It Isn't Fair!: Siblings of Children with Disabilities / Edition 1

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Overview

Parenting is always a vital and challenging task. Even more vital and challenging is the task of parenting a child with a disability. When there is more than one child in the family, all parents want to share their time, energy, and love with all their children - and all siblings sometimes wonder if they are being treated fairly. When one child in a family has a disability, all this becomes more complex. Parents and sisters and brothers often feel that for them, "It isn't fair." Selected and compiled from two decades of The Exceptional Parent magazine, It Isn't Fair! reveals first-hand the myriad feelings of "normal" brothers and sisters at all stages as they grapple with caretaking, frustration, powerlessness, jealousy, guilt, and worry about their "special" siblings. Breaking the "wall of silence" that deference has imposed on their experiences, here are the siblings of the child with autism, the child injured at birth, the child institutionalized after many years at home. Parents offer their own experiences and perspectives on their children, and they illustrate the importance of sharing information within the family. The editors also include professional commentary.
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Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9780897893336
  • Publisher: Greenwood Publishing Group, Incorporated
  • Publication date: 6/21/1993
  • Edition description: New Edition
  • Edition number: 1
  • Pages: 200
  • Lexile: 1040L (what's this?)
  • Product dimensions: 6.02 (w) x 9.22 (h) x 0.59 (d)

Meet the Author

STANLEY D. KLEIN is Co-Founder and Publisher of Exceptional Parent magazine, a Professor of Psychology at the New England College of Optometry, and a Research Associate in Medicine (General Pediatrics) at Children's Hospital in Boston.

MAXWELL J. SCHLEIFER is Co-Founder and Publisher of Exceptional Parent magazine, a Professor of Psychology at the University of Massachusetts, Boston, and a Visiting Professor at the Smith College School of Social Work. He is co-editor (with Stanley Klein) of The Disabled Child and the Family (1985).

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Table of Contents

Acknowledgments
Introduction
Pt. I Siblings Begin to Talk Together 1
Brother to Sister, Sister to Brother 3
Forgotten Children 33
Pt. II Parents and Professionals 41
For the Love of Wess 45
A Sibling Born Without Disabilities: A Special Kind of Challenge 51
When the Youngest Becomes the Oldest 55
Brothers With a Difference 61
Darwin and Caleb 65
Christina Loves Katherine 71
Is That Your Brother? Our Family's Response 75
The Sibling Situation 79
But Not Enough to Tell the Truth: Developmental Needs of Siblings 83
Pt. III Siblings 87
The Other Children 91
Life With My Sister: Guilty No More 97
My Brother Warren 103
My Special Brother 107
Reflections of a College Freshman: Away from Home for the First Time 109
Courage in Adversity: My Brother Dick 111
Dear Mom 115
Pt. IV Case Studies 121
I Get Upset When I See the Kids Playing with Jimmy 125
When I Grow Up, I'm Never Coming Back! 133
Jerry Got Lost in the Shuffle 139
We Go Our Separate Way, Together but Alone 147
I'm Not Going to Be John's Baby Sitter Forever 155
Pt. V Young Siblings 163
Lydia and Trevor 165
Nathan and Timmy 165
Randy and Robert 166
My Little Brother 166
Andrew 167
Melon 168
A Story about Zoe 168
My Brother 169
My Sister Whitney 170
My Brother John is Handicapped 170
Conclusion 171
Resources 173
Index 175
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