I'm the One That I Want

I'm the One That I Want

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by Margaret Cho
     
 

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Comedian. Icon. TV star. Role model. Trash talker. Fag hag. Gypsy. Tramp. Thief. Margaret Cho displays her numerous sides in this funny, fierce, and honest memoir. As one of the country’s most visible Asian Americans, she has a unique perspective on identity and acceptance. As one of the country’s funniest and most quoted personalities, she takes no

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Comedian. Icon. TV star. Role model. Trash talker. Fag hag. Gypsy. Tramp. Thief. Margaret Cho displays her numerous sides in this funny, fierce, and honest memoir. As one of the country’s most visible Asian Americans, she has a unique perspective on identity and acceptance. As one of the country’s funniest and most quoted personalities, she takes no prisoners. And as a warm and wise woman who has seen the highs and lows of life, she has words of encouragement for anyone who has ever felt like an outsider. With I’m the One That I Want, Margaret Cho has written a book every bit as hilarious, shocking, and insightful as she is.

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bn.com
Ever since she chummed with the cross-dressers who worked at her father's bookstore, Margaret Cho has been accenting the unconventional. This spunky stand-up comic regularly turns adversity into material, spicing her monologues with references to her own problems with weight, drugs, and alcohol. I'm the One That I Want is a sassy declaration of independence from a confirmed and talented malcontent.
Publishers Weekly - Publisher's Weekly
Expanding on her one-woman show (and film) of the same title, comedian Cho mines her improbable life. The misfit daughter of Korean immigrants in San Francisco (who named her Moran, which she likens to naming a kid "Asshill"), she dropped out of high school, gaining success in stand-up even as she succumbed to self-loathing, substance abuse, bad boyfriends and the siren song of Hollywood. As star of the first Asian-American sitcom (All-American Girl), she was forced to diet herself into sickness even as the show strayed from her story and quickly foundered. This book runs into the inevitable challenge of converting performance into print; neither a script nor a fully fleshed-out memoir, it works episodically but ultimately fizzles. Descriptions of the endless lousy men in Cho's life, perhaps disarming onstage, become tedious on the page. Still, she finds humor in pathos. Working on a pilot with a sitcom writer, she held back the truth: "I was unemployed and trying to kick a sick crystal meth habit by smoking huge bags of paraquat-laced marijuana and watching Nick at Night for six hours at a time. Now, that's a sitcom." Cho knows how great comics tend toward self-destruction, finding it hard to come down from stage adulation. Still, her discovery of self-esteem and New Agey conclusions ("I discovered there was a goddess deep inside me") are something that an acerbic comedian like Cho shouldn't embrace without irony. (May) Forecast: Cho's five-city tour and radio satellite tour will bring her to the attention of her young, hip audience. Copyright 2001 Cahners Business Information.
Library Journal
Cho, the talented and witty comedienne who starred in All American Girl, the first Asian American sitcom, here adds to the growing list of celebrity autobiographies in a self-indulgent effort boasting all of the elements that make such works popular. She discusses her problems as a child, troubled teen years, dangerous drug habits, weight battles, and feelings about her one-woman show, which is now being well received by Asian Americans. Unfortunately, the book, which is adapted from her show, feels more like an exercise a therapist might have suggested than a serious autobiography. It is sexually explicit, which may make it inappropriate for younger readers, and contains an overabundance of obscenities apparently used more for shock value than substance. Cho's comedic wit does not translate well to print, and it seems that she could not decide whether to write for laughs or sentiment, resulting in an uneven blend. While this may have limited appeal to her fans, it is a minimal purchase at best. Not recommended. Rosalind Dayen, Broward Cty. South Regional Lib., Pembroke Pines, FL Copyright 2001 Cahners Business Information.
From the Publisher
“[A] beautiful book . . . It is innately empowering, honest, and raw.”
–ROSIE O’DONNELL

“REAL AND REVEALING . . . What makes Cho’s book resonate is the razor-sharp honesty she deploys and the straight-ahead style she uses to chronicle her messed-up life. Her humor is in no short supply.”
–Los Angeles Times Book Review

“A COMPELLING, QUICK READ THAT WILL SATISFY CHO’S FANS AND INSTANTLY MAKE NEW ONES.”
–The New Orleans Times-Picayune

Product Details

ISBN-13:
9780756787509
Publisher:
DIANE Publishing Company
Publication date:
03/28/2005
Pages:
213

Meet the Author

Margaret Cho was born in 1968 and raised in San Francisco. She currently lives in Los Angeles with her dog, Ralph (pronounced Rafe, as in Fiennes).

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I'm The One That I Want 4.2 out of 5 based on 0 ratings. 15 reviews.
Kara Berhow More than 1 year ago
the struggles and triumphs left me in tears. great story
WorldFaithGifts More than 1 year ago
The fact that she did spiral down and hit bottom but still had the tenacity to get back up again, clean herself off and perservere gives hope to alot of people. It gives hope to substance abusers who want to clean themselves up but wonder if they can, teens that are getting picked on who admire Cho and also those out there who have eating disorders. Writers write for themselves because they love to write. Comedians perform because they love to make people laugh. It's nice to get a combination of the two. A terrific performer who wanted to share a bit more about herself.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
This book is good but having watched many of her shows and caught her act in person, the book is 2nd best.
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Guest More than 1 year ago
I recently saw Margaret in concert and went right out after and bought this book. This book, though edgy absolutely had me busting a gut. I loved it and highly recommend it.
Guest More than 1 year ago
I wanted to like this book.yet I found it to be rude and some stuff I found insensitive.For me this book was disapointing.
Guest More than 1 year ago
I could hardly put down this book. It was original, honest and thought provoking. Definitely one of the best autobiographies ever written. I love Margaret's writing and this book makes me feel like I know her as a friend.
Guest More than 1 year ago
YOU HAVE TO READ THIS BOOK!!!!! Cho's life is one huge rollercoaster, from the hills to the valleys, from sea to shining sea. The stuff this woman put up with in her life makes you want to go out and take over the world. For anyone who's ever been through hell and back, this is the book for you!
Guest More than 1 year ago
Not only is Margaret Cho an incredibly talented comedian, she's also an amazing author. This book is fabulous! Her honesty and self-examination is really touching. Margaret's got an incredible way with words, who knew?
Guest More than 1 year ago
If you haven't had the good fortune to see the stage show or movie of the same name, this book makes an admirable substitute. It, like her standup, is laugh-out loud funny, heartbreaking, and brutally honest. The only thing missing is her hysterical impersonation of her mother's answering machine messages . . . but that's what the audio book would be for, huh?
Guest More than 1 year ago
I really loved this book, it made me cry. I could relate to it b/c when I was younger I had kids made fun of me too and like she says kids are very cruel but you don't realize that it has nothing to do with you until later on unless you are tougher mentally.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
"Ashclan attack!!" Fangstar howls. (The roar of battle rings out through the half-burnt down forest.)