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How to Do Your Own Divorce in California in 2014: An Essential Guide for Every Kind of Divorce

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FAMOUS BEST-SELLER SINCE 1971!
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Over a million Californians have saved BILLIONS and achieved smoother divorces with this book...So can you!

THE SINGLE MOST IMPORTANT THING in getting a good divorce outcome is being informed, prepared, and being an active participant in your own case. That's what it means to do your own divorce. This ...

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Overview


FAMOUS BEST-SELLER SINCE 1971!
Save time! Save money! Save your sanity!
Over a million Californians have saved BILLIONS and achieved smoother divorces with this book...So can you!

THE SINGLE MOST IMPORTANT THING in getting a good divorce outcome is being informed, prepared, and being an active participant in your own case. That's what it means to do your own divorce. This book explains the things you need to know in clear, simple language with practical advice and guidance. It puts you in charge of your case and your life.

YOU ARE NOT ALONE. Divorce Helpline has top quality family law attorneys who will help you with information, advice and a full range of services for people who are handling their own cases. See page 2.

CD includes forms, worksheets, software, and much more!

SHOWS YOU HOW TO:
- Understand the rules and standards
- Decide what's fair and what you want
- File a Petition or Response
- Make a Settlement Agreement
- Get your Judgment

INCLUDES:
- Practical advice
- Step-by-step instructions
- Forms you will need
- Free help with local forms
- Free update service

"You not only saved me several thousand dollars but also saved me a lot of pain and concern because I had the knowledge I needed to handle the divorce process." —Mr. DM, Riverside, CA

"My divorce would not have been nearly as easy without your book. Several attorneys I consulted were not optimistic about the results they could get but I did it all myself and everything worded out infinitely better." —Ms. MS, Oakland, CA

"My husband spent 3 years and $40,000 on lawyers to get divorced from his ex-wife. I spent only 6 months and $400 to get divorced from my ex-husband using your products. It wasn't just the time and money we saved, but the emotional suffering we avoided and the peace and closure we gained that make your products invaluable." —Ms. CO, Novato, CA

For over 40 years, Ed Sherman has helped millions of people get better divorces. This book will save you a lot of time, trouble and money. Ed knows how to make any divorce better--he's proven that more than a million times! His practical advice makes divorces go more smoothly and with much less emotional and financial cost. With over a million books sold and more than 40 years experience, his proven techniques can make your divorce better too. A family law attorney since 1970, Ed Sherman founded Nolo Press in 1971 with his famous book, How to Do Your Own Divorce in California. In 1989, he co-founded Divorce Helpline, which he left in 2007. He is the author of 12 other books and three divorce software programs.

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Editorial Reviews

From the Publisher

"You not only saved me several thousand dollars but also saved me a lot of pain and concern because I had the knowledge I needed to handle the divorce process."
- Mr. DM, Riverside, CA

"My divorce would not have been nearly as easy without your book. Several attorneys I consulted were not optimistic about the results they could get but I did it all my self and everything worked out infinitely better."
- Ms. MS, Oakland, CA

"You saved my life ....and my wife's also."
- Mr. BK, Soquel, CA

"I really admire you and I am very impressed with the quality of work you do. I work for a law firm, so I should know!"
- Ms. JC

"I want to report that I achieved my desired outcome completely ...I am now where I wanted to be and completely satisfied. Your approach is excellent. I was able to get the job done for a tiny fraction of what the costs might have been. Your advice was right on the nose."
- Mr. HH

"I feel that this kind of legal assistance is invaluable ...You really threw me a lifeline when I felt I was sinking."
- Ms. SB, Albany, CA

"Thanks to you, a difficult situation was made easier. My [case] was a "piece of cake" and I'm happier than I have been in a long time!"
- Ms. SD, Antioch, CA

"I'm an attorney and I really like your books. I know a lot of lawyers buy them. Your books are wonderful—they are suitable for the general public, and make a very nice overview for attorneys."
- DM, Esq.

"I've been a family law paralegal for 30 years and these are the clearest, most user-friendly references I have used. We have referred many clients to your volumes for custody and visitation questions — they are able to prepare for Court, truly understand the procedures, and they achieve a better result."
- Ms. CS, Legal Assistant, Family Law Facilitation Centers, Rancho Cucamonga, CA

"I recently used your How to do Your Own Divorce in California to obtain a default judgment divorce. It was so easy with your instructions, forms, illustrations and practical advice. Yesterday I received the conformed copies of the Judgment and the divorce was final!! Thank you for…writing a book that made things so simple. After a very complicated marriage, a simple divorce was a real blessing!"
- Ms. EC

I am a family law paralegal and have been involved in family law in Los Angeles County in one way or another for 20 years. I have completely read How to do Your Own Divorce in California and am about 1/4 into How To Do Your Own Contested Divorce in California, and I can't tell you how excited I have been since I found them. Finally I have found that there is someone else out there who thinks the way I do! I expect to be a…big fan for the rest of my career. Thank you so much!!!
- paralegal, Los Angeles, CA

Great down to earth advice and the software (CalSupport) is excellent. Definitely better than running down to the first lawyer your friends tell you about.
- customer from Castro Valley, CA

Even if you have an attorney or a paralegal helping you with the divorce, this book gives you a lot of great information on our CA legal system. It addresses the idiosyncrasies of each county venue and has all the updated forms. You can save yourself a lot of money just having the forms filled out for your legal advisor ahead of time. The Marital Settlement Agreement is invaluable. Get this book!
- customer from San Jose, CA

These two books were indispensable in getting my two and half year divorce over with after subbing out my attorney. If I would have been aware of these great resources, I could have saved a lot of time and money and avoided a lot of mistakes! Things my attorney should have told me...
- Mr. JS,

I received my Notice of Entry of Judgment today! I wanted to write to you and express my sincere appreciation. This book was all I needed in regards to forms and advice to complete my dissolution.
- customer from Citrus Heights, CA

I did the entire semi-contested divorce myself, had ALL my paperwork accepted the first time and received my judgment EXACTLY as I prepared it. Thanks very much for all the help. No doubt saved me THOUSANDS of dollars.
- customer from Humboldt County, CA

From the Publisher

"You not only saved me several thousand dollars but also saved me a lot of pain and concern because I had the knowledge I needed to handle the divorce process."
- Mr. DM, Riverside, CA

"My divorce would not have been nearly as easy without your book. Several attorneys I consulted were not optimistic about the results they could get but I did it all my self and everything worked out infinitely better."
- Ms. MS, Oakland, CA

"You saved my life ....and my wife's also."
- Mr. BK, Soquel, CA

"I really admire you and I am very impressed with the quality of work you do. I work for a law firm, so I should know!"
- Ms. JC

"I want to report that I achieved my desired outcome completely ...I am now where I wanted to be and completely satisfied. Your approach is excellent. I was able to get the job done for a tiny fraction of what the costs might have been. Your advice was right on the nose."
- Mr. HH

"I feel that this kind of legal assistance is invaluable ...You really threw me a lifeline when I felt I was sinking."
- Ms. SB, Albany, CA

"Thanks to you, a difficult situation was made easier. My [case] was a "piece of cake" and I'm happier than I have been in a long time!"
- Ms. SD, Antioch, CA

"I'm an attorney and I really like your books. I know a lot of lawyers buy them. Your books are wonderful—they are suitable for the general public, and make a very nice overview for attorneys."
- DM, Esq.

"I've been a family law paralegal for 30 years and these are the clearest, most user-friendly references I have used. We have referred many clients to your volumes for custody and visitation questions — they are able to prepare for Court, truly understand the procedures, and they achieve a better result."
- Ms. CS, Legal Assistant, Family Law Facilitation Centers, Rancho Cucamonga, CA

"I recently used your How to do Your Own Divorce in California to obtain a default judgment divorce. It was so easy with your instructions, forms, illustrations and practical advice. Yesterday I received the conformed copies of the Judgment and the divorce was final!! Thank you for…writing a book that made things so simple. After a very complicated marriage, a simple divorce was a real blessing!"
- Ms. EC

I am a family law paralegal and have been involved in family law in Los Angeles County in one way or another for 20 years. I have completely read How to do Your Own Divorce in California and am about 1/4 into How To Do Your Own Contested Divorce in California, and I can't tell you how excited I have been since I found them. Finally I have found that there is someone else out there who thinks the way I do! I expect to be a…big fan for the rest of my career. Thank you so much!!!
- paralegal, Los Angeles, CA

Great down to earth advice and the software (CalSupport) is excellent. Definitely better than running down to the first lawyer your friends tell you about.
- customer from Castro Valley, CA

Even if you have an attorney or a paralegal helping you with the divorce, this book gives you a lot of great information on our CA legal system. It addresses the idiosyncrasies of each county venue and has all the updated forms. You can save yourself a lot of money just having the forms filled out for your legal advisor ahead of time. The Marital Settlement Agreement is invaluable. Get this book!
- customer from San Jose, CA

These two books were indispensable in getting my two and half year divorce over with after subbing out my attorney. If I would have been aware of these great resources, I could have saved a lot of time and money and avoided a lot of mistakes! Things my attorney should have told me...
- Mr. JS,

I received my Notice of Entry of Judgment today! I wanted to write to you and express my sincere appreciation. This book was all I needed in regards to forms and advice to complete my dissolution.
- customer from Citrus Heights, CA

I did the entire semi-contested divorce myself, had ALL my paperwork accepted the first time and received my judgment EXACTLY as I prepared it. Thanks very much for all the help. No doubt saved me THOUSANDS of dollars.
- customer from Humboldt County, CA

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Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9780944508923
  • Publisher: Nolo Press Occidental
  • Publication date: 3/18/2014
  • Edition description: 37th Edition
  • Pages: 248
  • Sales rank: 272,448
  • Product dimensions: 8.30 (w) x 10.80 (h) x 0.80 (d)

Meet the Author


Ed Sherman was born in Hannibal, Missouri in 1938, graduated from Boalt Hall School of Law in 1964 and was admitted to the California Bar in 1965. He founded Nolo Press — and the entire legal self-help movement. His books include How to Do Your Own Divorce in California, Practical Divorce Solutions, How To Do Your Own Contested Divorce in California (the title was later to changed to How to Solve Divorce Problems in California), Legal Essentials for California Couples, Make any Divorce Better, and The Couples Contract for a Lasting Relationship.

In 1989 he founded the Divorce Helpline and through these guidebooks is able to share his secrets and lessons learned from over 35 years of experience with more than 45,000 successful cases. He lives in Santa Cruz, CA.

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Read an Excerpt


You might not know it, but you are going through two divorces at the same time—your Real Divorce and your Legal Divorce. This book is about getting yourself through the legal divorce with little or no involvement with courts and lawyers. It explains California divorce laws with practical advice to help you make decisions, and shows you exactly how to do the paperwork to get your divorce or find someone to do it for you inexpensively.

The real divorce is your life, your relationships with your Ex, family, friends, and yourself. It’s what you go through in practical, emotional and spiritual terms. The real divorce is about breaking old patterns, finding a new center for your life and doing your best with the hand you’ve been dealt. These matters are not assisted or addressed in any way by the legal divorce.

The legal divorce cares only about how you will divide marital property and debts, whether there will be spousal support, and how you will arrange parenting and child support if you have minor children. If you can settle these matters out of court, there’s nothing left but paperwork and red tape to get your judgment.

If you have trouble agreeing on terms, the problem is almost never legal, but almost always about personalities and emotional upset, for which there is absolutely no help and no solutions—zip, zero, nothing—in court or in a lawyer’s office. In fact, getting involved with lawyers and courts almost always makes things worse—much worse. If you follow my advice, you’ll avoid the traps and pitfalls of the legal system, and things will get much better much sooner.

[Read the rest of this chapter at the Nolo Press Occidental website]

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Table of Contents


PART ONE—All About Divorce
1. DOING YOUR OWN DIVORCE
1.1 Can you do your own divorce? Should you?
1.2 What “do your own divorce” means
1.3 What it means to “retain” an attorney—and a better idea
1.4 Advantages to doing your own divorce
1.5 How to start a divorce—Petitioners and Respondents
1.6 Three ways to get it done
1.7 Solving divorce problems
1.8 When you should get some help
1.9 Who can help? How much will it cost?
1.10 Looking ahead

2. BASIC INFORMATION ABOUT DIVORCE
2.1 Dissolution, nullity, and legal separation
2.2 Regular vs. Summary Dissolution
2.3 Grounds for dissolution
2.4 Residency requirements
2.5 Serving papers—giving notice to your spouse
2.6 Jurisdiction and the power of the court to act
2.7 Automatic restraining orders
2.8 Mandatory disclosure of all marital information
2.9 When is it over? How final is your judgment?
2.10 Taxes
2.11 Attorney fees
2.12 Common questions and answers

3. DIVIDING PROPERTY AND DEBTS
3.1 Income, debts and your date of separation
3.2 Management of property and the duty spouses owe each other
3.3 Duty to disclose all information
3.4 Cases where there is no community property
3.5 Cases where there is some property
3.6 Understanding your estate
3.7 Taxes
3.8 Wills, insurance beneficiaries, and nonprobate transfers

4. CHILDREN - CUSTODY AND VISITATION

5. CHILD AND SPOUSAL SUPPORT

6. SETTLEMENT AGREEMENTS

PART TWO—How to do your own Regular Dissolution
7. Doing your own forms
8. Check list
9. The Summons
10. The Petition
11. The Response
12. How to serve papers
13. Proof of service
14. Declarations of Disclosure
15. The Property Declaration
16. The Income and Expense Declaration
17. The Request to Enter Default
18. How to fill out the Judgment
19. Wage and earnings assignment
20. How to get your Judgment
21. The Notice of Entry of Judgment

PART THREE—Summary Procedures
22. The Summary Dissolution
23. Termination of Domestic Partnership

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