Husband-Coached Childbirth (Fifth Edition): The Bradley Method of Natural Childbirth

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Now completely revised and updated for today's parents-to-be...

The book that started a revolution in the birthing experience and helped millions of women and their partners to a safe and natural childbirth.

The Bradley Method has changed the way men and women—and the medical establishment—think about childbirth today. Now this new, updated edition of the groundbreaking work by Robert A. Bradley, M.D., has all the information you need to ...

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Overview

Now completely revised and updated for today's parents-to-be...

The book that started a revolution in the birthing experience and helped millions of women and their partners to a safe and natural childbirth.

The Bradley Method has changed the way men and women—and the medical establishment—think about childbirth today. Now this new, updated edition of the groundbreaking work by Robert A. Bradley, M.D., has all the information you need to approach a natural childbirth safely, confidently, and wisely. From the reasons to choose the Bradley Method to the steps you will take as your birth day approaches—and after the birth of your baby—this book is designed to help couples share completely in the birthing experience.

•Build better, deeper, and more trusting communication skills with your partner in preparation for a drug-free childbirth

•Learn the physical, emotional, and mental relaxation techniques essential to a natural childbirth

•Discover how you and your doctor can work together toward your natural delivery

•Monitor your weight, nutrition, and your overall well-being during pregnancy

•Use natural prevention methods for the most common pregnancy problems

•Get the most out of the bonding experience you will share with your baby and your partner

With its time-tested wisdom, medical soundness, and reassuring first-person accounts of natural childbirth, this book is the “gold standard” of childbirth books. The Bradley Method is an essential guide for anyone considering childbirth without unnecessary medications or medical intervention and to share fully in your child’s arrival into the world.

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Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9780553385168
  • Publisher: Random House Publishing Group
  • Publication date: 5/20/2008
  • Edition number: 5
  • Pages: 336
  • Sales rank: 70,158
  • Product dimensions: 8.20 (w) x 5.12 (h) x 0.82 (d)

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Introduction


The administrator of Porter Memorial Hospital in Denver, Colorado, called our office one day in 1961. He had received a request from the Canadian Broadcasting Corporation for permission to film a documentary on husband-coached natural childbirth for presentation on their program, This Hour Has Seven Days.

Mrs. Merle Grosman, of Toronto, a natural-childbirth mother herself and a member of the Natural Childbirth Association at the time, had initiated the idea and written to ask if we had patients who would cooperate.

In discussing it with her, we decided to utilize a woman having her first baby. There is a misconception promoted by the unknowing that having a baby by natural childbirth might be possible after having had other babies, but not with the first!

Accordingly we contacted our due or overdue primigravidas (women experiencing their first pregnancies), and after Tom Koch, director, and his crew of cameramen arrived, these women were photographed with their husbands at class, doing prenatal exercises, etc., as participants in mental and physical preparation for childbirth. Then everyone waited patiently for one of them to go into labor.

The law of the perversity of nature in general and pregnant women in particular manifested itself in that we had had many births just before our Canadian visitors arrived, then had to wait a week before one went into labor. This served to illustrate again that babies cannot read calendars and that doctors cannot tell when labor will begin.

As an honorary life member of the Toronto Natural Childbirth Association I was very much honored to be chosen to illustrate the great principles involved. I was also embarrassed that it took so long before a patient went into labor. I was bound by medical principles not to interfere with the development of a baby by forcing or inducing labor for anyone’s convenience, so everyone waited.

Finally at midnight one night the phone rang, and Patricia and Gary Petersen announced they were on their way to the hospital. They were met at the hospital entrance by the somewhat sleepy but efficient TV camera crew of the CBC, who carefully followed the course of labor and birth with cameras and sound recorders. The visitors were intrigued and delighted by the calm self-assurance of these two young people who confidently went about the happy business of bearing a child as they had each been trained to do.

The husband had signed in for his wife while the nurse in attendance had performed the prep. He then joined his wife, to remain with her throughout labor and birth and share the requested privilege of walking back with her from the delivery room.

Their happy chatter as they strolled together in the early stages of labor would be rhythmically interrupted by uterine contractions. As her labor picked up in intensity they returned to the labor room and concentrated on their respective tasks. The old term “labor pains” just couldn’t properly be applied here, for the observers could see no evidence of pain. The husband busily cranked the bed flat, arranged an extra pillow under his wife’s raised knee as she turned on her side and assumed the “running” position of early first-stage labor that she had learned in class.

During the contractions the young mother would calmly lie curled up, peacefully close her eyes, and automatically relax all the muscles of her body. The young husband tenderly placed a guiding hand on his wife’s abdomen and directed her diaphragmatic breathing. He would also lean over and maintain a constant soft whispering in his wife’s ear during this interval.

The observing guests could not make out his words, but the endearing tone of his voice made apparent that the content was indeed the repetitious love “gobbledygook” with which she was so familiar. In prenatal classes the husbands are instructed to repeat verbally during contractions the intimate “love line” that was so effective in the moonlight originally and started the chain of events leading to the pregnancy.

When the muscle contractions of the uterus subsided, the chatter resumed, to be momentarily interrupted again as the uterus went about its work uninhibited. Between contractions he would rhythmically massage his wife’s low back “saddle” area, accompanied by murmurs of approval from her. Whenever a contraction occurred, the same calm pattern of relaxation, abdominal breathing, and love talk would be automatically repeated.

As time went on, the husband occasionally slipped ice chips into his wife’s mouth with a spoon to counter the drying effect of mouth breathing, which is part of total relaxation during contractions. The couple performed their respective tasks calmly, automatically, with light chatter between contractions. The observers from Toronto were impressed by the obvious fact that here were two people working happily together. Each knew, without being told, exactly what they were about.

As time went on, the interval between contractions gradually became shorter, the chatter accordingly gradually diminished, and the parents concentrated more and more on their respective tasks. Each said, when asked later, that they completely forgot about the presence of the observers; they were too busy.

The idea of some sort of medication being utilized in such an efficient, peaceful performance never occurred to the performers and seemed ludicrous to the observers. The close relationship between husband and wife, the total dependence upon each other, was heartwarming to see—that it truly “takes two to tango” was never more manifest. Again, the obvious ego-deflating question was put to me as the obstetrician: “Who needs a doctor for this?”

My occasional vaginal examinations to determine the dilatation of the cervix constituted rather rude interruptions that momentarily disrupted the smooth working pattern of the process. They obviously got along better when the doctor wasn’t around. I answered their question by stressing again that the doctor’s role is vital only when complications occur. Comparing birthing to swimming, the doctor is the lifeguard. Both swimming and birthing carry an irreducible minimal risk, and lifeguards and doctors are necessary, but only for complications. Good swimmers and good birthers need them to be present, but just in case problems arise.

As labor progressed, the parents became oblivious to everything and everyone as they carefully concentrated on the job at hand. This concentration was enhanced by the quiet, hushed “bedroom” atmosphere that is maintained in the labor rooms of this hospital. The importance of such an atmosphere is stressed as part of nurses’ training in a course on the principles of natural childbirth.

Labor is what the term implies, hard work, and although mothers are trained to deliberately relax all muscles during uterine contractions, the uterus is of sufficient size and power as a muscular organ to produce perspiration in the mother in the later stages of labor. The husband’s role included getting a cool washcloth and applying it tenderly to the perspiring brow of his wife. Such seemingly trivial acts reduce the tasks of nurses and direct the gratitude of a mother to the one she loves . . . her husband.

Between contractions, at the wife’s request, the husband would alter her position occasionally by adjusting the bed so that she was half- sitting, with two pillows under her arms. Again, the familiar talk and cooperation would be evident.

The labor progressed to the transition stage, and the husband gently encouraged the techniques associated with this stage, knowing the need for change. The young mother shortly announced the urge to push, ushering in the second stage of labor. After a short vaginal check to verify the complete opening of the cervix, the husband adjusted the pillows behind his wife’s shoulders and coached her in assuming the squatting position in the elevated bed. With the beginning of each contraction the mother would take two breaths and exhale them, waiting for the contraction to build in intensity.

This was followed by breath-holding and the expulsive pushing with contractions. After a few pushes in bed, the husband, doctor, and observers changed into scrub suits, caps, and masks while the attending nurses wheeled the mother to the nearby birth room.

The husband took his place at the head of the birth-room bed on what I call the “daddy stool,” which prior to natural childbirth was occupied by an anesthetist. He resumed his coaching and adjusted the supporting pillows during each contraction to fit the contours of his wife’s shoulders and back as she calmly held her breath, curled forward, and pulled her knees back under her armpits in the squatting position on the downward-tilted birth bed.

This position served to open wide the soft tissues of the birth canal to allow gradual descent of the infant. Because of the degree of additional exertion required of the mother in this stage, the husband utilized the cold, moist washcloth, not only to wipe away perspiration from her brow, but to have his wife bite on between contractions to maintain moisture on her lips, as he had been trained to do.

In this, the second stage, the infant had passed from the uterus into the vaginal canal, and the uterus now slowed down in the frequency of contractions with longer intervals between. This resulted in a return of the chatter between wife and husband. The observers were again impressed by the calm, peaceful attitude of the parents as they conversed between contractions about whether the baby would be a girl or a boy, and eagerly looked forward to knowing soon. The husband made an admiring comment on his wife’s ability to hold her breath during contractions.

As the baby passed into the world, announcing her arrival with a lusty yell, the mutual exclamations of delight, “It’s a girl!” by husband and wife, their shiny-eyed wonder at the miracle of this new life, and their mutual pride in accomplishment made a picture of wholesome togetherness bordering on ecstasy.

I then handed the infant to the mother to hold. This first real meeting with her child was accompanied by such a delighted, joyous expression on the mother’s face that the husband, ready with his camera, recorded this important moment as a permanent record for the baby book.

The umbilical cord was later clamped and cut while the mother was holding the baby. The baby was then put at the mother’s side for the first introduction to breast-feeding. The purpose of this from an obstetrician’s point of view was not primarily nourishment, but to activate the reflex that stimulates uterine contractions to separate the placenta and decrease bleeding from the placental site. This is a safety factor for the mother and baby.

Breast-feeding also provides nourishment and this first feeding of colostrum, which provides immunities for the baby to keep it safe in its new environment. The colostrum starts the production of vitamin K in the baby’s gut, building up to a peak at the eighth day and is important for blood clotting. Colostrum also acts as a laxative to get the baby passing meconium, which cleans the bowels out, reducing problems with jaundice. Having the baby at the breast, close and skin to skin, intensifies bonding between mother, father, and baby.

During this period of handling and nursing the child, husband and wife literally had their heads together. Their constant “parent talk” to the baby, calling her by name—Kirsten Lynn—and expressions of delight to each other were accompanied by intimate indications of mutual love, which made all the attendants feel like intruders.

The parents were playing with the baby, absorbed in counting fingers and toes, commenting on whose hair color it inherited, and so forth.

Each parent was then given a celebratory glass of iced orange juice— for the mother to replenish blood sugar, depleted from its utilization by the uterus, and to correct the drying effect of mouth breathing during labor. Orange juice also helps replace fluids lost during the birth process and provides sodium for fluid balance and potassium to prevent dizziness. The father is also given a glass of orange juice as a token of appreciation for his important participation and to maintain the great principle of sharing all aspects of this beautiful experience with his wife.

We joyfully refer to the orange juice as refreshment served at the original birthday party—which is the best of all birthday parties; the others are just pale substitutes for the real thing. Besides, only naturally born babies can accurately celebrate true “birthdays,” the others are more appropriately celebrating “delivery days”!

The mother then expressed the desire to walk back from the birth room. She was given her robe and slippers, and with the baby in one arm, a glass of orange juice in the other hand, and a beaming, proud husband alongside, she strolled happily out the door and down the hall —mission accomplished. A helpful nurse, using the husband’s camera, took a final picture of this new family group.

Since 1917 as a natural baby myself, observing animals on the farm and as a teacher of natural childbirth, I have seen this happy series of events repeated thousands of times. To our visitors from Toronto it was a new and never-to-be-forgotten experience.

I was delighted to have our busy office hours interrupted a few hours later by the director and photographers, who stopped by to express their admiration and praise of the method, and their gratitude for the privilege of witnessing the birth. Most significant to me was that they had sent flowers to the new mother and were passing cigars around as enthusiastically as if each were the father of the baby! The spirit of joy and pride in accomplishment of a natural birth is indeed contagious.

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Table of Contents


Acknowledgments     ix
Preface to the Fifth Edition     xi
Preface to the Fourth Edition     xvii
Foreword     xix
Introduction     1
The Theory of Natural Childbirth     8
"It's Not Nice to Fool Mother Nature"     16
Where Do Fathers Fit in?     43
Preparation and First-Stage Labor What Do Animals Do?     55
Second-Stage Labor and Birth Squatting and Pushing     89
The Coach's Training Rules     119
How to Live with A Pregnant Wife     147
"Does My Wife Have to Be 'Cut' (Have an Episiotomy)?"     178
When Will the Baby Come?     187
Postpartum and Family Relations     205
Husband's Role in Breast-Feeding     218
The Nature of Instinct     229
Research Catches Up with the Bradley Method     235
Obstacles to Overcome     242
Pregnancy Loss     250
"Daddy Helped Born Me"     255
Nutrition in Pregnancy     261
Pregnancy Problems: Natural Prevention     271
Pregnancy Problems: Natural Healing     284
Bradley Moms' Perspectives and Stories     293
Bradley Dads' Perspectives and Stories     307
Photographing a Birth     329
Dad's Coaching Tips     339
Index     351
About the Authors     361
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  • Anonymous

    Posted December 12, 2010

    The original was much better.

    The information is the original is still important, even though the language is outdated. This version revised by the Hathaways, is terrible.

    1 out of 1 people found this review helpful.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted May 9, 2010

    Not what I thought

    I thought this book would be a "how to" guide for pre-, during, and post- labor relaxation techniques. There is some of that in here, but most of it was propaganda and stories...so it wasn't all that useful to me. Evidentally there is another book or manual similar to this one that may have better information about the techniques, but I am not willing to spend money on that one after being burned by this one.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted January 29, 2010

    Not reader friendly

    I bought this for my husband... He uses it as a coaster on his bedside table. I think it could have been written in such a way that would capture father readers better.

    1 out of 1 people found this review helpful.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted March 16, 2009

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    Great book for pregnant women and their partners

    This book was written for a pregnant woman's partner to read during her pregnancy. However, as a pregnant woman I found it very informative and motivational as well. It gives excellent advice on how best to pursue a natural child birth with little to no medical intervention. It is empowering to the new mother, but also to her partner. It offers detailed advice as to what the partner can do to help support, comfort and motivate his/her partner during pregnancy, childbirth and afterwards. The name "Husband-Coached" may seem a little off-putting to anyone going through childbirth with a partner that is not technically their "husband", but the ideas are universal and can be applied regardless of what you officially call your partner!

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  • Posted February 16, 2009

    Must Read for Husbands/Coaches supporting Natural Births

    Having read other Bradley books in preparation for our first born, I bought this book for my husband at about 28 week pregnant, hoping to get him to start researching/preparing. Two chapters in, he stayed home from work one day b/c he couldn't stop reading. He was so inspired, he began calling midwifes and obstetricians, searching for someone that was pro-Bradley, as we had become disillusioned with our existing OB and feared that we would get pressured into a high intervention birth at the hospital at which she delivers. Largely b/c of this book and how it fired up my husband as my advocate, we switched to a fantastic midwife at 30 wks pregnant, switched hospitals, and now are completely relaxed about our impending birth in about 6 weeks. Also b/c of this book, my previously complacent husband now calls me at work to remind me to shut my office door and do my "birth exercises." I highly recommend this book for any couple that is determined to have a natural childbirth. Knowing that I have an invested, educated, excited husband-coach beside me, I don't fear the pain of childbirth at all. This book has made us a strong team, thrilled about the natural childbirth we are planning.

    1 out of 1 people found this review helpful.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted December 5, 2009

    Very helpful information.

    Not as good as a class, but very helpful information.

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  • Posted May 30, 2009

    Bradley is still the best!

    I used "Husband-Coached Childbirth" when I was pregnant in 1978 and 1982. It helped me find what I needed to give my children the best possible start for life. Now my daughter is pregnant and I bought the new edition for her and her husband. We all have a much better understanding why it is so important to have a truly natural birth when possible and a relaxation technique to help it happen. If you only read one book on childbirth, make it this one.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted June 30, 2008

    A reviewer

    I believe in knowing your options for everything, and if you don't just accept the norm for childbirth, this book will help you know your options. An extremely informative and well-written guide to the options of childbirth.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted April 23, 2008

    Prepared me for birth

    This book prepared us for the 18 hours of labor that I went through with my first baby. I knew what to expect and how to work through it. It's not a method widely used in my area and a nurse commented on how well I did in labor and wanted to look more into Dr. Bradley's method. The key is to actually practice relaxation and breathing long before the day you go into labor so that his method comes naturally.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted April 16, 2008

    PLEASE!

    I went through 15 hours of unmedicated labor with my daughter. Once that pain hits you, you completely forget everything you supposedly learned. You ignore everyone around you. Most of all, the whole notion of being told to 'relax' through a contraction is total B.S. It is IMPOSSIBLE to relax while going through that much pain. I think Bradley is full of it. It's great in theory but the only thing that helped me was BREATHING, BREATHING, BREATHING...and back massage. 'Relax.' Riiiiiiiight. I'd love to see Dr. Bradley himself try to give birth using his method!

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  • Anonymous

    Posted August 4, 2007

    Insightful Truths Why All Can Give Birth Naturally

    Dr. Bradley tells couples exactly what both the pregnant mother and the expecting father should be doing in preparation for labor and how to achieve a natural, normal birth experience. Dr. Bradley focuses on the father in this book entitled Husband Coached Childbirth because Dr. Bradley's years of experience in obstetrical practice taught him that no person's presence in the labor room is more important than the laboring mother's husband. If the husband is her emotional rock and support outside of childbirth, then he should be the #1 support person during childbirth, too. Dr. Bradley advises husbands how to fulfill their important role by giving husbands the understanding they need about childbirth so they can properly assist their pregnant wives during pregnancy and during labor and delivery! Dr. Bradley shares insightful knowledge on how to have a natural, normal birth that every couple, CBE, doula, midwife, OB should follow. This is an excellent read and unmatched resource for all.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted July 21, 2006

    Great Book

    I think this book was excellent. It is geared towards the father, and even if women are the ones giving birth, the fathers want to be a part of that, and Dr. Bradley did a wonderful job with this. I would recommend this book to anyone interested in a more natural childbirth.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted October 26, 2001

    Helpful

    This book is the classic Bradley intended it to be. His focus on natural birth is admirable. I did have a problem with the constant focus on DAD. Hello? It's the MOM who's giving birth!! Dad has never given birth and never will. Otherwise, the book is to be recommended.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted February 6, 2000

    Absolutely the Best Way

    My husband and I used this Bradley book back in 1966 before birthing as a couple was accepted. My husband and I both read the book. It changed all our plans for birthing and over the years we had 4 wonderful birthing experiences- shared, full of joy, and without pain for me. My copy is now in tatters from being read and re-read. A marvelous guide for couples that wish to have birthing as a shared experience.

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