I Wish I Had a Red Dress

I Wish I Had a Red Dress

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by Pearl Cleage
     
 

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Joyce Mitchell was widowed far too young when he' beloved husband, Mitch, died in a tragic accident five years ago. Since then she's kept her hands full and her mind and heart occupied by running The Sewing Circus, an all-girl group she founded to provide badly needed services like day care and job counseling to young women, many of whom are single mothers. More

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Joyce Mitchell was widowed far too young when he' beloved husband, Mitch, died in a tragic accident five years ago. Since then she's kept her hands full and her mind and heart occupied by running The Sewing Circus, an all-girl group she founded to provide badly needed services like day care and job counseling to young women, many of whom are single mothers. More important, The Circus is a place for lively, wide-ranging, heart-to-heart discussions that will help members grow into what Joyce likes to call "twenty-first-century free women."

All in all, Joyce has a full and rich life. She has her work, her family, her friends, and her town. But there are some nights when she crawls into bed alone and has to admit that something is missing. What she doesn't have is that red dress she keeps dreaming about or a social life that would accommodate it even if she braved the mail and bought one. To further complicate matters, she may not have The Sewing Circus much longer, as the state legislature has decided not to fund the group's vital but hard-todefine work with young women who are too often regarded as problems rather than possibilities.

Feeling defeated and pessimistic, Joyce reluctantly agrees to keep a date for dinner at the home of her best friend, Sister — a reverend like no other-and finds not only a perfect meal but a tall, dark stranger named Nate Anderson. Nate has just joined the administration at the high school and his unexpected presence in Idlewild touches a chord in Joyce that she thought her heart had forgotten how to play. Nate feels the same immediate connection, but both have enough experience with broken hearts to take it real slow. Besides, they've got too much work to do to concentrate on falling in love....

But life moves at its own pace, and as Sister says, "if you want to make God laugh, make plans." Particularly when it comes to matters of the heart. Joyce decides the trick is to stay focused and to remember that nothing is as sexy as the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth, especially if you tell it while you're wearing a perfect red dress....

Editorial Reviews

Library Journal
It's not surprising that Joyce Mitchell wears black all the time; her life has been full of darkness and death. Her story is the sequel to Cleage's well-received debut novel, What Looks Like Crazy on an Ordinary Day, and is also set in a small Michigan town formerly a resort for wealthy African Americans. Joyce is a social worker counseling young African American women, dedicated to guiding them through teenage pregnancies and destructive relationships. She herself has been on her own for five years of widowhood, and aside from some dreaming, she cannot imagine a life in which wearing a beautiful red dress is ever going to be possible. Then Nate, a former Detroit cop and new high school counselor, moves into town. Nate and Joyce's relationship is developing at the same time Joyce is trying to protect one of her members from a violent man. As reader, Cleage captures the struggles, tensions, and "cosmic confusion" of the war between the sexes in her fictional African American community. The struggles will continue, of course, but the hope is there for an occasion to wear that wonderful red dress. Recommended for public and academic libraries that feature African American fiction. Barbara Valle, El Paso P.L., TX Copyright 2001 Cahners Business Information.
Kirkus Reviews
An Oprah Book Club author (also see Mitchard, below) returns with a relentlessly on-message companion novel to What Looks Like Crazy on an Ordinary Day (1997), this one featuring Ava's older sister Joyce, a strong woman who finally finds a man who's good enough. Now a 40-year-old widow, Joyce tells her own story, set in the same lakeside African-American town of Idlewild, Michigan. Her narrative is tiresomely politically correct, not only about gender issues (she teaches young black women to be themselves and fight sexism), but about food (she's a vegetarian), exercise (she does Tai'chi), and race (the music and movies she likes are almost exclusively black). It begins with her failure to obtain state funding for the Sewing Circus, a social program Joyce created that tries to lend a hand to young women who leave school when they become pregnant. The Circus provides day care, instruction in new skills, and, just as importantly, advice on how to stand up to the young men who abuse, impregnate, and limit them. Joyce still misses husband Mitch and hasn't found anyone to compare. While she struggles to find new funding for the Circus, she also has to deal with the Lattimores, a feckless family of petty criminals and seducers whose mother thinks they're perfect. The Lattimore boys, especially Junior, aren't happy that Joyce has encouraged Nikki, one of their women, to move out with her child. Meantime, Joyce realizes that she's been wearing black for too long, and she begins to contemplate a change when friends introduce her to handsome Nate, the new high school counselor and a divorced former policeman. But before she's ready to put on a red dress and begin living a little, Joyce mustconfront Junior, survive a violent attack, and negotiate her own set of gender issues with Nate. More a bully pulpit than a novel. First printing of 125,000; $125,000 ad/promo; author tour

Product Details

ISBN-13:
9780694524181
Publisher:
HarperCollins Publishers
Publication date:
07/01/1901
Edition description:
Abridged, 4 Cassettes
Pages:
6
Product dimensions:
4.44(w) x 7.10(h) x 1.23(d)

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Chapter One

Joyce

I wish I had a red dress. I've been wearing black for so long I feel like one of those ancient women in the foreign movies who are always sitting around, fingering their rosary beads and looking resigned while the hero rides to his death on behalf of the people, or for the sake of true love, which is really six of one, half dozen of the other, when you think about it.

I never cared much about clothes. My basic requirement is comfort, which automatically cuts out high-heeled shoes, pushup bras, panty hose and strapless evening gowns, but could theoretically still leave room for a range of colors, fabrics and even a stylish little something or other for special occasions.

The convenience of all black used to appeal to me. I loved the fact that I could reach into my closet and know everything I touched was going to match everything else I touched with absolutely no effort on my part, but it can be a little depressing sometimes. Even to me.

I didn't consciously start wearing black as a sign of mourning, even though at some subconscious level, I probably did. My husband, Mitch, died five years ago, which is when I really started noticing it, but he was just the last of a long line. My father passed when I was sixteen. My mother committed suicide on my wedding night a year later. My son got hit by a car walking home from school when he was six and my daughter didn't make it to her first birthday. I think she was the hardest one for me to deal with because I barely got to know her and she was gone.

It was just the opposite withMitch. We'd been together since I was fifteen and we were so close I made the mistake of thinking we were the same person until he fell through that hole in the ice and drowned and I didn't die, even though for a long time I wished I had.

My baby sister, Ava, says it's hard to keep your body looking good when you know nobody's going to see you naked. She could have added that when you know your primary audience when clothed is preschoolers, some distracted teenage mothers, a few retirees and a government bureaucrat or two, it's equally difficult to get up much enthusiasm for earrings that dangle and skirts that swirl like you're standing in a little breeze even when you're not.

I'm a social worker. I used to be a teacher. Then one day I looked around and realized that what I was teaching and the way I was teaching it were completely irrelevant to my students' real lives. They were just ordinary kids from around here; young and wild and full of the most complicated human emotions and not nearly enough facility in any language to articulate those feelings to each other or to anyone else. But one day I saw them, really saw them, and everything changed.

It was a public high school and my classes were coed, but it was the girls who kept drawing my attention. There they'd be, balancing their squalling babies on their hips in the grocery store, slapping their toddlers at the Blockbuster, rolling their eyes and tossing their extensions, considering exotic dancing as a career option, falling in love with the wrong guys, being abused, getting AIDS and steadily having kids the whole time, and they were so absolutely confined and confused by their tiny little fearbased dreams that I looked out at them one day while I was trying to teach a poem by e. e. cummings, and they broke my heart. I started crying and had to dismiss the class so I could get myself together.

That's when I knew there had to be a better way to communicate with these girls than the one I was using. I decided that finding that better way was going to be my life's work because I don't think a group of people can survive if the women don't even have enough sense to raise their children.

That's why clothes are usually the last thing on my mind. Black pants and a black turtleneck without applesauce showing anywhere are about the best I can hope for at the moment, but somehow I can't get that red dress out of my mind.

I Wish I Had a Red Dress. Copyright © by Pearl Cleage. Reprinted by permission of HarperCollins Publishers, Inc. All rights reserved. Available now wherever books are sold.

Meet the Author

Pearl Cleage is the author of Mad at Miles: A Black Woman's Guide to Truth and Deals with the Devil and Other Reasons to Riot. An accomplished Playwright, she teaches playwriting at Spelman College, is a cofounder of the literary magazine Catalyst and writes a column for the Atlanta Tribune. Ms. Cleage lives in Atlanta with her husband. What Looks Like Crazy on an Ordinary Day...is her first novel.

Pearl Cleage is the author of Mad at Miles: A Black Woman's Guide to Truth and Deals with the Devil and Other Reasons to Riot. An accomplished Playwright, she teaches playwriting at Spelman College, is a cofounder of the literary magazine Catalyst and writes a column for the Atlanta Tribune. Ms. Cleage lives in Atlanta with her husband. What Looks Like Crazy on an Ordinary Day...is her first novel.

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I Wish I Had a Red Dress 4.5 out of 5 based on 0 ratings. 25 reviews.
MACJK More than 1 year ago
This was a book club discussion book, I highly recommend this book and any others by this author
KimmyR More than 1 year ago
I really love her books. This was a great read... This was a great follow up book...
Guest More than 1 year ago
This novel is absolutely brilliant!!! The idea of being a 'free woman,' self-love/acceptance, and looking within are necessary fundamentals that we can apply in all of our lives. The Sewing Circus reinforces the need for communication and support between Black women and it proves that we can exchange education, knowledge, and ideas amongst ourselves without tearing one another down. The novel also demonstrates unconditional love and how much you receive back when you give of yourself and help others. The narrative style is amazing and the dialogue simply sparkles. The novel is sprinkled with many breaktaking vignettes esp the story of the Smitherman twin and the day spent at the Glass Menagerie with the married man & the glass unicorns - there are so many stories within this one work!!! This book is so full of life, experience, love, sisterhood, and healing that the pages come alive!!!
Guest More than 1 year ago
I read this book in a few hours it had me turning pages so fast to see what happened next. I think I stopped breathing a few time in between pages.
Guest More than 1 year ago
Kudos to Pearl Cleage. This sequel to 'What Looks Like Crazy on an Ordinary Day' was such a delightful read! I hated to see it end and found myself going back reading certain sections again. I hope this sequel has a sequel.
Anonymous 9 months ago
It's never too late to love. It's never to late to change. The story of these young ladies growth, dreams, and triumph gives me hope for his cold world. Although a work of fiction it embodies real situations. Young and older women can learn from this book.
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Superb
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as always
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Guest More than 1 year ago
I enjoyed this book on a trip to Denver while travelling on the train. There were times when I was somewhat bored by the read but mostly was entertained by the ending of the book and the characters referenced. It seems like the book could have given a bit more but it doesn't offend the casual reader so I feel it is better than the average book out there now.
Guest More than 1 year ago
This book was truly a work of art! I found my self crying at points in the book that weren't even sad, she just made me want to be a stronger woman... or a 'free woman' as she described in the book. This novel was so beautifully written and i enjoyed it from cover to cover, and still wanted more. What happens after everything quieted down??? I found myself really thinking about the questions that she asked the girls of 'the circus'The only thing that i did not understand about the story was that she said she had an adopted daughter that she never mentioned but once in the book. BUT OVERALL THIS IS A GREAT READ AND I ENCOURAGE ALL YOUNG LADIES LIKE MYSELF TO READ IT.
Guest More than 1 year ago
Our book club loved this book. It's funny, dramatic, and full of wisdom.
Guest More than 1 year ago
I thoughht this book was really thought provoking. It is the sequel to What looks like crazy on an ordinary day. Both books are very well written and capture you from the first page. I wish I had a red dress is written with such a powerful message it is a great addition to any home library. The main character is strong, kind and brave, she encourages the reader to take a good look at themselves and delve into serious issues between men and woman as well as woman to woman. A must read
Guest More than 1 year ago
I really enjoyed this book. I read it for my book club (Between The Covers Book Club- Winston-Salem, NC) and I was a good read. At times it was kinda boring but for the most part I enjoyed it.
Guest More than 1 year ago
My book club choose this book to read and it was a great pick. The book was insightful, and witty. I loved the concepts and the characters. Pearl, I still want to know more about Joyce. Everyone deserves a 'Sister' in their life and the right to be a free woman.
Guest More than 1 year ago
I simply adored this book and the authors style of writing it. I have never read work like this before..with such clever and thought out (it seemed) dialouge. The authors wit and charm hooked me from the very beginning of the novel and when I was done with it I really really missed the characters!
Guest More than 1 year ago
I thoroughly enjoyed reading this book. The main character was so inspiring in what she was trying to accomplish with the Circus and how she influenced the lives of the young mothers. It made me want to go out and create something positive for young sisters and the brothers too. I enjoyed the characters of the two sisters, they reminded me of the Delaney Sisters. Truly a good read for young and old.
Guest More than 1 year ago
This book deserves more than 5 stars in my opinion. I found it to be very powerful, outstanding and truly touching. I was delighted that Pearl focused on Joyce Mitchell, the lady and older sister of Ava from her book, What looks like Crazy on an ordinary day...which I also read and truly enjoyed. Joyce is very refreshing and inspiring. The work she does with The Circus is outstanding. Through her we come to meet people like Tee(Tomika), Shelia, Sister and Bill, Nate, the Smitherman twins, Nikki and the Lattimore to name a few. The story isn't hard to follow with all the characters and it also offers some wonderful life lessons and moments that make you really think about your life and how we have an impact on the lives of others as well. I laughed, cried and rejoiced while reading this book and haven't stopped talking about it yet. I can't wait to share it my friends and family and get their feedback!! That's just how powerful it is and it has a little bit of everything for everybody. Pearl did a beauitful job once again and it was a sheer pleasure meeting and hosting her in Houston.(July 2001) This book is great for book clubs and is sure to be another bestseller for her. It should be another Oprah Book Club choice.
Guest More than 1 year ago
Pearl has done it again. She brings to life Ava's sister from her previous novel to discuss her journey from grieving widow to dating and finding love again. She even tells about the other characters and their growth in the small town of Idlewild. Its a good book.
Guest More than 1 year ago
If you ever loved anyone completely, (whether it be a husband, sister, child, friend, or whatever) then this book is for you. It will remind you just how important it is to be surrounded by those who you love and those who love you in return..unconditionally.
Guest More than 1 year ago
I thought this book was very well written with a cast of interesting characters, witty on-liners, and cleaver dialog. Cleage's writing style is truly enlightening and inspiring ¿ she focuses on ¿life issues¿ like self-love/acceptance, courage/inner strength, and self reliance ¿ delivering messages through the scenarios and characters in Idlewild. Although I would have liked her to have deeper defined the concept of the ¿free woman¿ and the shared more background of some of the supporting characters, like the Lattimores, Sister, and the twins¿but perhaps that¿s for another book. Overall, it was a great summer read with a happy ending. I enjoyed it and look forward to her next release.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
Yaaay Pearl!!!