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We want to let you in on a little secret: There's nothing better than taking control of your sex life and your man. It's so empowering to know that you're not only in charge of your own O, but can easily take charge of his, too! Long gone are the days of women just lying there in missionary position like dead fish, waiting for the guy to finish. (How depressing!) We're two women who firmly believe sex should be fun and fearless. Sure, we're into toys and totally love our vibrators, but we also believe there's no substitute for the real deal-especially when it both curls your toes and boosts your bond. In our opinion, the sex suffers (and sucks!) if you and your partner don't feel free to express yourselves in every way. So that's what we intend to help you do...step-by-step, game-by-game, and orgasm-by-orgasm. Join us on this Dominant Diva journey, and your sex life will never be the same!Why us? Over the years, we noticed that we were having much better sex than our friends. And our gal pals were always asking how they too could mix things up between the sheets. And once we shared a few tips and tricks, the response was always the same: "Ohmigod, I had the best sex last night!" Soon, more friends...and friends of friends...began to call for nuggets of our wow-oh-wow wisdom. Something about our sex advice clicked with women. Maybe it was because our experiences complemented each other so well. You see, we've been best friends for more than 10 years. When we met, we were both waitresses, but soon we started serving people in different ways. Georgia was the first to take the leap: She became a dominatrix in 1994, and went on to become one of the top dommes in both Manhattan and Los Angeles. Julie wrote her first sex and relationship feature for Cosmopolitan in 1995, and has been making her living sharing sex advice ever since in magazines such as Cosmo, Redbook, and Glamour. For the past decade, Georgia has counseled thousands of couples on how to explore their fantasies, and is paid upward of $300 an hour to help them do just that. Julie has educated millions of readers on such titillating topics as "Finding His Secret Sex Spots" and "Unleashing Your Inner Sex Kitten." We even did a dominatrix session together once-and held a spanking contest on the guy's ass! We're best buds who tell each other absolutely everything-including things that would even make the "Sex and the City" girls blush! And every time we'd dish about a new sex technique, fetish, or position, we'd inevitably try it on our husbands and then compare notes. If it earned our seal of approval, we'd tell our girlfriends, to further spread the love. (We're firm believers in good orgasm karma!) But, the more we shared our unique sex advice with others, the more obvious it became that we had stumbled upon an unbeatable erotic equation: Dominatrix Secrets + Sex Writer Wisdom = Hot Dominant Diva Sex! We just knew we were on to something major...and we wanted to share our secrets with the world. Thus, How to Be a Dominant Diva was born. Together, we compiled our 69 favorite sex games so you can get in on the fun, too. These are the best of the best-culled from Georgia's client history, Julie's magazine sex features, and our own erotic experiences. We give you step-by-step instructions, breaking each game into hands-on sections like Passion Props, The Set-Up, and Game On! We also took some kick-ass photos to inspire you. Just swing open the Doors of Desire and dive into your next sexual adventure! In your hot little hands, you now hold the sex secrets of one of America's most successful dominatrixes and a leading sex writer. What happens when you incorporate our tell-all, tantric tricks into your own sexual repertoire? You're about to find out, Diva! But first, invest in some fire-retardant sheets, because things are gonna get hot. Really hot. And that's a promise!