Keep Your Wives Away from Them: Orthodox Women, Unorthodox Desires

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Overview

Reconciling sexuality with religion has always been an enormous challenge. When the religion is Orthodox Judaism, the task is even more daunting. Keep Your Wives Away from Them takes on that challenge by giving voice to LBTQ Jewish women who were once silenced-and effectively rendered invisible-by their faith. While a number of films and books have given voice to queer Jewish people, none show what happens to women after the struggle, when the real work of building integrated lives begins. This important and courageous collection affirms that it is possible to maintain religious tradition without foregoing one's gender and sexual identity. Contributors include musician and writer Temim ...

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Overview

Reconciling sexuality with religion has always been an enormous challenge. When the religion is Orthodox Judaism, the task is even more daunting. Keep Your Wives Away from Them takes on that challenge by giving voice to LBTQ Jewish women who were once silenced-and effectively rendered invisible-by their faith. While a number of films and books have given voice to queer Jewish people, none show what happens to women after the struggle, when the real work of building integrated lives begins. This important and courageous collection affirms that it is possible to maintain religious tradition without foregoing one's gender and sexual identity. Contributors include musician and writer Temim Fruchter, professor Joy Ladin, writer Leah Lax, nurse Tamar Prager, and the pseudonymous Ex-Yeshiva Girl.

Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9781556438790
  • Publisher: North Atlantic Books
  • Publication date: 5/11/2010
  • Pages: 192
  • Sales rank: 585,644
  • Product dimensions: 5.90 (w) x 8.90 (h) x 0.70 (d)

Meet the Author

Miryam Kabakov is director of the Minneapolis Jewish Film Festival, national program director of AVODAH: The Jewish Service Corps, coordinator of LGBT programming at the Manhattan Jewish Community Center, and a frequent speaker and workshop leader. She lives in Minnesota.

Table of Contents

Introduction xi

Foreword Judith Plaskow xix

Here and Now Leah Lax 1

The First Hug: A Story of Transgressions Temim Fruchter 6

You Lose These: A Little Review of My Life in Eighteen Episodes Geo Bloom 14

Love in the Women's Section Naomi Seidman 30

Jerusalem Voices Devorah Miriam 36

I Will See You on the Way Out Miryam Kabakov 45

Coming Out in the Orthodox World Tamar A. Prager 51

unOrthodox Naomi Zaslow 60

For You ... Now We Are Waiting For You Ex-Yeshiva Girl 71

"Women known for these acts" Through the Rabbinic Lens: A Study of Hilchot Lesbiut Elaine Chapnik 78

Regulating the Human Body: Rabbinic Legal Discourse and the Making of Jewish Gender Charlotte Elisheva Fonrobert 99

Learning to Be a Lesbian Mara H. Benjamin 126

The Road to Yehupetz Sasha T. Goldberg 134

In the Image Joy Ladin 141

Glossary 151

Resources 159

About the Contributors 163

About the Artists 169

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