How to Get Your Lover Back: Successful Strategies for Starting over (And Making it Better Than It Was Before)

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If your lover has left you...

If your relationship is on the edge, and you feel fragile and out of control...

If you regret walking out...

If you're not sure you want your lover back, but you need to understand what happened...

You do have a second chance—if you know what has to come first.

Falling in and ...

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Overview

If your lover has left you...

If your relationship is on the edge, and you feel fragile and out of control...

If you regret walking out...

If you're not sure you want your lover back, but you need to understand what happened...

You do have a second chance—if you know what has to come first.

Falling in and out of love is a natural process that can be understood and mastered.  Love properly understood can be love regained and kept alive for a lifetime.

This step-by-step approach developed by psychiatrist Blase Harris works.  It has worked for the people in this book.  And now it can work for you.  Dr. Harris's practical guide shows you how to avoid the common mistakes ex-lovers make, love 100 percent, and get your lover back!

Your lover is gone. You're devastated. You want him or her back. So go for it, says this psychiatrist. It worked for him, and he shares his secrets in this very positive, step-by-step guide for regaining lost love.

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Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9780440500896
  • Publisher: Random House Publishing Group
  • Publication date: 9/28/1989
  • Edition number: 1
  • Pages: 240
  • Sales rank: 323,261
  • Product dimensions: 5.38 (w) x 8.00 (h) x 0.54 (d)

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  • Anonymous

    Posted December 28, 2004

    Some Great Suggestions

    I have read this book cover to cover on a couple of ocassions. Usually just after a break-up and while I am going thru a self-help frenzy. Though the book has some excellent ideas, I don't think it is really based on the reality of today. It encourages some postitve methods, however, it may cause some lost souls to venture down a path of obsession. For me I used the strategies and it did not work. I am glad I tried, but sometimes it is time to move on. You can fix yourself, you can't change your ex. Take the good from this book but be careful.

    2 out of 2 people found this review helpful.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted January 30, 2003

    I had no idea this would work so well!

    I can't believe it. Out of desperation, you know, the kind you get when you so badly want something you can't have, like your ex-lover, I impulsively bought this book. When it arrived, I thought "What a waste of money. How is this supposed to do the trick?" Well, after reading the introduction itself, I knew this was different from other books; I sincerely believed I was going to win this time. Without giving too much away (or else they probably won't post this) the questionnaire in this book makes the all too obvious mistakes easy for us broken-hearted to see, and answers the question of whether or not you want your lover back, or do you need him/her back: Something that could mean the difference between a lifetime of love or a lifetime of unhealthy obsessive behavior. Get the darn book NOW so you can see what I mean! What have you got to loose, since you've already lost your love? I got my baby back, and you can too. It's so practical, easy and realistic. You'll see.

    2 out of 2 people found this review helpful.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted November 7, 2000

    This advice really works!

    I purchased this book and it was a big help in learning how to relate to the person in my life that I love. Even if you are not trying to get a lost love back, the book concentrates on the basic principles of staying in a long term, loving relationship. I would recommend this book to anyone who is hurt over a breakup or is confused as to why a relationship did not work, and how to make it work.

    2 out of 2 people found this review helpful.

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  • Posted February 23, 2009

    Good ideas

    This book has some good ideas and helps you find a path to happiness even through tough times. It's a pretty good read.

    1 out of 1 people found this review helpful.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted August 28, 2003

    It's working perfectly right now!!!

    I'm in the process of reading and using the tips in this book. I was going about getting my ex back the wrong way. Feeling sorry for myself and trying to get pity from her. Boy was I doing things wrong!! I am following the author's advice and everything has changed for the better. My ex was blown away by the message I left last night and she called me this morning to set up a date to see each other again. The best thing about using this book is that it does not involve manipulation of your lost love - just giving, and understanding of their situation and support. I am shocked at how well this book is working right now.

    1 out of 1 people found this review helpful.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted April 19, 2000

    The best book i have ever had!!!

    I bought this book about 9 years ago. i have read it from cover to cover several times as a reminder of the do's and don'ts. My copy is old and worn but i have not been able to find any books to compare it to. It has helped me figure out wheither or not I want a person back time and time again. Now that i am older and more mature on a mental level i have finally met my match and will be getting married next spring. With the help of this book i was able to find and keep the man of my dreams and create an even stronger love bond then most marriages possess. Thanks for writing this book Dr. Harris.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted September 17, 2012

    Off to a good start!

    I just read this yesterday and I can tell you I feel 100% better about my situation. There is so much I see now that I hadn't before. I see a lot that was right in front of me but now it seems so obvious.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted January 17, 2012

    Bad

    I really dont think this a helpful book...i did not find anything interesting...sorry but not a great buy

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