It's All About Him: Finding the Love of My Life

It's All About Him

The biography It's All About Him: Finding the Love of My Life written by Denise Jackson is a book about her good and bad times in the life of fame. Denise shares with us her life-changing story of her life struggles with being a wife of a country music artist Alan Jackson and a mother of three children. Denise talks about her and Alan's separation and that as hard as it was going through that, it was a growing experience and that they came out stronger in the end. Through this Denise found happiness, Denise says, "as I chased after God, I actually found my true self." Most of this book is based on Christian values. When reading this book I didn't not want to put it down wanting to know what happened next and what she learned while going through it. I recommend this book to any woman who needs encouragement and who chooses to seek God and desires to find their true self. As she says, "brokenness moves my story forward in a way that peaceful times do not. It's in difficulties that I became desperate to really know God, to cry out to Him."

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A must read!!!

Highly recommend that you read. I could not put book down. Read it all in one day.

Beautiful Story of Love and Forgiveness

I have been an Alan Jackson fan for several years now, but I honestly did not know a lot about him or his family. I had the supreme joy of seeing him in concert this past summer, and I was impressed. I really enjoyed it.

I heard about this book a couple years ago when I was listening to a country radio interview with Alan Jackson (it was shortly after the Tiger Woods scandal). I was totally shocked when I heard that he had cheated on his wife, and their marriage had survived it. I saved this book to my list.

I happened to win this book (I selected is as my winning book), and I finally had a chance to read it. And I was completely impressed! I knew that they were Christians, but suddenly a few things made sense. There is a portion of Alan Jackson's career that just doesn't really impress me, and his music seems so "worldly" during that time. I now understand why.

I was completely impressed with the way Denise told her story. She did not ever put her husband down. She even took responsibility for some of the issues in their marriage. She explained that when her husband became famous, they kind of forgot about God, and that is when the trouble started.

Her message in the book was simple but sincere. God can work through any situation. He is always faithful even when we are not. This book will strengthen your faith, and it can truly encourage you in the midst of your trials. It sure did for me!

loved

first book i read in a while and i couldnt put it down

Getting Back on Track

Staying on Track
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This book I recommend I am a former stay at home Mom and I feel this book can be a great help for couples today. I feel Denise emphasizes the wealth aspect only as to say, it's not about wealth and this healing is available to all who seek it. 'It's All About Him', is thought provoking and inspirational with a simple hearted flair. It is to me delightfully humorous and poignant. It shows the humanity, that regardless of social status, we all share.Separations of any kind are not easy. Denise was given great strength through her faith to sustain her during their personal trials. I admire the strength of this dear young woman.a young woman of deep found faith. I enjoyed the humorous side of their relationship. I thank Denise for sharing a bit of the private life of the Jackson family. It's a great read ! It shows that with love and faith, one's marriage can prevail.I think Alan acknowledges his wrong doing and was willing to seek help and save his marriage. I admire them getting back on track with God and really knowing 'It's All About Him.' I wish Denise much success with this book! It's a great little read!

Denise Jackson Book It's All About Him

I love the book that Denise Jackson wrote. It's intersting to read and never stop reading it. I like it because it's about family and god. I think Denise Jackson did the right thing and worte this book for everyone to read. I give it a 10 for all the work she did and the people who help her make this book.

It's All About Him...WOW!

I was enthralled from the moment I opened the book...I really knew nothing about Alan Jackson other than he is a Country singer...no idea how old he was when he got his big break...but the WOW came from Denise's walk/talk about the true Him...as a "stale" Christian she truly opened my eyes to ways of becoming and alive Christian...believe me I am not there yet...but working on it...loved the journal idea. I encourage everyone to read this book...and enjoy

Simple Read but Good Lesson on God's Healing Hand

I read Denise Jackson's book basically because I enjoy learning how God works in people's lives. I thought Denise's accounting of her life with Alan from the start was a simple story. Yet, I was disappointed to read reviews from others who decided that Alan and Denise should have not made the first step down the aisle. Only this couple and God knows their own hearts and why they chose to be life partners. Denise's commitment to remain faithful to God's direction throughout this chapter of her life that she shares with us speaks volumes of her true love for Christ and her husband. Alan decision to be accountable for his own choices and ask for forgiveness from both God and the wife of his youth demonstrates the conviction and courage one can recieve from God's Holy Spirit.

Equally disappointing was several reviewers objection to Denise's mention of wealth and lavished gifts, adding that she might not have stayed with Alan if it weren't for this lifestyle. Again how does one take it upon them to judge another person's heart and motives? The Bible talks about how gold, myrrh and frankincense were presented to the Christ child, so please get past any objections to Denise's descriptions of her rings.

I praise God that Denise fell in love with the guy who took a second shift at Kmart and stayed in love with him despite the many challenges, disappointments and yet, rewards of their very public life. I would recommend this book to anyone who values the love and support you can receive from a prayer partners, friends and family during a very difficult time -- and to understand the power of God's healing hand on broken hearts and homes.

Loved the story and the free CD in the back with 2 songs Alan Jackson wrote. Was a beautiful true to life story of the ups and downs of marriage and what work goes in to keeping that love alive.

Loved this book from the time I opened it. Was a gift in a book exchange this Christmas and it was well worth the read and staying up at night to finish it.

It's All About Her?

First of all, I do not believe Denise and Alan Jackson were compatible from the very outset of their relationship. From the very beginning of the book there were many unsuitable likes and dis-likes. Initially it was a physical attraction at best - more so on Alan's part 'He having pursued her.' As time marched on in their marriage, they began to drift apart and then they fell apart after Alan's infidelity. I got the sense that Denise would have liked to share more concerning Alan's unfaithfulness but showed great restraint in choosing not to cast him or his career in a bad light. It was upsetting to me and I'm sure countless others to see Denise blame herself for Alan's betrayal or trying to pull herself down to his level for a few impure thoughts she may have had back when...whenever. Denise fought long and hard by exhausting every avenue to restore her relationship with Alan until finally surrendering it all to Christ, the Author and Finisher of Our Faith. I to have been there until I did exactly what Denise did in crying out to God to not only save my marriage but to save myself and by divine intervention, my marriage was spared. That was over 25 years ago and we are still going so very strong today. In all honesty, I do not think Denise would have fought so long and so vehemently to save her marriage if it were not for the extravagant and opulent lifestyle she had come to know and love, for herself and for their children. I appreciate Denise's honesty in making mention in her book before the fame and fortune she said to Alan, 'I don't remember any woman chasing after you when you worked the second shift at K-Mart.' I truly believe that Denise would have shown Alan to the door had it not been for all the wealth. It is my hope that they will both stay on the straight and narrow path that leads to everlasting life and their children as well. The scripture does say, 'It is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle, than for a rich man to enter into the kingdom of God.' Denise closed her book by quoting the passage, 'Eye has not seen, nor ear heard, neither has entered into the heart of man, the things which God has prepared for them that love Him.' However, for the readers enlightenment I would like to add the very next passage that states, 'But God has revealed them unto us by His Spirit: for the Spirit searches all things, yes the deep things of God.' I'll close by sharing this thought, 'It is Christ Himself who empowers us to forgive those who have violated our trust, all we need do is ask and by the Holy Spirit He will enable us to forgive all.'

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What is your future worth!!!!

This couple is well deserving of the wealth and riches portrayed in this book and I am glad she shared those with everyone! But she came to admit you can have it all in the world but without HIM you will never find true happiness! Its a blessing to see someone blessed beyond measure from the Lord and the talents he gave Alan and through it all the Lord will always come out on top. He brought them through tough times and gave them all they deserved! Its super easy reading I finished it in two days. Its a good pick me up book!

Disapointed

When I see the title of the book I thought it was all about Alan and boy after buying the book and starting to read it I realised it wasnt about him and was very upset about that. I give this book a 0 rating as I feel kind of tricked!

Good Reading

I would recommend this book for someone who just enjoys a good story. I was surprised how I could not put it down. I was blessed and felt better about my walk with God after reading this book. Again, no this will not change the world in some profound way but it is a great story to read.

Staying on Track

This book I recommend I am a former stay at home Mom and I feel this book can be a great help for couples. I feel Denise emphasizes the wealth aspect only as to say, it's not about wealth and this healing is available to all who seek it. 'It's All About Him', is thought provoking and inspirational with a simple hearted flair. It is to me delightfully humorous and poignant. It shows the humanity, that regardless of social status, we all share.Separations of any kind are not easy. Denise was given great strength through her faith to sustain her during their personal trials. I admire the strength of this dear young woman.a young woman of deep found faith. I enjoyed the humorous side of their relationship. I thank Denise for sharing a bit of the private life of the Jackson family. It's a great read ! It shows that with love and faith, one's marriage can prevail.I think Alan acknowledges his wrong doing and was willing to seek therapy and save his marriage. I admire them getting back on track with God and really knowing 'It's All About Him.' I wish Denise much success with this book!

It's all about the Estate!

Just finished the book ... very long and boring. Could have been a 20 pager at most. I am a big fan of Alan Jackson but no more books from his wife please. They were young, got married, got rich, spent a fortune, he played around, got a mansion, our big estate, big diamonds, lots of cars, etc. Not much to say in the book except God was their co-pilot while they flew thru the cash.

Don't bother you know the ending!!

I didn't like the book at all, I felt she took the blame for his unfaithfulness and was willing to do whatever to get him back. I didn't like how she continue to let us know how much money they had, that was the point she didn't want to give that up. Harsh but true....

Poor little rich girl - Very disappointing Story

Poor little rich girl was my over thought on this one. Through out this book, she comments on her INSECURITIES, again and again. She admits how attentive he was, allowed her to do whatever she wanted once they had financial success. She admits to the hard times Alan had to get where he is now. Appears to be a book about a very very insecure lady. Other than her religious statements, I don't think this is a good inspirational book for others. I enjoyed hearing how Alan adores his children indeed a family man, and his determination to succeed and follow his dream regardless of doors being slammed in his face....God bless you Alan.

Okay But Not Great

I felt this book was quite repetitious and too long for such a short story. I felt the author was taking on 95% of the blame for the failure of her marriage even though it was her husband who broke the wedding vows by committing adultery. Denise stayed at home and raise the children and made a house a home while the 'star' had an exciting 'life' outside the home. She probably DID seem 'boring' after the exciting life HE led. I felt this book was a slap in the faces of the 'stay at home' moms. I wouldn't reccommend it---if you're a stay at home mom, save your money and treat yourself out to a nice lunch instead. No more Alan Jackson cd's for me.....

Disappointed

I liked the premise of the book and was really looking forward to reading about how the Jackson's got their marriage back on track. I was very disappointed with the materialism spoken to in the book by Denise. She mentioned at least twice about rings Alan purchased for her including carat size and surrounding diamonds. This by a woman who claims to understand that none of this is important. If that is so why is so much time spent talking about her dream life. This does not measure up to the hype.

I'm glad Alan and Denise lives was finally made public.

I loved the book. I have been curious of the rumors and I am glad the book was written by Denise. It was very inspiritually. I'm sorry Alan had to leave his family to realize how much they meant to him. I am always curious when the man leaves his wife to seek other comforts and how he thinks she is being comforted while he is away. Surely he understands that when a man and woman are married they have needs that each one addresses to the other one. Then when there is a separation that need is still there only to be neglected by the other. I believe Alan wanted his cake and eat it too. Anytime someone says I married too young and I wonder what I missed and you have a wonderful marriage, I believe it is a copout. Everyone has those thoughts sometime in their married life but few act on it because they may end up with something far worst. I believe if you truly are in love and you just can't stand to be away for any length of time from the other there is no need to separate. I don't see how Alan could be separated from Denise for such a long period of time living in the same town. I realize Alan was on the road a lot and the children and Denise got used to that. I believe that time on the road would be enough separation for him. It would be different if he was home every night of the week. I know it took a lot of courage for Denise to tell her story. It is a wonderful book and it is helping me in my daily walk with Jesus and God. I highly recommend the book and it was an easy read.