Induced After-Death Communication: A New Therapy for Healing Grief and Trauma

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Induced After-Death Communication (IADC) is a new therapy for grief and trauma that has helped thousands of people come to terms with their grief by allowing them the experience of private communication with their departed loved ones.

Botkin, a clinical psychologist, created the therapy while counseling Vietnam veterans in his work at a Chicago area VA hospital. Botkin recounts his initial--accidental--discovery of IADC during a therapy sessions with Sam, a Vietnam vet haunted ...

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Overview

Induced After-Death Communication (IADC) is a new therapy for grief and trauma that has helped thousands of people come to terms with their grief by allowing them the experience of private communication with their departed loved ones.

Botkin, a clinical psychologist, created the therapy while counseling Vietnam veterans in his work at a Chicago area VA hospital. Botkin recounts his initial--accidental--discovery of IADC during a therapy sessions with Sam, a Vietnam vet haunted by the memory of a Vietnamese girl he couldn't save. During the session, quite unexpectedly, Sam saw a vision of the girl's spirit, who told him everything was okay, she was at peace now. This single moment surpassed months--years--of therapy, and allowed Sam to reconnect with his family.

Since that 1995 discovery, Botkin has honed IADC and used it to successfully treat countless patients--the book includes dozens of case examples--and has taught the procedure to therapists around the country.

Induced After-Death Communication is the inside story of a revolutionary therapy that will profoundly affect how grief and trauma are understood and treated.

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Dr. Allan Botkin's [Induced After-Death Communication] probes the profound therapeutic and spiritual implications of apparent contact with departed loved ones. This book is a must read for all serious students of death and dying. --Raymond Moody, MD, PhD, author of Life After Life: The Investigation of a Phenomenon--Survival of a Bodily Death and Reunions: Visionary Encounters with Departed Loved Ones

Dr. Allan Botkin's [Induced After-Death Communication] probes the profound therapeutic and spiritual implications of apparent contact with departed loved ones. This book is a must read for all serious students of death and dying. --Raymond Moody, MD, PhD, author of Life After Life: The Investigation of a Phenomenon--Survival of a Bodily Death and Reunions: Visionary Encounters with Departed Loved Ones

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  • ISBN-13: 9781571744234
  • Publisher: Hampton Roads Publishing Company, Inc.
  • Publication date: 9/28/2005
  • Pages: 232
  • Sales rank: 812,088
  • Product dimensions: 7.24 (w) x 9.00 (h) x 0.66 (d)

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Induced After-Death Communication

A New Therapy for Healing Grief and Trauma


By Allan L. Botkin, R. Craig Hogan

Hampton Roads Publishing Company, Inc.

Copyright © 2005 Allan L. Botkin, Psy.D., with R. Craig Hogan, Ph.D.
All rights reserved.
ISBN: 978-1-57174-423-4



CHAPTER 1

An After-Death Communication Occurs Unexpectedly during Therapy

The beginning of knowledge is the discovery of something we do not understand.

—Frank Herbert


Becky excitedly described to me what she experienced. "I saw my mother," she said, a broad smile across her tear-stained face. "I told her, 'I love you,' and she said, 'I love you too.' Then she hugged me. I could actually feel her arms around me."

But at the time of this experience, Becky's mother had been dead for five years.

Becky wasn't describing a dream. She was sitting in my office when she had the experience. She said she felt the touch of her mother's arms and was joyful to see her mother's smiling face, but only she and I were there and her eyes were closed. Her mother's warm, familiar embrace seemed vibrant and alive, but her mother was dead.

Her sense that she felt the touch of her deceased mother's arms was unusual enough, but the life change that resulted was remarkable. "I've been an atheist my whole life," she said, "but I'm sure now there really is a life after death. I used to worry about dying, and I felt so much pain when my mother died. I know now, though, that my fear and grief were based on something I didn't understand. I know that everything is OK and that I need to remember this when I feel life is getting me down." Her grief reduced dramatically and remained resolved in the months that followed.

When Becky came to my office that day for help to alleviate the deep sadness she was feeling over her mother's death, I was able to use a new form of therapy I had discovered to help reduce her grief. The method was available to me because I had learned how to use it through a long journey that began with a session in which it occurred by accident and progressed through identifying how I could help a patient experience it at will.

The story of that discovery follows.


My Skeptical Behavioral Scientist Training

The radical behaviorist movement was at its peak in the 1960s and was nowhere stronger than among a group of professors at the University of Kansas in Lawrence, where I was an undergraduate psychology major. Radical behaviorism asserted that only observable behaviors are worthy of scientific consideration. The practice of inferring private, mental events in people may be appropriate for mind readers and other nonscientific thinkers, but it had no place in a science of psychology. We were confident that inferences about inner states are unnecessary because understanding the relationship between observable behaviors and environmental variables is all that is needed to understand people's problems and provide treatment.

I carried that behaviorist, scientific underpinning into my master's degree studies at Illinois State University and through my work in community mental health for three years. I became adept at counting behaviors while manipulating the environment to evaluate how the counts changed. Finally, I ended my formal studies at Baylor University in Waco, Texas, in the comfortable familiarity of a cognitive-behavioral paradigm, the most widely accepted scientific psychological model of the early 1980s that continues to dominate psychology today.

No matter how my perspectives broaden, the instincts and skepticism of the scientist will never leave me. Anything I believe must be verifiable.

After completing my Doctor of Psychology (Psy.D.) at Baylor, I accepted a position at a Chicago-area Veterans Administration hospital working with posttraumatic stress disorder veterans, a focus that was to become my career. The first seven or eight years of using the cognitive-behavioral model with these traumatized vets were grueling for me and for my patients. The half-dozen professional staff on the unit all felt the same. The prevailing cognitive-behavioral model for treating victims of psychological trauma was "exposure therapy." We repeatedly exposed patients to reminders of their traumatic experiences in a safe, supportive environment so that, over time, their intense emotional responses might decrease in intensity.

While the approach made sense from a theoretical point of view, and we did get some modest results, the therapeutic changes were minimal and didn't appear to hold up over time.


A New Technique Dramatically Reduces Trauma and Grief

Then, in the late 1980s, psychologist Francine Shapiro, Ph.D., discovered a radical new therapy technique she named eye movement desensitization and reprocessing, or EMDR. In EMDR therapy, the psychotherapist, usually sitting before and slightly to the side of the patient, moves his or her hand, with the index and next finger extended, left and right in front of the patient on the same level as the patient's eyes. While focusing on the psychotherapist's hand and keeping the head stationary, so only the eyes move left and right rhythmically, the patient attends to a disturbing thought, feeling, sensation, or image.

During a set of eye movements, the patient experiences a spontaneous, natural reprocessing of the thought, feeling, sensation, or image. After a number of sets of eye movements, patients typically report psychological breakthroughs that normally would take months to achieve. The procedure is now being used for a wide variety of disorders, from multiple personality disorder to the posttraumatic stress disorders I worked with.

Experience has taught me that EMDR does two things better than any other approach. First, it rapidly and completely uncovers past traumatic events that are repressed or partially remembered. It is very common for a patient to say something like, "I can see the whole thing very clearly now" or "I felt like I was back there again." This experience by itself does very little to help the patient resolve the traumatic experience and, in fact, patients generally feel very distressed when they fully uncover a traumatic memory.

Once the traumatic memory is fully accessed in this way, however, the second strength of EMDR is that it allows the patient to process the memory so that the reliving component of the memory is eliminated, and the patient can then remember the traumatic event in a more abstract way. It is clear that this processing can only occur if the traumatic event is first uncovered and fully accessed.

No one is quite sure how it works, although it is apparent that it speeds up mental processing and is similar to the rapid eye movements (REMs) people experience in dream sleep. It is well known that during dream sleep, our brains process information at a higher rate than when we are awake. It has been assumed that this increased processing during sleep causes the rapid, back-and-forth eye movement. Having a fully awake person purposefully shift the eyes in the same way, as in EMDR, seems to cause the brain to process information more rapidly and efficiently. Thus EMDR draws upon the person's own natural ability to heal.

A number of studies have looked at the effects of EMDR on brain functioning. Levin, Lazrove, and van der Kolk (1999), for example, used neuroimaging to study the effects of EMDR. It was found that when subjects accessed a traumatic memory prior to EMDR, deep structures in the brain that represent the sensory and emotional components of the traumatic event were activated in isolation. After EMDR treatment, however, areas of the brain that hold the memory in a more abstract or symbolic manner were also activated. These findings support the consistent clinical observation that prior to EMDR, when people access a traumatic memory, they feel they are reexperiencing the event; after EMDR, they are able to remember the event in a more abstract and emotionally detached manner. I know of no other psychotherapeutic technique that can demonstrate such a clear change in brain function and an accompanying dramatic shift in perspective reported by the patient.


EMDR Is Not Hypnosis

I am frequently asked if EMDR is similar to hypnosis. Professionals trained in both EMDR and hypnosis, including me, believe that the techniques involve two very different types of mental processing. The best way to explain the differences is to use this analogy. Consciousness is like an internal movie projector that ceaselessly projects mental images onto the mind's screen. Hypnosis gets a person into a relaxed, focused state so the projector slows down. Because the projector is slowed, hypnosis can be used to go back to places on the film where forgotten or repressed memories are thought to exist. While hypnosis can assist in retrieving memories, the problem is that a person in a hypnotic state is also very suggestible and may unknowingly put an event on the screen that in reality never occurred. False memories, as they are now called, can seem very real to the person after the hypnosis.

EMDR, on the other hand, accelerates information processing in the brain so it speeds up the consciousness projector. When people suffer from repeatedly experiencing a traumatic memory, their projectors are, in essence, stuck in time and keep replaying the moments when the event occurred. EMDR speeds up the projector, unsticking it to allow it to run smoothly. The traumatic event then ceases to intrude in an unwanted way into consciousness.

At the same time, EMDR does not increase the suggestibility of the subject, so false memories are not a problem with EMDR. In fact, I have used EMDR to undo false memories. Tim, for example, had an alcoholic mother who was prone to fits of rage. For years, he was very troubled by a vague memory of feeling smothered and having difficulty breathing in his mother's presence. While under hypnosis with another therapist, he developed an image in which his mother was holding a pillow over his face with the clear intent of trying to kill him.

When I used EMDR with Tim, he immediately went back to the time he felt smothered and clearly remembered that his mother was preparing to take him outside on a very cold day and was bundling him up in his snowsuit as he lay in his stroller. His mother had tied a scarf tightly around his face, which caused him to have some difficulty breathing. Without any suggestion from me, Tim discovered what really happened and, from that moment on, was no longer distressed by the memory. Had he discovered that his mother was trying to kill him, more EMDR would have been required to get his "stuck projector" running smoothly again.


EMDR Has Begun to Make Its Way into Mainstream Practice

EMDR is rapidly making its way into mainstream mental health. Over 30,000 professionals have been trained in EMDR therapy worldwide, and the number is growing. EMDR training is only available to people who are already recognized by their state as independent providers of mental health services.

To date, there have been 18 scientifically controlled studies of the efficacy of EMDR. Overall, these studies support the value of EMDR. In addition to reducing post-traumatic stress disorder problems, it is also effective in the treatment of grief, phobic and panic disorders, sexual dysfunction, dissociative disorders, performance difficulties, and chronic pain. EMDR is still in its infancy and other applications will certainly be found.

The weight of evidence for its effectiveness has prompted official endorsements of EMDR by the American Psychological Association Division 12: Clinical Psychology (1998), International Society for Traumatic Stress Studies (2000), Northern Ireland Department of Health (2001), United Kingdom Department of Health (2001), Israeli National Council for National Health (2002), and U.S. Veterans Administration/Department of Defense (2004).

The most important testimony for the effectiveness of EMDR, however, is that we have seen it work repeatedly and reliably with thousands of our patients.


A Near Tragedy Teaches Me about EMDR Firsthand

A colleague and I on the post-traumatic stress disorder unit were preparing to complete the formal certification training at Dr. Francine Shapiro's EMDR Institute in Watsonville, California, when a very distressing event forced me to experience the power of EMDR before my training. My two-year-old son nearly asphyxiated when a piece of food lodged in his throat. He first began choking and we weren't sure what was happening; then he stopped breathing and started turning blue. A successful Heimlich maneuver dislodged the food and he survived the ordeal, but the image of my son, blue, frantic, and dying before my eyes became an intrusive image that disturbed me often for two weeks after the incident.

When I explained my distress to the colleague who was planning to go through EMDR training with me, he suggested he use the technique as we understood it then to help my mind reprocess the troubling memory. We did several sets of eye movements while I focused on the incident. In ten minutes, the image had lost its distressing nature for me, and my anxiety over it had decreased dramatically. It seemed too good to be true. The effect appeared to be due to my own inner processing of the memory, a source of healing I had learned in my behaviorist training as being inconsequential. But that was only the first rock to dislodge from the foundation of certainty about behaviorism I had stood upon since my earliest days at the University of Kansas.


We Begin Using EMDR Therapy with Remarkable Results

My colleague and I completed the EMDR training and began using it in our posttraumatic stress disorder unit at the Veterans Administration (VA) hospital to see the effects it would have on our unique patients. The results were dramatic. Often we achieved in a single session changes in patients that we had not been able to approximate after years of conventional psychotherapy. It was a heady time for us. Regularly, one of us could be seen scurrying down the hall into a colleague's office to excitedly describe a successful session with a patient, doing a high five in triumph.

In 1992, Dr. H. Lipke and I published "Case studies of eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR) with chronic post-traumatic stress disorder" in Psychotherapy. We were elated for our patients and for ourselves as professionals earnestly seeking ways to make a difference in our patients' lives.

EMDR proved especially powerful in healing grief. People who experience grief, especially traumatic grief, generally feel a variety of intense emotions. Initially, survivors often experience shock and numbing. Then, more chronic feelings of anger, guilt, and sadness surface; they may be crying one moment and full of anger or rage the next. A primary task for the psychotherapist is to create a supportive psychological environment in which patients can openly express these feelings and work through them.

By working through these feelings, patients are usually able to eventually achieve some level of acceptance of their loss and improved ability to get on with their lives. Generally, the loss is never fully resolved; reminders of the loss can trigger periods of sadness, guilt, or anger throughout the patient's life. Over time, however, these episodes usually decrease somewhat in frequency and intensity.

If, for example, parents have a child who is hit and killed by a car while playing in the street, the parents will likely experience all three of these emotions (sadness, guilt, anger) very intensely at different moments. At times, they will be enraged at the driver who killed their child; at other times, they will feel intense guilt for having allowed their child to play in the street or for not watching their child more closely. In their most despairing moments, they will feel the cold clutch of intense sadness at their loss and the painful feeling of disconnection from their child.

It is my belief that at the core of grief is profound sadness. The core sadness is so painful that the patient unconsciously but effectively shrouds it in guilt and regret and gets stuck on "What if?" questions. What if I could have prevented her death? What if I had been a more loving friend? Both the guilt and sadness are often avoided by anger or rage—at God, the doctors, the commanding officer, or anyone else available as a target. The doctors should have been more attentive. Our lieutenant had no business putting us in that dangerous position. However powerful they seem when acted out, the layers of guilt and anger are only defenses the patient's mind uses to keep from feeling the painful sadness at the core.


(Continues...)

Excerpted from Induced After-Death Communication by Allan L. Botkin, R. Craig Hogan. Copyright © 2005 Allan L. Botkin, Psy.D., with R. Craig Hogan, Ph.D.. Excerpted by permission of Hampton Roads Publishing Company, Inc..
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Table of Contents

Contents

Acknowledgments,
Foreword by Raymond A. Moody, Jr., Ph.D., M.D,
Notes,
Preface,
1. An After-Death Communication Occurs Unexpectedly during Therapy,
2. How I Learned to Induce After-Death Communications,
3. Teaching Other Psychotherapists to Induce After-Death Communications,
4. New Ideas in the Treatment of Grief,
5. Common Observations in IADCs,
6. Extraordinary IADC Cases,
7. IADCs That Defy Known Psychological Theories,
8. Shared IADCs and Concurrent ADCs,
9. Professionals and Academics Experience IADCs,
10. Forgiveness in IADCs Heals Anger and Guilt,
11. IADCs with Combat Veterans: Making Peace with War,
12. Requirements for a Successful IADC,
13. Striking Similarities between ADCs and NDEs,
14. The Good News: You Can Now Take a Look for Yourself,
15. The Future of IADC Therapy—Where Do We Go from Here?,
16. A Personal Statement,
17. An Important Note on Suicide,
Appendix A. Glossary,
Appendix B. The IADC Procedure for Psychotherapists,
Appendix C. What I Learned from the First 84 Cases,
Appendix D. Data Update,
Bibliography,
Index,
About the Authors,

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  • Anonymous

    Posted January 3, 2006

    Great book on Therapy for Healing Grief

    ¿I am a psychologist and work with many people in grief. I have found Dr. Botkin¿s book to be very helpful. The book is written in a thorough and clear manner, and he presents many cases that support his conclusions. At first I was rather skeptical, but when I started using Dr. Botkin¿s IADC therapy it became immediately clear that my patients were experiencing profound healing. I now use this new therapy for all of my patients who are struggling with grief or the effects of trauma. I highly recommend this book to all therapists who work with patients who are in grief. This book, however, was not written just for therapists, and the general reader will find comfort and hope in this remarkable book.'

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  • Anonymous

    Posted January 3, 2006

    A Must- Have For Anyone who feels guilt, pain or anger due to the death of somebody

    ¿I am a psychologist and work with many people in grief. I have found Dr. Botkin¿s book to be very helpful. The book is written in a thorough and clear manner, and he presents many cases that support his conclusions. At first I was rather skeptical, but when I started using Dr. Botkin¿s IADC therapy it became immediately clear that my patients were experiencing profound healing. I now use this new therapy for all of my patients who are struggling with grief or the effects of trauma. I highly recommend this book to all therapists who work with patients who are in grief. This book, however, was not written just for therapists, and the general reader will find comfort and hope in this remarkable book.'

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  • Anonymous

    Posted December 20, 2005

    Induced After-Death Communication: A New Therapy for Healing Grief and Trauma

    This book scientifically presents the discovery of a controversial new treatment for Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, insistent grief, and trauma. This book is an in-depth study of a new process of healing. If anything, its author, Dr. Allan Botkin, Psy.D., invites you to leave your preconceptions, fears, and judgments at the door. Which, by the way, is no easy task when you are talking about talking to the dead IADC (Induced After Death Communication) is a therapeutic healing technique that requires the use of EMDR, a proven tool for therapists employed to reduce the intensity of intrusive memories. While using this technique, Dr. Botkin discovered the IADC as he searched for new ways to relieve war veterans of the life-altering pain associated with their often-horrifying experiences in the field. As a result most, but not all, of the case studies in this book are male. All are from diverse professional, experiential, and religious backgrounds. In 3000 plus real cases--all occurring in the therapist¿s office--98% of the vets in the hospital had an IADC, compared with 70% of the civilians. Still, that is a robust number. Remarkably in case after case, patients insist that their experiences communicating with a deceased loved one are real, that they are not dreams or hallucinations. The universality of these experiences is impressive. Across the board, IADC therapy is shown to resolve feelings of intense grief, guilt, anger, and sadness replacing them with contentment, happiness, and a sense that the loved one is well. In addition, Dr. Botkin¿s research shows that the effects hold up over time. The book is a frank scientific discussion-- objective, non-judgmental, and yet compassionate. And though it cannot help but confront our individual notions about death and dying, Dr. Botkin does a superb job of easing you out of that old uniform and asks you gently to hang it in the closet for a while. His research shows that personal beliefs have no effect on outcome, that your beliefs are irrelevant. It is also obvious that the first reviewer, George Odencrantz, did not grasp the major importance of this book to the healing arts.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted December 14, 2005

    Induced After-Death Communication: A New Therapy for Healing Grief and Trauma

    This book scientifically presents the discovery of a controversial new treatment for Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, insistent grief, and trauma. Although the title begs for a lengthy and raucous discourse on the after-life, mysticism, the paranormal, or just the blatantly spooky, it is not about that. This book is an in-depth study of a new process of healing. If anything, its author, Dr. Allan Botkin, Psy.D., invites you to leave your preconceptions, fears, and judgments at the door. Which, by the way, is no easy task when you are talking about talking to the dead. Obviously reviewer George Odencrantz did not understand the importance of this book. IADC (Induced After Death Communication) is a therapeutic healing technique that requires the use of EMDR, a proven tool for therapists employed to reduce the intensity of intrusive memories. While using this technique, Dr. Botkin discovered the IADC as he searched for new ways to relieve war veterans of the life-altering pain associated with their often-horrifying experiences in the field. As a result most, but not all, of the case studies in this book are male. All are from diverse professional, experiential, and religious backgrounds. In 3000 plus real cases--all occurring in the therapist¿s office--98% of the vets in the hospital had an IADC, compared with 70% of the civilians. Still, that is a robust number. Remarkably in case after case, patients insist that their experiences communicating with a deceased loved one are real, that they are not dreams or hallucinations. The universality of these experiences is impressive. Across the board, IADC therapy is shown to resolve feelings of intense grief, guilt, anger, and sadness replacing them with contentment, happiness, and a sense that the loved one is well. In addition, Dr. Botkin¿s research shows that the effects hold up over time. The only flaw with Dr. Botkin¿s book is that there are just too many case studies. But, really, that just may be the best thing this book has to offer the skeptics. Induced After Death Communication: A New Therapy for Healing and Trauma is structured like a textbook but it is gently written and conversational in tone. It is a frank scientific discussion-- objective, non-judgmental, and yet compassionate. And though it cannot help but confront our individual notions about death and dying, Dr. Botkin does a superb job of easing you out of that old uniform and asks you gently to hang it in the closet for a while. His research shows that personal beliefs have no effect on outcome, that your beliefs are irrelevant. Dr. Botkin fully understands what he is up against professionally and socially. He clearly states late in the book, ¿ If there is no afterlife, which would mean that IADC¿s are pure hallucination, then perhaps our brains did evolve a hidden healing savant that reveals itself at times of great personal need such as when we approach death or suffer the death of a loved one. If the healing savant exists, then all of us have the capacity to heal.¿ To Botkin, tapping into that constitutes a major breakthrough, one that should be fully explored. To him IADC is within the realm of possibility. He has put his skepticism aside for the sake of healing and I suggest you do the same. His evidence is convincing and who really knows after all?

    1 out of 1 people found this review helpful.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted December 9, 2005

    Induced After-Death Communication: A New Therapy for Healing Grief and Trauma

    Induced After Death Communication: A New Therapy for Healing and Trauma scientifically presents the discovery of a controversial new treatment for Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, insistent grief, and trauma. The Barnes and Noble book review by George Odencrantz is totally unfounded and way off track. Although the title begs for a lengthy and raucous discourse on the after-life, mysticism, the paranormal, or just the blatantly spooky, it is not about that. This book is an in-depth study of a new process of healing. If anything, its author, Dr. Allan Botkin, Psy.D., invites you to leave your preconceptions, fears, and judgments at the door. Which, by the way, is no easy task when you are talking about talking to the dead. IADC (Induced After Death Communication) is a therapeutic healing technique that requires the use of EMDR, a proven tool for therapists employed to reduce the intensity of intrusive memories. While using this technique, Dr. Botkin discovered the IADC as he searched for new ways to relieve war veterans of the life-altering pain associated with their often-horrifying experiences in the field. As a result most, but not all, of the case studies in this book are male. All are from diverse professional, experiential, and religious backgrounds. In 3000 plus real cases--all occurring in the therapist¿s office--98% of the vets in the hospital had an IADC, compared with 70% of the civilians. Still, that is a robust number. Remarkably in case after case, Patients insist that their experiences communicating with a deceased loved one are real, that they are not dreams or hallucinations. The universality of these experiences is impressive. Across the board, IADC therapy is shown to resolve feelings of intense grief, guilt, anger, and sadness replacing them with contentment, happiness, and a sense that the loved one is well. In addition, Dr. Botkin¿s research shows that the effects hold up over time. The only flaw with Dr. Botkin¿s book is that there are just too many case studies. But, really, that just may be the best thing this book has to offer the skeptics. Induced After Death Communication: A New Therapy for Healing and Trauma is structured like a textbook but it is gently written and conversational in tone. It is a frank scientific discussion-- objective, non-judgmental, and yet compassionate. And though it cannot help but confront our individual notions about death and dying, Dr. Botkin does a superb job of easing you out of that old uniform and asks you gently to hang it in the closet for a while. His research shows that personal beliefs have no effect on outcome, that your beliefs are irrelevant. Dr. Botkin fully understands what he is up against professionally and socially. He clearly states late in the book, ¿ If there is no afterlife, which would mean that IADC¿s are pure hallucination, then perhaps our brains did evolve a hidden healing savant that reveals itself at times of great personal need such as when we approach death or suffer the death of a loved one. If the healing savant exists, then all of us have the capacity to heal.¿ To Botkin, tapping into that constitutes a major breakthrough, one that should be fully explored. To him IADC is within the realm of possibility. He has put his skepticism aside for the sake of healing and I suggest you do the same. His evidence is convincing and who really knows after all?

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  • Posted July 20, 2011

    Hopeful and beautiful

    I am an everyday person interested in the subject of what happens when we "die" and unsatisfied with incomplete, though well-meaning religious doctrine. I have read a few dozens books on this topic. This is one of the best.

    This book - and the research that went into it - is credibly hopeful and beautiful. It shows that the largest force (of the universe?) is goodwill and love, despite our various, and sometimes tragic, failings as human beings.

    Highly recommended for anyone pained by loss. Especially those who caused the loss of a life by war, in battle, by accident. They may be able to forgive themselves...with tears, forgiveness, time.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted November 17, 2005

    Content is a promotional ad. for IADC Therapy

    I found this book to contain brief summaries of client cases and discussion relating to how IADC compares with other treatments. A list of definitions and web sites for trainging in IADC and one to locate those offering therapy. This book is a good example on how to get the public to pay for advertising your product!

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    Posted April 13, 2010

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