It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life

by Jillian Turecki Narrated by Jillian Turecki

Overview

THE INSTANT NEW YORK TIMES AND USA TODAY BESTSELLER

Oprah Daily Best Self-Help Books for Personal Growth in 2025 - Amazon Editors' Pick - New York Post Best of the Month

The beloved relationship coach, teacher, and host of the top relationship podcast Jillian on Love reveals nine core truths about love and self-acceptance and provides powerful self-healing techniques and strategies to help us repair our relationship with ourselves and start building the rewarding relationships we deserve.

Jillian Turecki's holistic, compassionate, yet no-nonsense approach to love has attracted a devoted following of millions. In her highly anticipated debut book, she makes clear that if you want a meaningful relationship filled with connection, security, and intimacy, you have to look within. The common denominator in all your relationships is you.

Drawing from decades of experience helping clients heal themselves and their relationships, It Begins with You introduces the 9 core truths we must accept in order to change our lives:

• Truth 1: It begins with you.
• Truth 2: The mind is a battlefield.
• Truth 3: Lust is not the same thing as love.
• Truth 4: You have to love yourself.
• Truth 5: You must speak up and tell the truth.
• Truth 6: You need to be your best self (even after the honeymoon).
• Truth 7: You cannot convince someone to love you.
• Truth 8: No one is coming to save you.
• Truth 9: You must make peace with your parents.

Blending therapeutic strategies, somatic techniques, client case studies, practical tools, tips, and guiding questions, It Begins with You gives us a roadmap to finally start doing the work needed to love ourselves and find the love we deserve. It's never too late to choose yourself.

Editorial Reviews

From the Publisher

"[It Begins with You] gives readers strategies to find the love they deserve. By the end, you’ll understand why so many turn to [Jillian] for advice.” — Oprah Daily

“It Begins With You asks us to reimagine the way we relate to others, to go deep enough to awaken our conscious selves to help us define the love we want.” — Dr. Shefali, author of Radical Awakening and The Parenting Map

"It Begins with You holds your hand for the crucial first step in shaping the relationship of your dreams: getting to know yourself. Jillian’s first book is a must-read for all seeking grounded, inspired connection. This book will accelerate your growth and help you deepen your relationship." — Yung Pueblo, #1 New York Times bestselling author

"You can trust Jillian Turecki to tell it you straight—these nine truths about love help you carve a path toward what you truly desire." — Lewis Howes, New York Times bestselling author of The Greatness Mindset and The School of Greatness

“[Jillian's] such a palette cleanser: She’s calm, collected, eloquent, and actually hopeful.” — Ali Kriegsman, author of How to Build a Goddamn Empire

Product Details

BN ID:	2940192678695
Publisher:	HarperCollins
Publication date:	01/14/2025
Edition description:	Unabridged

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