How to Iron Your Own Damn Shirt: The Perfect Husband Handbook Featuring over 50 Foolproof Ways to Win, Woo and Wow Your Wife

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PERFECT HUSBANDS ARE MADE, NOT BORN

LADIES: At long last, a practical guide to help your man become the perfect husband. How to Iron Your Own Damn Shirt is your salvation, with simple, easy-for-a-guy-to-follow instructions on those little things you can never get him to do, such as:

• How to Put the Toilet Seat Down
• How to Stop Snoring
• How to Ask for Directions
• Plus, more than 50 other essential topics (even How to Dance at a Wedding)

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Overview

PERFECT HUSBANDS ARE MADE, NOT BORN

LADIES: At long last, a practical guide to help your man become the perfect husband. How to Iron Your Own Damn Shirt is your salvation, with simple, easy-for-a-guy-to-follow instructions on those little things you can never get him to do, such as:

• How to Put the Toilet Seat Down
• How to Stop Snoring
• How to Ask for Directions
• Plus, more than 50 other essential topics (even How to Dance at a Wedding)

It’s a must-have guide that will finally convince him it’s in his best interest to make you happy, no matter what it takes.

GUYS: Don’t panic. It’s not how perfect you are, it’s how perfect she thinks you are. How to Iron Your Own Damn Shirt is your key to the castle. Imagine what she’ll let you get away with if you master a few skills, such as:

• How to Appear Calm While She’s Driving
• How to Apologize Convincingly
• How to Enjoy a Chick Flick
• Plus, more than 50 other essential topics (even How to Hide Your Porn)

How to Iron Your Own Damn Shirt includes countless tips and tricks for keeping you sane, keeping her happy, and keeping you both laughing.

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Library Journal
Freelance writer Boreth, who has contributed to such publications as the Boston Globe and Playboy, seeks to help men master the small things that mean a lot to women without sacrificing their own dignity or all-important leisure time. With humor, he instructs men how to notice a woman's new haircut, eliminate gas, unclog the bathroom sink, make a stir-fry, pretend not to look at other women, and listen. The chapters are short and illustrated with helpful diagrams. It's hard to imagine male patrons grabbing this off the shelf, but if they did, they would enjoy it-as would their wives. For most public libraries. Copyright 2005 Reed Business Information.
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Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9781400053629
  • Publisher: Crown Publishing Group
  • Publication date: 4/26/2005
  • Pages: 256
  • Sales rank: 1,002,189
  • Product dimensions: 5.22 (w) x 7.96 (h) x 0.54 (d)

Meet the Author

Craig Boreth is a perfect-husband-in-training who lives in Santa Monica, California, with his perfect wife.

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Chapter 1

THE MALE MIND AND BODY
How to Know Your Limitations

“Relax, all right. My old man is a television repairman, he’s got this ultimate set of tools. I can fix it.” —Jeff Spicoli (Sean Penn),Fast Times at Ridgemont High

“Man’s got to know his limitations.” —Harry Callahan (Clint Eastwood),Magnum Force

This book is filled with instructions for things you need to know in order to be the perfect husband. But to start things off, let’s take a moment to figure out how to know when not to do something. You’re faced with a task that you figure is pretty straightforward. Your wife, of course, is skeptical, and happy to let you know it. Do you take a stand, or fold like a cheap map? Sometimes (not nearly as often as your wife would prefer, of course) a real man must admit he’s completely clueless and defer to wiser minds. The question is, how do you know when to go with your gut, dive right in, and let the chips fall where they may, and when to take the mature (i.e., whipped), sensible (i.e., uninspired), and responsible (i.e., boring) path?

The two questions you must ask yourself are:

1.How difficult is this task?

2.What are the consequences if I screw it up?

You must take each factor into consideration when deciding how to proceed. For example, replacing the air filter in your home’s central air-conditioning unit might be a simple maneuver. But if your in-laws are arriving tomorrow for Labor Day weekend, you’d better get a professional in there to guarantee it’s done right.

The difficulty of a task is basically defined by your own familiarity with it, the accessibility of instructions for how to do it, and the number of special tools involved. If you’re pretty sure you know where the air filter goes, and the guy down at Sears can get you the right filter, and all you need is a screwdriver, you’re all set. But if you don’t know the first thing about a project, don’t have any idea where to look for help, and have never even heard of an immersion heater spanner, forget about it.

This brings us to the three areas of disastrous consequence to consider:

1.Exorbitant cost

2.Familial ridicule

3.Bodily harm

If you try to replace your car’s timing belt and screw it up, you’re probably in for a new engine. If you crash the aforementioned air-conditioning, you’ve got a weekend of sweaty in-laws ahead of you, and if you plan a best-of-seven hoops grudge match with your old college roommates, you’ll likely end up hospitalized (or worse). So, here are some guidelines to help you know your limitations:

Ironically, the best way to know your limitations is to never find out what they are. That is, never get close enough to see the light at the end of the tunnel, which invariably will be the anemic fluorescent glow from a hospital room or lawyer's office. So, be honest with yourself. If you’ve got bad mojo around car engines, electricity, or black diamond trails, then just don’t go there.

If you’re seriously considering taking on a new task, follow this rule: If in doubt, hire it out. That means if you are in doubt, not if your wife is in doubt. She’s not yet convinced you can gargle without choking each morning, let alone change the oil or carve a turkey. The key is how you honestly feel about your abilities. If you’re really not sure, then hire a professional the first time (for the turkey carving, that means defer to her father), learn how it’s done, and consider doing it yourself next time. If you’re certain you can do it, there are still some steps to take to ensure that you actually can.

If you’re about to embark on a project you’ve never done before, you’ve got to get your hands on authoritative instructions. That means finding a book on the subject (preferably the one you’re holding in your hands right now), or a friend who knows what he’s doing, or both. The book will tell you how it’s done, the friend will tell you if it’s possible. And all throughout this process, don’t forget to always consider (1) how difficult this undertaking is and (2) what the consequences are. If,after conducting proper research and determining that both the difficulty and consequences are reasonable, only then may you proceed. Otherwise, get professional help.

See “How to Be Handy” (page 96) for some suggestions to help you do the job right. The most important tip is “Use the Correct Tool for the Job.” Nothing will accentuate your ineptitude like hammering nails with a monkey wrench or scraping off putty with a kitchen knife. If you’re stuck on a job because you can’t jury-rig a tile cutter from a circular saw, two pizza boxes, and a garden hose, then you’ve reached your limit. Go out and buy the right tool, and get the job done. But even then you may want to take a moment to make sure your insurance is up to date.

One final thought: Another way to help you determine whether or not to charge forth with a particular endeavor is to think about how your obituary would read if things didn’t work out quite so well. “Tragic spackling accident” is no way for a real man to go.

How to Get a Close Shave

A recent study by a British aftershave maker found that 92 percent of women prefer a clean-shaven man. The study also found that 63 percent of men believed that facial hair made men more attractive. These results suggest an intriguing connubial conundrum. She wants him to shave off the mustache or, more likely, the goatee that he’s had since college (or his most recent midlife crisis). He’d rather not, believing that his facial hair is a babe magnet.

She has two options: Force him to shave, and risk him shacking up with a gaggle of nubile young coeds. Or leave him hairy, and rest assured that no young chippie is going to come along and steal him away. Given that the odds of the former scenario occurring are zero on a good day, I’m guessing she’ll take her chances with a clean-shaven husband.

Salvation for the hirsute hubby lies in his learning how to get the smoothest shave with the least irritation, chafing, and blood loss.

Getting a close shave is actually quite easy, but for some reason men have been misinformed over the generations and have suffered needlessly. Actually, since we’re incapable of asking for help, just like our fathers and their fathers before them, we’re pretty much using the same technique employed by our great-great-grandfathers back in the old shtetl in Minsk. It’s time to update things a bit.

First of all, modernizing does not necessarily mean new technology. I’ve never known those electric shavers to work. They look pretty good in the commercials, but as I’m told, commercials are not the most accurate reflection of reality (who knew?). So, get your hands on a good disposable razor, with at least two blades. I’m partial to the Gillette Sensor, but I’ll use whatever higher-end razor they’ve got at Costco that day.

Now, next time your wife drags you to one of those big department stores, head straight for the men’s grooming section. Tell them you want a good shave cream and aftershave (and, if you really want to take the plunge, invest in a badger-hair brush, and then buy shave cream designed for use with it). Specialty brands like Kiehl’s will make all the difference over the products you’ve been using, by taking care of your skin and setting you up for a great shave.

Timing is the key to a close shave. You always want to shave after you shower. The steam and hot water from the shower will open up your pores and soften your beard. When you get out of the shower, crank up the hot water in the sink, as hot as you can stand it. If you’ve ever wondered why anyone would ever need a washcloth, here’s your answer: Soak that sucker with hot water, apply it to your face, and hold it there for a few seconds. Before applying the shave cream, you may want to try using a facial scrub to exfoliate your skin. Kiehl’s sells a Pineapple Papaya Facial Scrub that works wonders.

Next apply the shave cream. Forget about those foams and gels you’ve been using. It's time to get a real cream that you apply by hand or with a brush. If you’ve got sensitive skin, be sure to use a cream with mint or chamomile to soothe your skin. Kiehl’s Green Eagle Shave Cream works great. Forget about lathering up, all you want is a barely visible film, enough to protect your face but not clog up your razor. Using your fingertips or a shaving brush, massage the shave cream into your beard in tight, circular motions, starting with an upward motion (against the grain). When you’re done, get the hot water running again, wash off your hands, place your razor in the sink, and cover it with hot water. This gives you a little time to admire your manly physique before the metal meets the mug.

Start your shave with the least sensitive parts of your face, usually the cheeks. Use smooth, steady downward strokes, rinsing the razor thoroughly after every few strokes. For most men, the neck is the most sensitive part, so we’ll leave that for last and do the chin and upper lip next. This gives the moisturizer in the shave cream the maximum possible time to soften up your beard. When you get to the neck, keep in mind that you want to keep shaving with the grain, which in some cases may not be downward but sort of sideways toward your throat. Just follow the grain on your face and you’ll be all right.

When you’re done, check for any missed spots (especially along the jawline), then rinse your face with warm water and pat dry with a towel (don’t wipe your face–it can irritate freshly shaven skin). Then apply just a little bit of alcohol-free moisturizing aftershave.

There you go, nothing but smooth shaving from now on. And, by the way, about those nubile young coeds? It ain’t gonna happen, beard or no beard, so get over it.

How to Eliminate Gas

Like peeing in the shower or testing a nine-volt battery on your tongue, recognizing the intrinsic humor in flatulence clearly distinguishes men from women. From SBDs to Dutch ovens, we have created our own little stinky ecosystem around our love of farting. And yet, since women still refuse to recognize the humor in it, the perfection-seeking husband must find a way to tame his boisterous bowels.

There are many things a man can do to stifle his nether wind. None of these solutions are permanent, so if you’ve got a fishing weekend with the boys coming up, rest assured that you can easily fire up the big guns again with just a flew slices of pepperoni pizza and a six-pack.

First, identify foods that give you the most gas, and avoid them. Most likely offenders include beans, broccoli, onions, spicy food, dairy products, high-fiber foods, ice cream, soda, and beer. Except for the beer, you can probably live without most of those. But unfortunately, fried foods and fatty foods are also on the list. And, no, fried fatty foods don’t somehow cancel each other out and make both acceptable. Nice try, though. You may want to try eliminating one food at a time, and see if that makes a difference. It may just be that only one or two foods bring the vapors, and everything else is fine.

Next, address the way you eat. Try eating five or six small meals throughout the day, rather than two or three huge meals. Just be careful that you don’t end up eating five or six huge meals. While you’re eating, be sure to eat slowly, take small bites, and chew your food thoroughly. Try to relax when you’re eating, and avoid eating meals in your car or on the run. Also, eating with your mouth open or talking while you eat increases your chances of getting gas. Finally, try a cup of peppermint tea at the end of a meal; it can calm your digestion. At this point, all you’d have to do is extend your pinky while sipping your tea to become the veritable Eliza Doolittle of perfect husbands.

If you’re still not having any luck, you can try an antigas product such as Beano, which must be taken with your first bite of food, or other products like Lactaid, to help with lactose digestion, or acidophilus, to replenish beneficial digestive bacteria.

If all else fails, you can try Under-Ease antiflatulence underwear, which filters out the unpleasant smell of “bad human gas (malodorous flatus).” According to their website, Under-Ease is a “revolutionary new underwear for offensive gas” from “the leader in odor suppressant technology for flatulence.” Can’t argue with that!

I realize that with each stifled fart the world becomes a slightly less happy place, and in these troubled times we need all the laughter we can get. But that’s the price of perfection.

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Table of Contents

For Men Only 1
For Women Only 3
The Male Mind and Body
How to Know Your Limitations 7
How to Get a Close Shave 10
How to Eliminate Gas 13
How to Get Six-Pack Abs 15
How to Stop Snoring 21
How to Have a Reasonable Midlife Crisis 23
Communication
How to Listen 29
How to Talk About Your Feelings 32
How to Apologize Convincingly 35
How to Notice Her New Haircut 40
How to Win Over Her Parents 42
How to Explain Football 44
How to Make More Money 47
How to Deal with PMS and Menopause 50
Sex and Romance
How to Find the Perfect Gift 55
How to Buy Jewelry 59
How to Wrap a Gift 64
How to Make a Bouquet 67
How to Give a Foot Massage 70
How to Hide Your Porn 73
How to Pull an "Encore Performance" 76
How to Stay Awake After Sex 79
How to Make Breakfast in Bed 81
Around the House
How to Use the TV Remote Correctly 87
How to Get out of Bed Without Waking Her 90
How to Put the Toilet Seat Down 92
How to De-stink the Bathroom 94
How to Be Handy 96
How to Do the Grocery Shopping 103
How to Wash the Windows 106
How to Be Prepared in a Blackout 110
How to Solder a Pipe 113
How to Get Rid of Bugs 117
How to Grow the Perfect Lawn 121
How to Iron Your Own Damn Shirt 126
How to Make the Bed 130
How to Paint a Room 134
How to Unclog the Bathroom Sink 142
In the Kitchen
How to Become a Martini Guy 149
How to Make a Cosmopolitan 152
How to Set the Table 154
How to Look Like a Chef 157
How to Purchase, Prepare, and Serve Seafood 163
How to Carve a Turkey 170
How to Make a Stir-Fry 174
How to Make Tiramisu 178
How to Make Creme Brulee 180
How to Do the Dishes (all of them!) 182
On the Town
How to Wait Patiently Until She's Ready to Leave 187
How to Ask for Directions 190
How to Appear Calm While She's Driving 192
How to Pretend Not to Look at Other Women 195
How to Defend Her Honor 198
How to Play a Round of Golf in Two Hours 203
How to Act Like You Know Wine 206
How to Fix a Flat Tire 213
How to Tie a Bow Tie 216
How to Dance at a Wedding 221
How to Enjoy a Chick Flick 224
How to Survive the Ballet 227
How to Not Look Like a Stalker in Victoria's Secret 230
How to Walk Slowly Through a Museum 232
How to Not Lose Too Badly in Vegas 235
Your Wife's Vital Stats 237
References 239
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