that she is not writing “trauma porn.” The author’s voice is intimate, vulnerable, frank, humorous, and affectionate, and her impressive capacity for self-reflection infuses her work with refreshingly original insights. She intersperses her memoir with a beautifully curated selection of the voices of people who share the author’s talent for conversational, honest prose. “I’m not a teacher, guru, or authority,” she writes. “Hood Wellness isn’t a how-to kind of book. It’s a reflection of the power of community and an affirmation that, regardless of our intersections and hardships, there is more for us when we walk together.” Gordon’s vision of a more just future feels both inspiring and possible.
A funny, thought-provoking, and profound memoir about the intersection of Blackness and health.