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Dear Dr. Epstein,
I admire and laud your "vision." Your concept of going beyond the scientific and technical boundaries in treating patients in your hospital is most encouraging.
With prayers and good wishes,
The Dalai Lama
All right reserved.
From If I Get to Five:
Surgeons have a tendency to compartmentalize their professional and emotional lives. We're trained to believe that we can best serve our patients by remaining objective professionals. With so much fear and anxiety swirling around our patients and their families, it's easy to imagine that responding to all their emotional needs would be overwhelming, and might even erode one's professional judgment.
But my colleagues and I have reached a paradoxical conclusion: the closer we've gotten to our patients and their families, the more strength and inspiration we've been able to draw from them. And by keeping our hearts, as well as our minds, open to our young patients, we've learned professional and personal lessons that eluded us earlier in our careers.
I used to think that courage meant taking on the toughest cases, being the guy who dared to make the life-and-death judgment calls in the operating room. I now know that holding a child's hand while he undergoes chemotherapy can be a lot scarier than holding his life in my hands during an operation.
Excerpted from If I Get to Five
by Epstein, Fred
Copyright © 2004 by Epstein, Fred.
Excerpted by permission.
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|1.||Hold Someone's Hand||11|
|2.||Live in the Moment||39|
|3.||Face Your Fears||75|
|4.||Believe in Miracles||99|
|5.||Play to Your Strengths||131|
|6.||Love Without Boundaries||159|
Posted December 22, 2003
As a parent who's son was just recovering from surgery to remove a tumor in the incredible facility that Fred created and beginning radiation and chemotherapy, this book could not have come along at a better time. It is full of incredible stories that will make you laugh one page and cry the next. Even if you do not have a child undergoing this type of horrible disease, this book will show you the power of the human spirit and help you focus on what is important in the short time we spend here. It also introduces you to some truly remarkable people. This will be found in alot of stocking this year.Was this review helpful? Yes NoThank you for your feedback. Report this reviewThank you, this review has been flagged.
Posted December 12, 2003
I don't usually submit my opinions but this book is so large, so vital, it should be mandatory reading for every human being - doctors, parents, kids, schools - everyone. It should be dispensed, along with vitamines, hot chicken soup and sunscreen to help teach, comfort, inspire and reward.Was this review helpful? Yes NoThank you for your feedback. Report this reviewThank you, this review has been flagged.
Posted July 25, 2003
I was 1 of Dr. Fred's first patients at NYU back in the late 1960's early 1970's. The memories that stick out most in my mind the most are starting at the age of 8 years old when I had severe complications after craniofacial surgery. These complications resulted in significant brain swelling causing seizures and placing me in a coma for several days. During my recovery, Dr. Fred attended to my health needs. He always had a reassuring smile, spent time to not only reassure me, but also my parents. At the time, my parents were very young. He treated them with respect, kindness, and understanding. To this day, my family still reminisces over the many memories they have of Dr. Fred sitting up with me and my parents all night while I was recovering in ICU. He left my parents with his private home number several times and always treated them with respect, understanding, and reassurance. He is truly remarkable in the care and compassion he gave to me, my family, and all his patients! So many people care about Dr. Fred and wish him only the best as he continues to undertake the steps necessary in his recovery. Thank you so much, Dr. Fred!Was this review helpful? Yes NoThank you for your feedback. Report this reviewThank you, this review has been flagged.
Posted April 6, 2003
Dr Epstein is not only a man of his trade - but he is an angel in disguise. I had the once in a lifetime opportunity to controbute to Dr E's book... my story is told under the name Robin Taylor. I hope everyone who reads this book can begin to understand the power of being a child.Was this review helpful? Yes NoThank you for your feedback. Report this reviewThank you, this review has been flagged.
Posted April 2, 2003
It is interesting that Dr. Fred Epstein - the subject of countless television and news stories who refer to him as a 'miracle man' - chooses to assume only a supporting role in this collection of stories about his young patients. Perhaps the reason Dr. Epstein has created so many miracles in the lives of others is that he so deeply respects the forces of life and hope within us all. He reminds us of the importance of faith - saying in one of my favorite passages 'I've found that when you're filled with anger and fear, it helps to be able to believe. It doesn't matter what you believe in - I've seen kids sustained through terrible ordeals by their belief in Tinkerbell - as long as you believe in something. Even if it's just a God to curse and berate. If you don't believe in anything, you're sunk.' For anyone who has experienced a test of faith, this book will resonate. With stories like Dr. Fred's, there is always reason to wish, to hope and to believe.Was this review helpful? Yes NoThank you for your feedback. Report this reviewThank you, this review has been flagged.
Posted December 9, 2008
IF I GET TO FIVE: WHAT CHILDREN HAVE TAUGHT ME ABOUT COURAGE AND CHARACTER is more than just a biography focusing on the great accomplishments of Dr. Fred. This nonfiction is more of a vigorous lesson that when it seems all but over in the bottom of the ninth, still swing the bat of life. Dr. Fred provides anecdotals from his mentoring tutors, the many children whose lives touched his........................... The book also bolsters those with disabilities to achieve more than the expectations of those around them by conquering the Pygmalion Effect. Dr. Fred overcame his own childhood handicaps and a recent one as an adult due to an accident.................. In many ways his is an Art Linkletter bio, but the stakes are everything worthwhile. Well written and inspirational, Fred Epstein, M.D, and Joshua Horwitz provide realistic hope in the darkest moment by encouraging adults to heed the advice of their little ones who, even when death nears, show what life is all about...................... Harriet KlausnerWas this review helpful? Yes NoThank you for your feedback. Report this reviewThank you, this review has been flagged.
Posted March 15, 2003
Dr. Epstein cuts to the core of a small but intense world, one that is experienced by few but should be seen by all. The sudden and tragic turns that patients and families undergo bring out and magnify what we all cherish in children. These stories and dialog represent the values of one of the world¿s truly great men, allowing us to appreciate his thoughts and emotions like few would allow, and teach us how to live life and not simply live trough life. I simply can not recommend this book, which serves an example to some and a lesson to all, more highly to anyone, at any age.Was this review helpful? Yes NoThank you for your feedback. Report this reviewThank you, this review has been flagged.