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How to Make Love All Night (and Drive Your Woman Wild): Male Multiple Orgasm and Other Secrets

How to Make Love All Night (and Drive Your Woman Wild): Male Multiple Orgasm and Other Secrets

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by Barbara, PhD Keesling PhD

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No matter how old or young, experienced or not, anyone can achieve levels of fulfillment and satisfaction never before thought possible. Sex therapist Dr. Barbara Keesling tells men and women the simple secret that can give couples unmatched pleasure for years. Using Dr. Keesling's techniques, you and your partner will embark on an erotic exploration of the


No matter how old or young, experienced or not, anyone can achieve levels of fulfillment and satisfaction never before thought possible. Sex therapist Dr. Barbara Keesling tells men and women the simple secret that can give couples unmatched pleasure for years. Using Dr. Keesling's techniques, you and your partner will embark on an erotic exploration of the realm of the senses and experience intimacy like never before. Her proven, helpful tips include:

  • How to prolong lovemaking for as long as you want
  • Excercises that can enhance pleasure
  • Learning how to touch and how to feel
  • Igniting your partner's passion
  • And so much more!

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Making Fantasy a Reality

Every woman dreams of being with a lover whose passion is so intense and body is so strong that he can last and last and last. Every man wants to be able to fulfill those dreams. He wants to know that he can have intercourse for as long as he wishes, bringing his partner to climax after climax. It certainly sounds wonderful, but is it possible?

You are about to learn the secrets of male multiple orgasm. By the time you have completed this book, your understanding of sexual potential and sexual power will be changed forever. You will learn how to prolong lovemaking for as long as you and your partner desire. Men will learn how to master their own bodies. They will learn how to have complete, powerful orgasms without losing their erections, and how to have multiple orgasms—two, three, or even more—just like a woman.

I know that this may be hard to believe. It's hard to imagine that such sexual powers could exist for anyone. Maybe for a twenty-year-old with unlimited energy or some yogi with extraordinary abilities, or maybe at the beginning of a torrid love affair, if you should be so lucky. But not for your average guy. No, for most normal men with normal sexual equipment, it seems like making love all night whenever you want—no matter how long you've been married or how old you are—is a fantasy. Until today. Today, everything is going to change; today, those fantasies are going to come true.

In this book, I'm going to teach men how to explore and enjoy their sexuality in ways they may not have believed possible. I'm going to prove to you that male multiple orgasm is not just part of some romancewriter's imagination, but an easily attainable reality. You are going to discover how a multi-orgasmic man can offer his partner a level of pleasure and fulfillment more intense than either one of them could have ever hoped for.

The ability to control one's penis—to literally stay up all night—is not the exclusive domain of Eastern masters. There are plenty of men who have already learned to control their erections in ways you would find hard to imagine. These men can have multiple orgasms without losing their erections (two orgasms, three orgasms, or even more if they choose). They drive their women wild hour after hour, night after night. They're doing it right now—and they'll still be doing it long after you've gone to sleep.

These men are not sexual supermen. They are normal, average guys. Some are young, some are old, some are tall, some are small, some are thin, some are overweight, some are bashful, and some are bold. Some have large penises, some have small penises, some have thick penises, and some have slender penises. Some have sex once a week, and some have sex almost every day. The only thing these men all have in common is the desire to please themselves and pleasure their partners, and the discipline to master a simple technique.

I know over two hundred of these men personally. They are not friends or lovers, but they are men who have learned the secrets of male multiple orgasm and staying power at the various therapy clinics where I have worked. Over the past ten years, I have had the opportunity to train more than one hundred of these men, one on one, from start to finish. The rest are men whose training and progress I have been at least partially involved with through my clinical work.

What I'm trying to say, without sounding intimidating or otherwise off-putting, is that I have seen many men become multi-orgasmic and increase their staying power. And there is something extremely important you need to know before you read any further: I have never met a motivated man who couldn't master the techniques that lead to male multiple orgasm. Never. I know that every man who reads this book and follows the exercises I describe can master these techniques too.

If you are a woman reading this book, extraordinary surprises and unimaginable pleasures await you. Whether you choose to work with your partner as he learns these techniques, or be a supportive bystander, your understanding of what it means to be intimate with a man is about to be redefined forever.

If you are a man reading this book, you are about to enter into a new relationship—a new and exciting relationship with your own penis. You will never be the same. The payoffs are unlimited—payoffs for you, payoffs for your partner, and payoffs for your relationship. By the time you finish this book and complete the simple exercises I describe, you will be a changed man. After you've had your first multiple orgasm, you won't believe you waited this long, but you will believe in yourself and in the power of your own sexuality.

What Makes Me Such an Expert?

I know more about men's penises than most men do. It's my job. I'm a sex therapist.

I'm also a former sex surrogate. A female sex surrogate is someone who teaches men how to control and improve their sexual performance and enjoy their own sexuality.

To be a sex surrogate you have to know men and you have to know men's penises. Truth is, you have to know men's penises better than most men do. Sure, the typical man knows what he likes and dislikes, he knows his strengths and weaknesses, and he may even be keenly aware of his fears and what he believes to be his limitations. But from where I sit, this awareness is very limited. When you work with hundreds of men, you see things that no one man could ever see for himself. You recognize how easy it is for a man to have sexual tunnel vision because of the limitations of his own experience. You also realize how different men are, and how much there is to learn from the experiences of other men.

I Know What Men Can Do and I Know What Women Want

I have made the study of human sexual response my life's work. I know what the average man's true capabilities are, and believe me, they are far more than you could ever imagine.

I know what women want too because I'm not just a sex therapist—I'm also a woman. I understand how a woman feels when she's in bed with someone she loves. On a professional basis, I've listened to countless women talk about their lovemaking. But even more revealing in some ways are the hours I have spent talking about sex with women friends, all of us letting our hair down and telling the truth about what we like and what we want.

Even a woman who loves a man very deeply can feel frustrated and unfulfilled by his sexual limitations. Unfortunately, many women equate sex with compromise and sacrifice. Few women regularly experience the kind of lovemaking they dream of, and even fewer believe it's actually possible. That's the bad news. The good news is that this is about to change.

If you are a woman looking for more satisfaction from your partner and more understanding for yourself, I'm going to teach you everything you and your partner need to know about male multiple orgasm. If you are a man who is reading this book, I want you to think of me as a personal trainer—someone who can teach you the techniques and exercises that will change everything you have ever believed about sex.

Can We Talk?

Remember that big "talk" you had about sex with your dad when you were just a kid? Who could forget it? It was probably one of the most awkward moments of your childhood, right? Sure he did the best he could, but you probably were left to fill in a whole lot of gaps by yourself. Well, it's time for another talk. This time, you and I need to talk about sex . . . really talk. If you have a partner, she should listen too. I'm not going to pull any punches here. When it comes to sex, there are a lot of things most people just don't know. I'm not talking about sexual trivia—I'm talking about the critical things that stop most people from ever having a truly fulfilling sex life.

Please don't get insulted. I know that you know a lot about sex. Everyone does, whether they want to or not. After all, it's a subject that's hard to avoid in the nineties. Turn on the TV, plug in the radio, open a book, go to the movies, flip through a magazine . . . what do you see? Sex, sex, sex. From Howard Stern to Melrose Place, from Donahue to pay-per-view, we're getting educated by osmosis. But that doesn't mean it's a very good education.

Knowing a lot about sex is not the same as being sexually fulfilled. Knowing a lot about sex doesn't always change what happens in the bedroom. No matter how much you've heard, read, and seen, sex can still feel like the greatest mystery in the world. No one likes to feel insecure about something as important as sex, but the truth is, at some point everyone feels as though everyone else on the planet is making love more often and more exquisitely than they are. Sometimes it feels as though all of this sexual education has only made us more unsure.

It's time to change all that and start filling in all of those gaps once and for all. I couldn't think of a better place to start than learning about male multiple orgasm, which will change everything you ever thought you knew about sex. In fact, it will change everything. Period. It certainly did for me and for the many men and women with whom I've worked. I'm sure it will for you too.

Meet the Author

Barbara Keesling has worked as a sex surrogate and sex therapist; earned a doctorate in psychology; written several bedside guides on lovemaking including Sexual Healing, Sexual Pleasure, and How to Make Love All Night; and taught human sexuality and psychopathology at Pepperdine University in southern California.

Keesling's expertise has been featured in numerous national magazines such as Glamour, Cosmopolitan, Redbook, and Marie Claire, and she appeared in an erotic Playboy pictorial. She is a frequent guest on national TV and radio talk shows.

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How to Make Love All Night and Drive a Woman Wild 4.3 out of 5 based on 0 ratings. 9 reviews.
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Guest More than 1 year ago
Both the title and the information for the book are quite misleading. Ms. Keesling is more concerned to show you how to set up a more romantic and strong relationship with your girl than to teach you explicit and new techniques. Practically, this is a book for newbies. You will better spent your money on other more content rich books.
Guest More than 1 year ago
ladies, if your man is taking viagra, get this book. i read it first and talked it up to my 51-year-old husband who finally agreed to read it and the results have been impressive. this simple exercise which is similar to the kegel exercises you learned during pregnancy will eliminate the prescription from your lovemaking. seriously.
Guest More than 1 year ago
The night has a thousand eyes but the day has one. Yet the light of the bright world dies with the dying sun. The mind has a thousand eyes and the heart but one. Yet the light of the whole life dies when love is done.....
Guest More than 1 year ago
i know all the reviews are written by yassir here. i just catch you from sexy!!!
Guest More than 1 year ago
This book rocks. Before, i didnt know her mouth from her 'bits' but now, i rock her world. My understanding of sexual potential and sexual power will be changed forever. I learnt how to have complete, powerful orgasms without losing my erection. I now have complete control over the Jolly Roger and, it is all thanks to Barbara Keesling and Susanne Jaffe. Thank You.
Guest More than 1 year ago
You can't help loving what's being taught to you inside of this book! The style is appreciated and well understood.
Guest More than 1 year ago
Every man should read -- no, OWN -- this book. Just knowing you can and should be a player, not a supplicant, in the arena of sex could save the world. Between the information in this book and the insight in Coming Clean, The Terrible Truth About Sex you'll have all you need to know.
Guest More than 1 year ago
Both me and my husband read this book in less that 1 week. So much of this book related to us. I was unhappy and he was frustrated because he could not understand my feelings of wanting to be satisfied more that twice a month compared to his 25. If you read this book, it will change everything! And it really helps the man understand where us woman are coming from.