Intimacy After Infidelity: How to Rebuild and Affair-Proof Your Marriage

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Overview

It's devastating to discover that the person you trust the most has betrayed you. You'll be facing some hard questions after learning of your partner's infidelity. You may choose to rebuild your relationship, or you may decide to move on. Whatever the right decision is for you, this book will help you figure out why your partner betrayed you and decide whether you can remain in your relationship. It will also show you new ways to relate that can help you and your partner become a lasting, loving, and committed couple.

You'll start by taking a look at the phenomenon of infidelity and the three types of intimacy: self-intimacy, conflict intimacy, and ...

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Overview

It's devastating to discover that the person you trust the most has betrayed you. You'll be facing some hard questions after learning of your partner's infidelity. You may choose to rebuild your relationship, or you may decide to move on. Whatever the right decision is for you, this book will help you figure out why your partner betrayed you and decide whether you can remain in your relationship. It will also show you new ways to relate that can help you and your partner become a lasting, loving, and committed couple.

You'll start by taking a look at the phenomenon of infidelity and the three types of intimacy: self-intimacy, conflict intimacy, and affection intimacy. Then you'll learn about the three kinds of infidelity-those of fear, of loneliness, and of anger-and what each reveals about your relationship. Then it's on to practical exercises that can heal emotional wounds and enable you to recover your ability to trust. Even if you decide not to remain with your current partner, the book will help you make wise relationship choices to 'affair-proof' your future relationship.

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This much-needed book by two licensed clinical psychologists empathetically guides readers through a partner's infidelity. Using case studies and sound psychological concepts, Solomon and Teagno detail the reasons why long-term love relationships (LTLR) succeed or fail, what causes infidelity, and how to build a true LTLR, should that be in everyone's best interest. The authors describe the three intimacies necessary in an LTLR—self-intimacy, conflict intimacy, and affection intimacy—as well as the three emotions that cause infidelity—fear, loneliness, and anger. Appendixes contain exercises to facilitate emotional self-awareness and communication. Invaluable to those suffering from betrayal and wondering where to turn; highly recommended for all public libraries.


—Deborah Bigelow

Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9781572244610
  • Publisher: New Harbinger Publications
  • Publication date: 11/28/2006
  • Pages: 206
  • Sales rank: 171,748
  • Series: Unassigned Series
  • Product dimensions: 6.00 (w) x 8.90 (h) x 0.50 (d)

Meet the Author

Steven D. Solomon, PhD, is a licensed clinical psychologist who specializes in couples therapy. He has been in private practice in La Jolla, CA, for more than twenty years. He is a founding director of the Relationship Institute and past president of the San Diego Psychological Association, the United Jewish Federation of San Diego County, and Hillel of San Diego. He and his wife, Esther, have been married for twenty-one years and are the very proud parents of their son, Lewis.

Lorie J. Teagno, PhD, is a licensed clinical psychologist in La Jolla, CA, where she has worked in private practice for more than twenty years. A founding director of The Relationship Institute, she has been an adjunct lecturer at United States International University. She has provided training for many therapists in couples counseling.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted July 22, 2010

    I/we overcame her affair because of this book.

    I always thought that if my wife ever cheated on me I'd divorce her right away. Now we've been married for 6 years and have two kids. But I still would have tossed my wife out and divorced her when I found out about her affair if a friend hadn't told me to read this book. The authors knew exactly what I was feeling! What they wrote helped me deal with how bad I was hurt and embarrassed, and how furious I was. I wanted to hurt her back so much! But I still loved her, so I gave "Intimacy after Infidelity" to my wife to read too. It helped us understand why she betrayed me. That helped me feel better instead of thinking it was because I wasn't good enough. And it's still helping me get my trust in her back. Since she read it she has a better idea of how to earn my trust again. Maybe most important of all, the authors explain in a very understandable way what changes we've had to make in our marriage so that we don't let things slide like we were before. Now we're slowly getting closer and closer, which gives me hope that if we keep working on it I won't have to worry about this ever happening again. So if you or someone you care about is going through this in their marriage, do them the biggest favor: get them this book. It saved our marriage and is guiding us in making it better than it ever was.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted March 20, 2007

    Reading Now, Can't Put it Down!

    This book is definatly for a woman trying to start over after an affair. It is written in a woman's perspective, so it is naturally easier to connect with. Easy to read, easy to connect, and graspe a lot of helpful tools and knowledge. Highly recommend.

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