Legal Abuse Syndrome: 8 Steps for Avoiding the Traumatic Stress Caused by the Justice System

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Are you ensnared in the judicial system? Fearful, incredulous, isolated, beyond rage...feeling "alienated"? This unique book conjoins law, therapy, and research revealing a subtype of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder called Legal Abuse Syndrome. Legal Abuse Syndrome helps victims overcome psychological devastation caused by prolonged injustice. Through facts, graphics, and heart rendering vignettes ...
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Overview

"What's wrong with me?"
My life and priorities seem irrelevant to the court.
Are you ensnared in the judicial system? Fearful, incredulous, isolated, beyond rage...feeling "alienated"? This unique book conjoins law, therapy, and research revealing a subtype of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder called Legal Abuse Syndrome. Legal Abuse Syndrome helps victims overcome psychological devastation caused by prolonged injustice. Through facts, graphics, and heart rendering vignettes readers grasp elements of this psychic injury, recognize its causes, and benefit from the therapeutic steps provided.
This book is a self-help tool for cumulative trauma. When systems of care, i.e. the judicial system, cause or exacerbate medical conditions due to extreme stress, the dilemma presents a public health problem as well as a multidisciplinary legal/medical professional challenge.
"There is nothing wrong with you." You need a game changer that bolsters your resilience and confidence. Eight self-help steps guide you through the toughest times of your litigation illustrated by gripping cases of human courage and principle against the massive power of the judicial system. The people you meet in this book will encourage you. James' case portrays civil court being skewed to cover up a felony while fraud on the court is recklessly used to hide the facts. The issues become twisted into a dizzying "house of mirrors" with lies taking on a life of their own in the courtroom.
When rage is exceeded in the human experience, one either explodes or implodes. Explosion usually results in violations of civility and law complicating the problem. Implosion leads to health consequences and bitterness. Legal Abuse Syndrome guides you toward an alternative that allows the victim to skillfully stay in the fight. Along the way, there are gifts in reviving the spirit of justice, a staple of a civilized society.
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  • ISBN-13: 9781481744683
  • Publisher: AuthorHouse
  • Publication date: 7/22/2013
  • Pages: 218
  • Product dimensions: 6.00 (w) x 9.00 (h) x 0.63 (d)

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Legal Abuse Syndrome

8 Steps for avoiding the traumatic stress caused by the justice system


By Karin Huffer, Wilene Gremain

AuthorHouse

Copyright © 2013 Dr. Karin Huffer, M.F.T.
All rights reserved.
ISBN: 978-1-4817-4469-0



CHAPTER 1

Invisible Hostages


The kidnapping of the soul

"I do not feel free or able to pursue happiness in my country." -Ken, LAS Victim and American citizen


Invisible Crimes – The Dilemma

Victims are created in two ways: by violence or by deceit. Either type of assault immediately renders the victim hostage to the perpetrator(s). Victims feel as helpless as small children. Personal control becomes the issue. Adult autonomy is formed by a perception of trust. Psychologist Erik H. Erikson (1963) calls this feeling "basic trust." The child must sense this degree of invulnerability in order to grow. The long, hard battle to adulthood is accomplished when one has the ability to take charge of one's own life (Bard, 1986). The belief that the world is manageable allows a sense of psychological relationship. It is like a kidnapping of the soul. Equilibrium is lost. Regardless of the individual's ability to accommodate stress, all victims must work out of a hostage relationship with the offender.

Violent crime dominates the headlines and consumes most of the moneys that are allocated for victim assistance, yet white-collar crimes are rising faster than violent crime (Kropatkin, 1986; Kusic, 1989). It is naïve to believe that victims emerge from these assaults unscathed.

All professionals who respond to the crimes-lawyers, judges, police officers, IRS agents (who always show up at the end of the ordeal), the media, and health professionals-bear responsibility for the protection of the victims' mental and emotional health in the aftermath of crime. (The worst serial killer receives millions of dollars to protect his rights, his health, and his well-being. The victim is just beginning to gain recognition of his needs. Still, survivors and victims too often fade into a neglected judicial oblivion. Unlike violent crime, deceptive assaults quietly wound that very sacred, inner place which is the essence of self. (Shown in Figure 1 are examples of invisible crimes and betrayals). Although the attack is invisible, it is as brutal as violent assault. Profound changes take place in the victim's life, yet they can go completely unnoticed. The victim becomes isolated. He or she may rise everyday, go to work, come home, appear at family functions, and look relatively normal; however, it is as if layers of cellophane wrap have enveloped him in a numb cocoon.


Symptoms of the Hostage Stage

• Intrusive thoughts and nightmares seep in through the numbness.

• There is difficulty concentrating.

• Memories are painful; flashbacks are unrelenting.

• The victims will route themselves around reminders, and cringe from people, songs, news stories, or events that trigger memories and intense distress.

• Ordinary activities require tremendous energy; the victim is mentally, emotionally, and physically exhausted.

• The victim now trusts no one.

• Not trusting has reached the point that it has begun to erode the quality of the victim's life.

• He or she feels off-balance.

• Creativity is blunted.

• Intensity of interest in the world around the victim is dulled.

• Tension/ anxiety/ depression cycle sets in; the victim may self- medicate with alcohol or drugs.

• Fear is the main motivator of life's decisions. The victim becomes hyperreactive, hypervigilant, and obsessive.

• Physical changes take place as stressors continue to pound away at those victims who try to stand up for themselves.

• Physical symptoms will manifest in 85% of the victims. There is significant evidence that fat in the diet, cigarette smoking, salt and lack of exercise have much less to do with coronary heart disease and other stress-related illnesses than do rage, anger, and frustration (McQuade, 1990).



When a Hostage Seeks Justice

Jeopardy becomes the theme of the victim's lifestyle when he/she then acts as a witness or litigant. The assault may be only a traumatic first step in a protracted legal process. Typically, the victim remains an emotional hostage for many years. Not only does the justice system move slowly, delays are used as strategy by attorneys to weaken their opposition economically and emotionally. Delays will cause further losses in the victim's life as pressure is sustained on family life, work life, physical health, and the bank account. All facets of the victim's life are at risk and under attack during litigation.

Helplessness in the face of jeopardy is the formula for Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. The citizen is never more jeopardized or helpless than when his entire protective system is clearly functioning as a selfish taker instead of a protector. How did majority opinion and need become disarmed within our justice system?


An Evolution of Institutionalized Abuse of Power

The moral core which forms the foundation of American values is the lifeblood that sustains the victim's hope. Decency, our most cherished and delicate human resource, hangs in the balance of the scales of justice. If the system exists for protection of the citizen and is supported by tax dollars, it is assumed to represent common decency. Other than a few rascals, we expect to encounter professionals who sanction goodness as we persevere through the courts.

It is against this backdrop that judges, attorneys, regulators, and others, who elect to be solely self-serving, find their prey. Attorneys are reported to knowingly exhaust their client's resources and leave their clients vulnerable. They make "deals" to preserve their political status with their colleagues. Judges will find for the more rich and powerful in spite of evidence. These are the pathological elements that further betray victims. In such cases, judges, lawyers and others entrusted with the justice system become host-toxic parasites. They draw on courts but do not protect the system, rendering the courts non-functional for the purpose that was created. Therefore the court is simply not there to help people resolve disputes, punish offenders of the law, and protect the citizens (Marston, 1990; Dershowitz, 1983; Haskell, 1998).


EEK & MEEK by Howie Schneider

Keen tells us that in the 1800's, a man's character was comprised of citizenship, duty, democracy, work, building, golden deeds, outdoor life, conquest, honor, reputation, morals, manners, and integrity. He lived for the good of the community. Then came the industrial revolution, and the "self" has emerged beyond the community.

Warring entered the board room. Corporate giants, nonhuman entities who answer to stockholders based upon bottom line figures, go to court against individuals. The hearing is expected to be fair and provide equality. It is the duty of the judge to provide such a forum. XYZ Corporation versus private citizen, John Brown, is nearly impossible to equalize. John is fortunate if he can afford one attorney. XYZ will send a team. Every document costs John significant dollars. XYZ's team is on salary. John may have never contributed to a judge's campaign. XYZ contributes to all judges' campaigns. John cares about the system, his children, justice, and himself. XYZ's attorneys are out to be heroes for the corporation's bottom – line benefit at any price. Corporations were not created with a conscience or concern for the mental health of the nation. Serving of self has become paramount. These emotional hostages ask, "Do attorneys intend to destroy their country and to render all decent citizens mentally ill?" "Is it fair for the IRS to attack a citizen and hold him responsible for a business transaction simply because he is the only one they can locate?" "Are the courts only toys for the wealthy and tools by which the wealthy fleece the population?" or, "Are we experiencing a second, invisible economic holocaust perpetrated on middle America and the poor?"

The methods used by the criminal and his defense attorney would sometimes cause us to believe that this is true.

Defy - Truth and procedure were defied

Deny - Facts and law were ignored

Delay - Time exceeded reason

Deplete - Expense exceeded reason

Destroy - Distortions replaced truth

Devastate - Money/beliefs/hope gone

Decay - System no longer useful to people


The disillusioned certainly have to wonder about the motives of those professionals who would lie, intimidate, and destroy as part of their "profession." Is it a warped rite of passage to economic manhood? Sam Keen, Fire in the Belly (1991), writes, "Could it be that men are determined to be greedy, aggressive, and brutish? Does excess testosterone condemn us to violence and early heart attacks?" He is questioning maleness. Yet it is found that where females have entered the law and the boardroom, softer, gentler styles have not been the rule. Obviously, gender does not dictate abuses of power.

Rather than the intent to destroy the system as mentioned above, except for a few unsavory instances, the matter seems more one of an evolution. It is, however, a dangerous metamorphosis toward specialization in the abuse of power and sophisticated violence. The adversarial system supports lies, slander, distortion, and attack if it is in defense of a client. The acts are too destructive to ignore and too serious for victims to simply blame and complain about. Kensteen Olsen, founder of "Justice for All," believes that the adversarial system will one day be viewed as ridiculously as jousting is today as a means of resolving disputes.


Profile of a Hostage

Let's look at the story of James. He is a young forty year old who fell victim to a deceptive crime and entered that judicial oblivion. His dark eyes flashed with conviction as he told a story that was a quagmire of legal entanglement. He related it took him about 15 years to gain the properties that became the booty of this crime.


The Story of James

(As shared by James and his wife)

James had worked seven days a week, put in long hours, and continually challenged himself by tackling tougher levels of real estate from selling houses to sophisticated commercial aspects of the profession. He earned and saved with whole-hearted commitment. Finally, he negotiated and purchased, through long and arduous years of payments, three properties chosen to be his life's work. He had been a poor kid. This was proof of the American dream, something important to James. He was energized and joyous at that time.

The American dream was a major factor in James' survival. At his core he exudes the entrepreneurial spirit. He talked from his heart of artistic creativity to abusive parents. Lots of kids were abused in those days. They called it strict and no one interfered but, when his spirit and their oppressiveness collided, life's hope was at risk.

It helped that he did well in school. It was there that the promise was taught. The American dream reached into his life and helped him resist the punitive, crushing rigidity of home. "You may create, reach out, and, thanks to brilliant men of 200 years ago, your life is in your hands."

The dream provided the faith and hope that allowed him to move away from his parents at sixteen, work a variety of jobs, all at the same time and pursue an education at the University of Michigan. His ambitions were being satisfied, his neuroses and abuse-born shame soothed. He worked too hard, moved up the ladder, endured tremendous discomfort, and was a true, tired American living a dream. He tells that he hit the ground running every morning. After 20 years of such work, his net worth was $3,000,000. His credit was impeccable. He was a resident of his community for 23 years and was well respected. He had some business clout. It was time to implement the balance of his dream. The time was right to build on the three properties, educate the children and retire comfortably. Then, he would turn to artistic endeavors.

He shared a drawing of his first project. It reflected his aesthetic notions. It was a building that looked liked small buildings set together in a cozy pattern. There were variations in roof lines that were tasteful and drew the interest of a passerby. A sports lounge was placed beside a restaurant to generate immediate cash flow. It was obvious that careful study produced this first solo project.

He obtained a loan from a local bank to build the project and another loan, called a permanent loan, from an out-of-state lender who specialized in financing projects after completion and after tenants began lease payments. A major local bank approved the loan. All sacrifices were diminished by the excitement of this moment. Although the bare property looked like moonscape, this piece of desert was to blossom. Beautifully structured and landscaped, the property would provide services that responded to the market needs of the community.

James, being a responsible person, was happy to secure the loan with personal holdings because it was the first 7-figure loan he had made on his own and, of course, he vowed to be responsible to and for this project. He obtained expert legal advice and architectural work, and had selected a federally regulated bank. The bank, by contract, had the right to approve the contractor and the tenants. A licensed contractor was chosen and approved, and the project was begun.


The events that were to follow could have only been predicted by writers of cynical, sleazy, 'B' movies. A trap had been set by the bank. It is a saga of the corporate wringing out of staple values that hold a culture together. James' story is the documentary of thousands of Americans who are targeted by business and legal predators. These thousands of Americans are not stupid. They are not failures; however, they often feel like it.

James' case-study will be told in the context of LAS, his trek beyond rage and the steps to recovery. His hope is to share in a way that will help to reframe the invisible victim from the image of shame, pain, and impotence. Victims can be society's "smart bombs" in helping to identify wrongdoing and prevent its propagation.


James and Legal Abuse Syndrome

Outrage explodes. Beyond rage, however, is an implosion. Life's agenda turns inward into a survival cycle. Anger turns to rage; rage turns to outrage. If assaults through neglect or abuse continue, the victim becomes one of the "walking wounded" who are beyond rage (Figure 2, Path to LAS).


Briefly James' assaults moved in this manner:

1. The contractor refused to follow proper codes in constructing the building causing him to lose his license to build in the City. He behaved as if he were in control. The contractor embezzled by not paying sub-contractors' cost.

2. James formally requested that the bank cooperate with him in replacing the contractor. The bank refused.

3. James discovered that the banker and contractor had meet privately; with no explanation, the banker had issued a cashier's check for $100,000 to the contractor out of James' loan.

4. James added a contractor to complete the suites for tenants so he could qualify for the permanent loan. This move would pay the construction loan off and get the unlawful actions of the local bank out of his life. The suites became ready for tenants.
(Continues...)


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Table of Contents

Contents

Acknowledgments....................     ix     

Preface....................          

Foreword....................     xvii     

Introduction....................     xix     

1. Invisible Hostages....................     1     

2. The Epidemic....................     15     

Eight Steps to Recovery:....................          

3. Debriefing....................     23     

4. Grieving....................     39     

5. Obsession....................     53     

6. Blaming....................     65     

7. Deshaming....................     85     

8. Reframing....................     105     

9. Empowerment....................     123     

10. Recovery....................     153     

Conclusion....................     167     

Epilogue....................     169     


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  • Anonymous

    Posted December 25, 2013

    Dr. Huffer's book, Legal Abuse Syndrome, is among the most outst

    Dr. Huffer's book, Legal Abuse Syndrome, is among the most outstanding self-help books I have ever read. It will become a life-saver for many readers. This book a "must read" for people living in the emotional abyss of anger, shame and outrage caused by Lawyers, Judges, and betrayal by the inept legal system the victims trusted for justice. Dr. Huffer's book is sheer brilliance - she is a pioneer who cued in on a poorly understood area of traumatic emotional abuse. As she explains, Legal Abuse Syndrome is a form of PTSD; it is inflicted upon trusting, conscience ridden citizens by members of the Legal System. She writes of Lawyers who betray and victimize their own clients, Judges who abuse their power with impunity, and the corruption inherent in our own Legal System.

    Dr. Huffer addresses the despair, frustration and rage of LAS victims, the adverse impact on their lives, the economic shambles they are left with, and long-term relationships lost by victims (due to neglect, shame, betrayal, and continued legal abuse by this form of PTSD.) Most important, Dr. Huffer offers solutions to sufferers she calls "the walking dead." She takes us through an eight step program towards healing. The reader will gain insight into his/her suffering, higher clarity, validation, and hopefully, be able to return to the person they once were, yet empowered for the future, after absorbing the knowledge imparted by Dr. Huffer.

    Dr. Huffer's book on LAS should become required reading for every Law School Student, and existing Lawyers, Court Officers and Judges. I cannot overemphasize the merits of this book - it is a lifeline offering a way out of the emotional prison of LAS sufferers.

    1 out of 1 people found this review helpful.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted August 20, 2014

    Thank God finally Dr Huffer took the bull by the horns.

    Every family has to get a copy especially those whom have experienced any legal abuse by our corrupt us court system. This dr who wrote this book is an answer to prayer and may God continue to bless and protect her. Please spread the word to help restore wounded souls.

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