How to Find True Love: Unlock Your Romantic Flow and Create Lasting Relationships

by Francesca Hogi

Overview

From award-winning dating coach and matchmaker, a practical guide for anyone holding on to the hope that true love exists, and ready to empower themselves to find it. 

We all know dating sucks. It hasn't gotten any easier since it was invented—in fact, some might say the advent of online dating, apps like Tinder and Hinge, and now AI has made it nearly impossible to find love even thought we're more connected than ever. And yet, as challenging as it is to meet someone, we're all still desirous of love, because we're humans, and we're facing a loneliness epidemic. With How to Find True Love, Francesca Hogi provides a better plan for finding true love. Hogi seeks to bring purpose to modern dating and optimism to the hearts of cynical daters everywhere. With her advice, exhausted romantics will find comfort in releasing the impossible ideal of one perfect person being their “one true love,” and instead understand that true love is first and foremost an inside job. Co-creating a true love relationship with another is a choice, and it’s available to everyone who wants healthy love. To do this, readers will work on improving their: 

   ·Mindset: empowering readers to expand how they think of love
   ·Heartset: energizing the reader's feelings by leaning into self-love
   ·Skillset: equipping readers with the skills necessary to navigate modern dating 
   ·Soulset: helping readers embody the energy of love 

Modern dating is broken. How to Find True Love is the fix—it's time for a true love revolution. 

Product Details

ISBN-13:	9781538769577
Publisher:	Grand Central Publishing
Publication date:	04/08/2025
Pages:	240
Product dimensions:	6.10(w) x 9.00(h) x 1.00(d)

About the Author

Francesca Hogi is a love coach and educator with a passionately pragmatic and holistic approach to helping people find true love. A former corporate lawyer, she began blogging about dating in 2008 to share her hard-won lessons on the topic. In 2014, she pivoted from law into matchmaking and coaching to follow her passion for (positively) meddling in other people’s love lives and never looked back. Since then, she’s worked with hundreds of single clients of all backgrounds to love themselves and create loving romantic partnerships. She’s the host of the top-rated relationship podcast Dear Franny, and has appeared in media from The Today Show to Marie Claire to the New York Times. In 2020, she founded The True Love Society, a community of single people dedicated to living their best lives while on their dating journeys. In 2023, Francesca gave a TED talk about her vision of a world where everyone has true love.
 
Prior to her love career, Francesca appeared on two seasons of the iconic reality TV show Survivor. Francesca holds a B.S. from Syracuse University and a J.D. from The University of Michigan Law School. In 2024, along with Felicity Fellows, Francesca co-founded Era of This, a new venture dedicated to human connection through meaningful experiences, education, art and beauty. Learn more and get updates at www.francescahogi.com

Editorial Reviews

When I first met Francesca Hogi, I really loved her perspective on love and relationships. I later learned that my friends were sharing her episode on my podcast with their friends to help them better navigate their dating lives. And it worked! I’m grateful all those pearls are wisdom are now in this book!”—Simon Sinek, Optimist and New York Times bestselling author of The Infinite Game and host of the podcast A Bit of Optimism

“In a world saturated with ideals and expectations about love, discovering what true connection means can often feel elusive. How to Find True Love invites you on an enlightening journey that blends mindset, heartset, soulset, and skillset to help you cultivate the deep, fulfilling relationships you are looking for. I share Hogi’s belief that true love is available to all, without exception.”  —Sara Nasserzadeh, PhD, author of Love by Design: 6 Ingredients to Build a Lifetime of Love

"If you’re single then you need this book in your life! It’s my love bible! Read it, devour it, sleep next to it in bed every night! Thank me later!"—London Hughes, comedian, TV writer, and author of Livin My Best Life, Hun

"Francesca Hogi is a gold-standard love coach. Her methods are heart-centered, practical, and rooted in authenticity. How to Find True Love captures her essence beautifully. It provides readers with life-changing love lessons designed to help you grow into, not just a relationship, but also the best version of yourself. This book weaves effortlessly through a variety of modalities that will empower readers to go deep to find meaningful connection and lasting love."—Damona Hoffman, author of F the Fairy Tale and Relationship Expert of The Drew Barrymore Show

"Francesca’s book beautifully captures the essence of true love—taking responsibility for yourself and all your parts to build meaningful connections that bring joy and enrich your life. I highly recommend it to anyone seeking a real relationship grounded in self-awareness, self-advocacy, and self-worth."—Aycee Brown, Spiritual teacher, author, and host of Is My Aura On Straight? podcast

"We’re led to assume our relationships will just work out. Francesca has created a thoughtful, tangible user manual for finding and embracing love in every relationship. An important reminder that true love is an active practice." —Julie Rice, Co-founder, SoulCycle and Peoplehood

"This isn’t just a book about finding love—it’s a book about finding yourself first, which is the foundation for everything else. Francesca's approach is rooted in self-awareness, self-advocacy, and deep respect for the journey each person must take in order to truly love and be loved.

Whether you’re in a relationship or navigating the dating world, this book is a must-read for anyone ready to cultivate authentic, lasting love. I couldn’t recommend it more highly."

—Paul C. Brunson, Relationship Expert & TV Host

"At Real Love Ready we read a lot of relationship books. How to Find True Love is a standout. It is a guide to cultivate a relationship first and foremost with yourself and a guide to bringing more love and joy into your life, regardless of relationship status. Francesca navigates her readers through the dating world. She teaches how to date intentionally in order to make meaningful connections based on what you most need to build a lasting partnership while also aligning with your life’s highest purpose. It is a must read for anyone single, dating or in a relationship.”—Robin Ducharme, CEO and Founder of Real Love Ready and Host of Let's Talk Love podcast

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