Let Love In: Open Your Heart and Mind to Attract Your Ideal Partner

Overview

A simple system to change your dating destiny—and it really works!

Love starts within you and flows out into the world, not the other way around. This book helps you remove blocks to allow true love into your life. You will attract the right life partner and improve your relationships through a simple three-step plan that uses self-hypnosis to get your mind in the right place for love. First, you'll learn to let go of disempowering beliefs in your subconscious mind. In step two,...

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Overview

A simple system to change your dating destiny—and it really works!

Love starts within you and flows out into the world, not the other way around. This book helps you remove blocks to allow true love into your life. You will attract the right life partner and improve your relationships through a simple three-step plan that uses self-hypnosis to get your mind in the right place for love. First, you'll learn to let go of disempowering beliefs in your subconscious mind. In step two, you'll overcome emotional and behavioral barriers and allow space for true romance. Finally, you'll discover how to integrate your new vision of yourself into your life to attract a happy relationship.

  • Shows how to use self-hypnosis to get yourself and your life ready for love
  • Offers an easy-to-follow action plan to clear out old baggage, boost self-confidence, and allow space for romance
  • Includes exercises to help you uncover and let go of disempowering beliefs and insecurities

Written by a certified clinical hypnotherapist and dating expert who has been interviewed by Match.com, MSN, Lavalife, ABC News, Playboy Radio, and ExpertVillage.com Let Love In will create permanent positive changes to your self-confidence that will not only attract Mr. Right but will affect virtually every area of your life as well.

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* Berndt, a clinical hypnotherapist with an online radio show (the Love Hypnotist Show), believes that hypnotherapy techniques used for smoking cessation and weight loss can also be used to secure a happy relationship. As our fears, insecurities and relationship baggage is often deeply ingrained in the unconscious, Berndt offers a three-pronged plan to revealing and overcoming those unconscious obstacles: uncovering the issues, taking action to eliminate "roadblocks," and maintaining a healthy mindset. Each chapter is full of checklists, journal suggestions and step-by-step self-hypnosis exercises, as well as warm and friendly guidance that’s blissfully low-pressure (and low-risk): "you need to be in only a light trance to experience the benefits of hypnosis," not much different from being engrossed in a book or movie—except that the goal isn't to check out of reality but to confront it on its most hard-to-read levels. A useful, relaxed approach to cognitive therapy, Berndt's guide gives readers an intuitive, healthy way to confront romance-defeating thoughts and behavior. (Mar.) (Publishers Weekly.com, February 8, 2010)
Publishers Weekly
Berndt, a clinical hypnotherapist with an online radio show (the Love Hypnotist Show), believes that hypnotherapy techniques used for smoking cessation and weight loss can also be used to secure a happy relationship. As our fears, insecurities and relationship baggage is often deeply ingrained in the unconscious, Berndt offers a three-pronged plan to revealing and overcoming those unconscious obstacles: uncovering the issues, taking action to eliminate "roadblocks," and maintaining a healthy mindset. Each chapter is full of checklists, journal suggestions and step-by-step self-hypnosis exercises, as well as warm and friendly guidance that's blissfully low-pressure (and low-risk): "you need to be in only a light trance to experience the benefits of hypnosis," not much different from being engrossed in a book or movie-except that the goal isn't to check out of reality but to confront it on its most hard-to-read levels. A useful, relaxed approach to cognitive therapy, Berndt's guide gives readers an intuitive, healthy way to confront romance-defeating thoughts and behavior.
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Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9780470497494
  • Publisher: Turner Publishing Company
  • Publication date: 3/1/2010
  • Edition description: First Edition
  • Edition number: 1
  • Pages: 288
  • Sales rank: 386,866
  • Product dimensions: 6.00 (w) x 8.90 (h) x 0.90 (d)

Meet the Author

Debra Berndt, CHT, is the world’s leading Love Hypnotist and an internationally recognized relationship expert who has been featured extensively on television and radio, including ABC News, WB2 News, Playboy Radio, and Life Coach TV, and has been interviewed as a relationship expert for Match.com, MSN, Lavalife, and Expert Village. Debra offers private sessions, seminars, a weekly radio show, and over a hundred self-hypnosis programs at AttractRealLove.com. She has a private practice in New York City, where she lives with the love of her life.
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Table of Contents

Acknowledgments ix

Introduction 1

1 Relationship Assessment 7

Part 1 Unpack Your Baggage and Get Ready for Love! 13

2 Your Dating Destiny: It's All in Your Mind! 15

3 Releasing the Beliefs That Keep You Single 59

4 Forgiveness: Leaving the Past in the Past 79

5 Get How Great You Are! 93

6 Being Clear on Why You Want Love 107

7 A Clear Definition of Love 123

Part 2 Taking Action: Roadblocks on Love's Highway 139

8 Don't Give Your Feelings the Cold Shoulder 141

9 Seduction, Substitutions, and Settling 159

10 Just Do It: The Nonaction Trap 177

Part 3 Staying in Your Lane of Love: Keeping the Faith 201

11 Dancing with the Green-Eyed Monster 203

12 Feeling Desperate When Dateless 213

13 Letting Down Your Guard and Opening Your Heart 221

14 Gaining Access to Your Spiritual Resources 237

15 Pulling It All Together 247

Conclusion: You Are Already Perfect 267

Index 269

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  • Posted March 17, 2010

    No more waiting for love!

    So often my clients are looking for love in all the wrong places--namely as something outside themselves that will "complete them." Let Love In busts through our out-dated notions of how to find love and puts us firmly in the drivers seat of our own life. There is no better place to be! From here, we have the power to create the love we are looking for. Berndt gives us the real deal! I highly recommend this book.

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  • Posted February 24, 2010

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    Innovative Approach to Successful Dating!

    As someone who has worked in the Dating Industry for almost 20 years, I must say that it takes quite a bit to blow me away as far as dating information and advice goes and I am happy to report that Debra Berndt's book LET LOVE IN, did just that! I was so happily overwhelmed at the wealth of GREAT information in this book for singles looking for love. So much information on the subject is just the same old advice with a little twist here or there and this is nothing like that in any way. Her approach is so unique and genuinely gets to the root of why you are still single and what to do about it! I am not surprised that the majority of her clients end up in relationships in a very short time. I haven't read anything like this before. I am not usually one to write a review, but this took me by surpise and I am now recommending it to EVERYONE!! Nice job Debra Berndt.

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  • Posted April 5, 2010

    I let love in!

    I've known Debbie and her work for years. From her healing touch to her intuitive qualities to her self hypnosis cd's. Over 10 years ago, Debbie gave me an exercise for finding your perfect mate which included concepts from this book. I learned to focus on "putting out there" what I was looking for, and wrote it down on paper. Not long after I met my partner, and have been with him for 10 years. Over these 10 years, even some of the qualities that I had written down that I hadn't realized he had became apparent. The best part of this book is that you can even use it for improving the relationship you are already in. Or, you can use the same concepts for attracting wealth, freedom, or whatever you are hoping for. "Let Love In" helps as a communication tool, and helps you come to terms with old ideas and beliefs that are holding you back from whatever you desire and deserve. You won't regret reading this gem!

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  • Posted April 10, 2010

    It did more than let love in.

    The title of this book is about letting love in but, in reality, the content is about recognizing and loving who you are. Once you do, your world opens up. Not only do you let love in but you find yourself welcoming in positive experiences in all aspects of your life. More importantly, you let many of your negative patterns out. I love this book. On a personal note, I've been a guest on Debra's radio show and if there's anyone I've met in this business who is positive and gracious, it's Debra. This book is written with a generosity of spirit and sincerity so characteristic of the author herself.

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