Instant Orgasm: Excitement at First Touch

by Steve Bodansky Ph.D., Vera Bodansky Ph.D.

Overview

In their latest book, noted sexperts Steve and Vera Bodansky show readers how to take their sexual pleasure to the max by becoming instantly orgasmic. In the first part of the book, they describe the concept of instant orgasm and explain why humankind’s natural ability to experience ecstasy has been stifled through cultural brainwashing. They then present specific techniques for becoming instantly orgasmic by using a “Ground Hog” approach: starting and stopping over and over again, each time with additional knowledge gained until the concept is totally integrated into actual sensation and feelings. A chapter on pleasurable peaking describes the technique in more detail than ever before, with added emphasis on each peak starting with a first stroke mentality. The authors also delve into the reasons why some people resist pleasure and offer ways to handle those resistances, allowing anyone to become a fully sensual beings.

Product Details

ISBN-13:	9780897935081
Publisher:	Turner Publishing Company
Publication date:	05/28/2008
Series:	Positively Sexual
Pages:	228
Sales rank:	1,020,153
Product dimensions:	5.90(w) x 8.90(h) x 0.60(d)

Table of Contents

List of Illustrations     ix
Acknowledgments     x
Some Definitions to Know Up Front     xi
Introduction     1
How This Book Works     2
"No Time" and Other Excuses     4
Pleasure Now     5
Opening Your Mind     8
Give Your Hands a Hand     10
Is Instant Orgasm an Improvement?     10
How Is Instant Orgasm Different from Extended Massive Orgasm?     12
Language and Orgasm     13
New Thinking     14
Women and Men Differ in Response     17
The Old Kind of Orgasm     18
First Step     20
Check It Out for Yourself     21
Another Difference Between Women and Men     22
Self-Pleasure     24
Receptivity     25
Focusing Your Attention     26
Ways of Touching Yourself     27
More Exercises     38
Masturbation and Connections     41
Once You've Built a Connection     47
Pleasure Training     49
Inheriting Information     50
Training Your Partner to Give You Pleasure     52
Training Your Partner to Receive Pleasure     55
Putting the Training Together: Receiver and Giver     59
Requests, Suggestions, Commands     60
More Instant-Orgasm Training     61
Talking while Pleasuring a Man     63
Asking for What You Want     64
Connecting the Brain to the Genitals     65
Partnered Pleasure     67
Pleasuring a Partner: Some Basics     68
More on the Importance of Acknowledgment     69
Addressing a Negative Occurrence     71
Dealing with the Verbally Challenged     72
Feel the Heat     72
Point-and-Feel Orgasm     73
Performance Anxiety     74
One Stroke at a Time     75
Graduating to More Strokes     75
The Importance of Confidence     76
Noticing and Appreciating Her     77
Time to Touch     78
Handling Resistances: Enemies of Turn-On     79
Integrity     80
Getting into Agreement     81
A Tangent?     82
Reasserting Control     83
The Role of Chemistry     83
Hand Placement (on a Woman's Body)     85
More Signs of Resistance     86
A Variety of Pleasurable Touches     91
Pulling, Stretching, and Applying Pressure     92
Exposing Her Clitoris     93
Pressure on the Lower Abdomen     95
Pressure on Her Entire Vulva     95
Squeezing His Penis     97
More Ways to Touch a Woman     99
Lubrication     100
Lubricating a Man     103
Touchdown     104
Retracting the Hood     104
Stroking the Lower Clitoris     107
Placement of Your Second Hand     107
Advanced Tips for Creating Orgasms     109
Control and Confidence     110
Giving Orgasmic Pleasure to an Untrained Woman     111
The Position     113
Challenges     115
Touching     116
Finding the Right Pressure     118
Crotch Diving     120
Instant-Orgasm Training     120
Touching a Trained Woman     121
Ready, Set, Clitoris     123
The First Peak     124
Different Strokes     124
More Positions     125
Fun or Work?     127
The Surround Stroke     127
The Pleasure of Peaking      130
Slowing Down and Taking Breaks     131
Specific Frames     133
Are You Peaking?     135
Extending the Peak by Talking     136
Attention Spans     137
No Feeling     138
Ways of Peaking     139
First-Stroke Mentality     141
Between Peaks     141
Peaking by Changing the Stroke     142
Peaking and Control     142
Know When to Break the Rules     143
Training Peaks     144
Peaking Before Ejaculation     145
Go Peak Yourself     147
Closing Words     149
Choose Pleasure     150
Frequently Asked Questions     153
Bibliography     172
Index     174

Editorial Reviews

"...I would recommend Instant Orgasm: Excitement at First Touch! to anyone who wants to expand their pleasure with or without their partner. Life is too short to miss out on so much fun!" - Gloria Hawkins, Reader Views

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