How to Cure a Committment Phobic

How to Cure a Committment Phobic

by Lyn Kelley
     
 

New updated edition 2014. Dr. Lyn Kelley explains what a relationship commitment-phobic (CP) is and how one can be cured, or at least become committable. If there is any way to do it, this is the way! Lyn has over 20 years experience counseling and coaching couples, researching this topic, as well as her own experience and observing those of her friends. Lyn uses

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New updated edition 2014. Dr. Lyn Kelley explains what a relationship commitment-phobic (CP) is and how one can be cured, or at least become committable. If there is any way to do it, this is the way! Lyn has over 20 years experience counseling and coaching couples, researching this topic, as well as her own experience and observing those of her friends. Lyn uses bold, honest, straight talk and tells it like it is.
Chapter One: What is Commitment Phobia?
Normal vs Irrational Fear
How Severe is His Case?
Lead With Your Head
How to Use Your “Chi”
Ambivalence and Inconsistency

Chapter Two: How to Spot a Commitment Phobic Right Away
Get Information
Find Out What He Values
Don’t Take It Personally
Be the Selector
34 Red Flags

Chapter Three: Can Commitment Phobics be Cured?
How Good Jane Handles a CP
Men Are Like Fish

Chapter Four: How to Secure a Commitment From a Commitment Phobic
The 5 Keys to Securing a Commitment From a CP
Learn His Game
Don’t Give Away Your Jewels for Free
Stop Paying Men to Have Sex With You
Don’t Be a Love-Sick Crack Addict
Don’t Be the Dead Deer on the Doorstep

Chapter Five: How Your Five Guiding Forces Will Always Serve You Well
Always Lead With Your Head
How Your “Gut Instincts” Serve You
How Your “Chi” Serves You
How Your “Heart” Serves You
How Your “Chemistry” Serves You
How to Move On If He Can’t Commit
The 10 Commandments with CP’s

Product Details

ISBN-13:
2940000897300
Publisher:
Lyn Kelley
Publication date:
04/15/2010
Sold by:
Smashwords
Format:
NOOK Book
Sales rank:
699,797
File size:
121 KB

Meet the Author

As a Motivational Coach and Speaker, my goal is “to empower people move to the next level of success in their lives.” Many people have asked for more information about me and why I am qualified to motivate others. So here’s a little bit about me and how I got here.

It all started back in Fresno, CA where I was born and raised. As a child I knew I had a calling to help people be happier and live better lives. I knew this because I was keenly observant of people. I observed people and how they lived their lives. At age 10 a friend’s family invited me to a musical show called “Up With People!” This show had a major impact on me, and brought up my passion to help people be happier.

Although my parents didn’t care about my grades, I received all A’s in school except I always failed Oral English. I couldn’t get up in front of the class and speak. What kept me going in school was my desire for a career in the helping/teaching profession, so I could help others become more successful.

The females in my family were discouraged from going to college, so higher education became my way of rebelling. I earned my B.A. in Education from CSU Fresno. During college I had some wonderful professors who took me under their wing and encouraged me to speak in class. I learned that I enjoyed teaching and actually had a gift that had previously been repressed. I went on to get my teaching credential and taught Jr. and Sr. High School for 7 years. I went from a shy little girl who couldn’t speak in front of the class to a big girl who couldn’t STOP speaking in front of the class!

Teaching adolescents was an amazing experience! I found that I wanted to work with them more one-on-one, so I went back to college to become a counselor. I received my M.S. in Counseling/Psychology from the University of Miami and became licensed as a Marriage & Family Therapist. Initially I set out to get a wide range of experience. I worked in a children’s psych hospital in dual diagnosis, managed a residential treatment program for severely emotionally disturbed teenage girls, did biofeedback therapy for a pain management center, and worked in social services in the areas of foster care, child abuse and family reunification.

Once I became licensed I worked in a private counseling practice for 7 years. I specialized in relationship counseling. During this time I realized that coaching, writing and teaching were what I really loved to do, so I started writing books for healthcare professionals and teaching continuing education courses. I became particularly interested in the field of motivation and coaching and worked on this as a specialty. I founded GROW Training Institute, Inc. which is a coach training organization, and became a Certified Professional Coach. I then coached myself through my Doctoral Program and earned my Ph.D. in Health Science through a correspondence program.

I can now freely pursue my true passions of writing, speaking, coaching and consulting! I have published 26 books and am working on my next one now.

Many people have asked me what has most motivated me during my life? I believe that we all have internal motivation when we find our gift. My strong desire to help people become higher functioning, happier and more successful must have initially come from my internal desire to grow, learn, and improve my life and the world around me. It also came from my deep appreciation for my mentors and teachers who helped me overcome my anxieties and fears about success. It came from reading books by great self help/spiritual authors such as Wayne Dyer, Gary Zukav, Louise Hay, Marianne Williamson, Barbara DeAngelis and Tony Robbins. I have learned that it is fear that stops us most. We sabotage our own success due to our own fear of our own light. I want to help others overcome their obstacles and shine their light brightly, just as my mentors did for me.

I now do business, relationship and life coaching. As a Business Coach, I conduct trainings for businesses, entrepreneurs, corporations and organizations all over the world. I do practice building consulting for mental health and medical providers. As a relationship coach I help people stop sabotaging themselves and create their ideal relationships. I work by telephone, Internet and face-to-face. If you are interested in receiving coaching or need a motivational speaker, please contact me! I wish you much success.

See my YouTube video: The Biggest Mistake Women Make in Dating and Love Relationships
-Lyn Kelley, Ph.D., LMFT, CPC

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