Life Makeovers: 52 Practical and Inspiring Ways to Improve Your Life One Week at a Time

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Now in paperback, the New York Times bestseller—featuring a powerful program that shows you how to reclaim your life one week at a time.

Cheryl Richardson, the bestselling author of Take Time for Your Life, known to millions for her "Lifestyle Makeover" series on "The Oprah Winfrey Show," recognizes firsthand how tough it can be to juggle the daily demands of living in a fast-paced world, and how easily you can become disconnected from your true self and what makes you happy. In...

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Overview

Now in paperback, the New York Times bestseller—featuring a powerful program that shows you how to reclaim your life one week at a time.

Cheryl Richardson, the bestselling author of Take Time for Your Life, known to millions for her "Lifestyle Makeover" series on "The Oprah Winfrey Show," recognizes firsthand how tough it can be to juggle the daily demands of living in a fast-paced world, and how easily you can become disconnected from your true self and what makes you happy. In Life Makeovers, she has taken all the know-how and insight she has gleaned from her years as a personal coach and distilled it into a simple, year-long program that shows how making small changes, over time, can have a huge impact on the quality of your life. In fifty-two simple yet profound essays, Richardson provides a plan for both reflecting and taking action, along with specific, practical advice and exercises to help readers gradually and permanently remodel their lives, week by week. Easy to use and fun to read, this workbook is the perfect companion to Take Time for Your Life.
Topics include:

*The Gift of Time: It's Self-Management, Not Time Management
*Are We Having Fun Yet: When Life Gets Too Serious, Here's What to Do
*Give Your Brain a Vacation: For Finding the Best Ideas, Try This
*Standing in the Shadow: Whose Talent Are You Hiding Behind?
*Stop Juggling and Start Living: Here Are Some of the Balls to Drop
*Close Encounters: How to Make a Deeper Connection with Others

Her brief, personal essays will inspire you to make changes, and her Take Action Challenges, which appear with comprehensive resource sections at the end of every essay, will guide you through small steps that will teach you to think, act, love, work, and even laugh in a whole new way. Written in Richardson's signature, heartwarming style, Life Makeovers is the ideal book for anyone looking for a balanced way to stop dreaming about a better life and start living one.

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Thankfully, we're living in a time when people are allowed to acknowledge that their lives aren't perfect. The problem is that people often feel that they're to blame if they can't seem to fix what's wrong, or even worse, if they can't even begin to pinpoint the source of their problems. In Life Makeovers: 52 Practical and Inspiring Ways to Improve Your Life One Week at a Time, Cheryl Richardson has figured out how to completely turn someone's life around in one year.

A personal coach as well as the bestselling author of Take Time for Your Life, Richardson has created this book out of her years of experience in helping others pull their lives together. Fixing a life that's fallen into a rut isn't an easy process, and Richardson isn't promising any quick and easy answers -- because there aren't any. But Richardson does allow her readers to feel themselves improving and feeling better every single week, so at the end of a year, they can look back and be proud of what they have accomplished.

Through exercises and advice, Life Makeovers can accomplish the enormous task of setting people back on the right path, one week at a time.

--Jennifer J. Jarett is a freelance writer living in New York City.

From the Publisher
"Cheryl Richardson is here to guide you on a yearlong personal discovery journey. Get ready to improve your life."
-Complete Woman

"[Richardson] offers fifty-two warm and profound essays intended to reconnect us to our 'authentic' selves. Life Makeovers is true to its mission of making life less demanding."
-Chicago Tribune

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Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9780767908849
  • Publisher: Crown Publishing Group
  • Publication date: 12/24/2002
  • Edition description: Reprint
  • Pages: 224
  • Sales rank: 134,380
  • Product dimensions: 5.24 (w) x 7.99 (h) x 0.47 (d)

Meet the Author

CHERYL RICHARDSON was the first president of the International Coach Federation and received one of the first Master Certified Coach credentials issued in the United States. She speaks professionally to audiences throughout the United States and Europe, and is the host and co-executive producer of the "Life Makeover Project" series on the Oxygen Network. She lives in Massachussetts.

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Introduction

How often do you daydream about living a better life—a life that reflects more of you, your values and deepest desires? How many times have you come to the end of a busy week and toyed with the fantasy of packing a bag and leaving it all behind? I’m sure I don’t need to tell you that in today’s world most people live with a nagging sense that something’s missing or that life is passing them by. So many of us long for time to discover who we are and what we really want before it’s too late.

For the last nine years I’ve worked as a personal coach helping clients to reevaluate their lives and connect more deeply with what really matters most. The goal was to improve the quality of their lives. The improvements varied, depending on the client. For some, new jobs that honored their values and their need for a life outside of work helped make a difference. For others, getting the right support or putting smart systems in place allowed them to eliminate the stress of success. And, it was not uncommon for clients to scale back or simplify their lives dramatically in order to reclaim the peace and serenity they desired. Each client’s story was unique, and yet they all had one common goal—to live a more authentic life, one that reflected their values and most treasured priorities. Let’s see if any of these stories sound familiar. . . .

As Olivia stands by the window in her office looking out over the city, she wonders where her life is headed. Working as a manager for a high-tech company, she feels like she’s been on a wild ride. Stock prices are up, sales are strong, and she’s been a major contributor to the success of her division. Her work used to be rewarding, but now Olivia feels miserable. Although she found the life she thought she wanted, she feels as if she’s lost herself.

Olivia gets up early every day, hits the gym by 6, gets to her desk by 8, and on most nights leaves the office after 7:30. She daydreams about how life used to be when she spent more time with her friends, dated on a regular basis, and had more time to herself. At this point Olivia says that her life feels like one long routine day after another. She’s tired, lonely, and ready for a change.

Olivia’s situation is a good example of what happens when we dedicate so much of our life to work—we end up missing our life. We forge ahead, get many of our needs—such as the need for community, recognition, or accomplishment—met at work, and suddenly discover that we no longer have a personal life to go home to. This realization can be a hard pill to swallow.

Sometimes, however, the problem is a little different. For example, in David’s situation, his success has given him much more than he bargained for. Sitting at his desk at the end of a busy day David wonders if all his hard work is really paying off. His consulting business is more successful than ever. He’s made more money this year than in the last two years combined. And, he can barely remember the days when he worried about making payroll. Yet David walks around with a nagging feeling that something is missing. Although he’s reached the level of success he always hoped for, it doesn’t feel the way he expected it to feel. He has more responsibility than ever—a loving wife, three small kids, a large house in the country, and twenty-five employees to manage. Instead of feeling happy about the role he’s created for himself, David says he feels like an employee working for everyone else. He often fantasizes about selling the business, downsizing his family’s lifestyle, and trying something new. David’s not sure he’s willing to continue paying such a high price for success.

Or there’s Margaret, whose unhappiness has more to do with an inner challenge than with her external circumstances. After dropping the kids off at school, Margaret drives to work feeling conflicted. The mother of two boys and the owner of a wholesale gift company, Margaret feels like she’s being pulled in two different directions. On the one hand she thrives on the excitement and sense of accomplishment that she gets from growing a successful company; on the other, she longs to be with her boys while they’re growing up. The stress of this conflict is starting to wear her down. It’s hard enough juggling what feels like two full-time jobs (her business and her family), but the added pressure of this inner turmoil makes it unbearable. Margaret knows that something’s got to give.

Although the details of your life may be different, the feelings of frustration, exhaustion, and loneliness may be all too familiar. For many of us who live in a fast-paced, adrenaline-fueled society, questions about meaning, purpose, and true happiness are faithful companions in the day-to-day creation of our lives. We long for something more. Years of searching for happiness and fulfillment in the external world of work have taken their toll. We’ve lost ourselves in the daily madness of our busy lives.

As a personal coach I became a partner with my clients, and during our weekly meetings I’d help them to reevaluate their priorities, redefine success based on a more holistic perspective of life, and take the necessary actions to bring about the positive changes they desired. Each week clients would leave with an action plan, and I quickly noticed that the small weekly homework assignments started to make a big difference. One client, who had lived in a chaotic, cluttered environment for years, started creating order out of chaos and regained a whole new perspective on his life. Another client, who had suffered from the heavy burden of debt created by years of financial irresponsibility, began to make small weekly changes that improved her financial health, and her savings started to grow.

During my time working with clients I learned a lot about what prevents us from living authentic, meaningful lives. And as I shifted my attention from working with individuals to working with groups, I received a lot of feedback on what was holding them back as well. In December 1998 I published Take Time for Your Life in order to share this knowledge with a larger audience. In this book I took readers through the same coaching process that I used with clients in my private practice. The steps in the book were designed to help readers take a realistic look at their lives and to help them evaluate what needed to change in order for them to feel happier and to live a higher-quality life.

For example, I encouraged readers to begin making self-care a top priority, so they could make proactive life choices instead of reactive ones. I led them through a process of getting their priorities straight, identifying and eliminating those things that were draining their energy, and investing in their financial health, so they would feel more fully in charge of their lives. I introduced readers to the challenges of living in an adrenaline-crazed society, and I showed them how to slow down and begin exchanging unhealthy forms of fuel, like caffeine, sugar, and anxiety, for healthier forms, like a supportive community and a personalized spiritual practice.

I also went out on the road speaking about these topics to larger audiences who felt disillusioned with their lives. As I spoke to audience members and read through the letters and e-mails I received from readers of my first book, it was clear that these strategies were working and that my readers wanted more. They wanted to continue to hear about others who were making changes in their lives, and they wanted bite-sized homework that they could implement on a weekly basis to support them in making the changes I had outlined in the book. That’s when I decided to use technology to my advantage.

In January of 1999 I launched an on-line newsletter called Life Makeover for the Year 2000. I designed the newsletter to support readers by providing simple, practical strategies that they could use to improve their personal and professional lives on a weekly basis. Based on my experience while coaching clients, I decided to use the “one week at a time” process not only to help make change easier for more people, but to make the process fun and effective as well. Each week I chose a random topic that addressed a certain area of personal or professional growth, and I added a specific action that readers could take during the week to help improve this area. As readers began taking action, their lives started to change. And all of the small changes they were making started to add up.

The Life Makeover community began to grow as readers started forwarding the weekly newsletters to friends, family members, coworkers, and colleagues around the world. For example, one woman, the dean of a well-known university, distributed the newsletter to everyone at her school. Another reader, the president of a manufacturing company, decided to send the weekly newsletter to every employee at the company. What started out as a community of a few hundred quickly grew to several thousand within one year.

The foundation of this weekly process was rooted in my basic coaching philosophy of extreme self-care. This concept, introduced to me by my colleague, Thomas Leonard, challenged readers to take such good care of themselves that at times the program even felt a bit self-indulgent. There was an important reason for this. In my experience as a coach I learned that when clients took extremely good care of themselves by doing things like taking time off on a regular basis, saying no more often to people or projects or situations that drained them, and listening to and acting on their inner wisdom, their stress levels went down and their life satisfaction increased. They also began to care for others in a much healthier way. This realization became my guiding vision—to help people care more deeply for themselves so they were better able to care for others and the world around them.
. . .

The “Life Makeover” program is a powerful year-long program for change. It is designed to support you in changing your life one week at a time. Each chapter (week) consists of a topic of the week and contains a Take Action Challenge and a Resources section to support you in taking action quickly and easily. (Many of these resources were provided by our online community).

The process is meant to be simple and fun. Although I have kept the original theme of starting at the beginning of the year (January) and working through until the end (December), I invite you to use this book in your own unique way. Whether you decide to start from the beginning and work from Week #1 through Week #52, dip into the book at random, or find a chapter that covers a topic you’d like to work on, what matters most of all is that you do something with the material you read. After all, taking action is the only way to create positive, long-lasting change in your life. As you begin to engage in the weekly Take Action Challenge homework, you’ll see how one week builds upon another, and before you know it, you’ll start to experience important positive changes in your life too!

As you begin this weekly program, the most powerful motivating force that will help you to take the actions outlined in this book is a partner or group of like-minded friends who are interested in changing their lives for the better too. I can’t stress this point enough. Community is an extremely important ingredient for your success. Partnering with a coworker, family member, or friend is like providing yourself with a life-insurance policy that will pay far greater dividends. You might even create your own book club, work-study group, or family team. Once you have your partner or team in place, follow these four simple guidelines:

1. Make a plan for how you’ll support each other. For example, will you meet in person or over the phone? How often will you meet and when?

2. Review the topic of the week and discuss how the topic relates to you and your life.

3. Make a commitment to a specific action related to the “Take Action Challenge” and let your partner or team know what you’ll be working on during the week.

4. Plan a time to reconnect so you can share your progress and celebrate your success together.

Don’t be afraid to ask for support during the week. In the beginning you might need a helping hand more often. These simple stories of inspiration and action can make a world of difference in your life and the lives of those you care about. It only takes one small consistent action to make a big change in your life, so don’t let fear, procrastination, or doubt get in your way.

As you start to make changes on a weekly basis, be prepared for your life to unfold in wonderful ways. As you clean up the clutter, reconnect with your inner wisdom, strengthen your character, and take on the challenges of high-quality living, you’ll find that the lost parts of yourself start to come together to form a pretty amazing life. Good luck!

Week 1
The Journey Begins!

Love yourself first and everything else falls into line.
—LUCILLE BALL

It’s the beginning of the Life Makeover journey, and I imagine you’ve already begun thinking about the changes you’d like to make in your life. Or maybe you have a sense that something needs to change but you’re not sure what it might be. So often when we launch a new beginning in our lives, we start out by setting goals or making resolutions. But I’d like you to start this journey in a different way. I’d like you to begin by acknowledging yourself for what you’ve already accomplished and, more importantly, who you’ve become over the last year.

A high-quality life starts with a high-quality you! Don’t rush into this new year frantically trying to catch up or make up for what you didn’t do in the past. This kind of frenetic rushing and hopeless browbeating keeps you tied to the past and feeling bad about yourself. Get a fresh start on this process by being gentle with yourself. Set aside some time to reflect on all you’ve done right over the last year by considering the following questions:

•What qualities of character have you strengthened? Are you more honest with others about how you feel? Have you learned to set boundaries with those people who drain your energy? Maybe you’ve improved your communication skills or become more sensitive to the needs of others?

•Have you shared an act of kindness or supported others in some way? Did you help a friend who is going through a divorce or care for an elderly parent? Maybe you coached your kid’s sports team or volunteered for a nonprofit organization?

•What special memories have you created with those you love? Did you take a vacation that was particularly memorable? Did you organize an event that brought people closer together? Were there any special moments that stand out?

•What have you achieved or accomplished? Consider both your personal and professional life. Did you meet your business goals or get a promotion at work? Maybe you finished an important project, like writing a book or developing a workshop, or channeled your creative energy into painting or cooking?

The answers to these questions will help to start the process off in a different frame of mind—one that is self-supporting and sustainable. After all, we don’t grow in positive ways by beating ourselves up. Focus on what worked, and set the stage for a wonderful new year!

TAKE ACTION CHALLENGE
I’d like you to start this process by keeping a journal. Take some time this week to buy yourself a special gift. You’ll be using this journal throughout the Life Makeover process to capture your journey, so make sure that you choose one that you really like.

For the first entry reflect on the previous year and make a list of twenty-five (yes, twenty-five!) things you are most proud of accomplishing over the last twelve months. This list may include ways that you’ve grown as a person, goals you’ve achieved, and the positive changes that you’ve made in your life.

Let this exercise be easy. Keep a sheet of paper in your desk, taped to your bathroom mirror, or in your appointment book, and over the next week add items as they occur to you. You might even build a new habit by considering these accomplishments during the same time each day. For example, upon waking, spend a few minutes in bed reviewing the last year in your mind looking for what you did well. Or use the time while you’re brushing your teeth or commuting to work to consider your accomplishments. By the end of the week you may even have more than 25—that’s allowed!

When you’ve completed the list, share it with your partner or team. Better yet, hold a bragging party and invite several people to gather and share their lists. Taking the time to acknowledge your accomplishments and celebrate your success is an important way to strengthen the relationship with yourself, the first step in creating the life you want. And for those of you who might fear that this exercise is a tad self-indulgent, remember this: seeing the good in others starts with seeing the good in ourselves.

My five most important accomplishments are:
1._____________________________________________
2._____________________________________________
3._____________________________________________
4._____________________________________________
5._____________________________________________

The three ways I’ve grown over the last year are:
1._____________________________________________
2._____________________________________________
3. ________________________________________________

RESOURCES

Brushdance
100 Ebbtide Ave., #1
Sausalito, CA 94965
(800) 531–7445
http://www.brushdance.com
A great resource for journals as well as electronic greeting cards, magnets, calendars, and new paper greeting cards, too.

What You Need to Know Now—a Road Map for Personal Transformation (tape and CD) by Marcia Pear
To order:
Live Your Light Foundation
(707) 522–9529
http://www.liveyourlight.com
A wonderful spoken-word adventure (with music) that demystifies the evolutionary path and provides practical tools and next steps for dealing with life changes and transitions.

The 12 Secrets of Highly Creative Women: A Portable Mentor by Gail McMeekin (California: Conari Press, 2000)
This book profiles forty-five modern-day creative women (Sarah Ban Breathnach, Barbara Sher, Clarissa Pinkola Estes, and more) and shares their twelve secrets of success.

How Much Joy Can You Stand? How to Push Past Your Fears and Create Your Dreams by Suzanne Falter-Barns (New York: Wellspring, 2000)
This book provides the kick in the pants we all need to get on with our dreams. Not only does it debunk the myths about creating, but it also provides fun, inspiring exercises that work!

Making Your Dreams Come True by Marcia Wieder (New York: Harmony Books, 1999)
An inspiring step-by-step approach for igniting your passion and getting what you want.

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Table of Contents

Introduction 1
Week 1 The Journey Begins! 9
Week 2 New Year/New You 13
Week 3 Finding Your Lost Self 18
Week 4 The Challenge 23
Week 5 The Gift of Time 28
Week 6 What's Draining You? 33
Week 7 The Magic of Grace 38
Week 8 What's Fueling You? 41
Week 9 The Power of Focus 47
Week 10 Stop Juggling and Start Living 50
Week 11 Check Under the Hood 54
Week 12 Give Your Brain a Vacation 58
Week 13 Spring Into Fitness 62
Week 14 Are We Having Fun Yet? 67
Week 15 Two Heads Run Better Than One 70
Week 16 Stop, Look, and Listen 73
Week 17 Creating Space 77
Week 18 Focus Your Energy 81
Week 19 Brake for Spontaneity 85
Week 20 Early Warning Signals 87
Week 21 Learning To Wait 93
Week 22 Friends, Facts, and Faith 96
Week 23 Shine the Light 100
Week 24 Close Encounters 103
Week 25 Are You a Spiritual Pioneer? 106
Week 26 Throw Caution to the Wind 109
Week 27 Standing in the Shadow 112
Week 28 How's Your Backbone? 116
Week 29 Let Financial Freedom Reign 120
Week 30 Stop/Reflect/Reward 126
Week 31 Kidding Around 129
Week 32 Are You a Sleeping Beauty? 132
Week 33 Spring-Clean Your Office 138
Week 34 Stretch Yourself 143
Week 35 Feathering Your Nest 147
Week 36 Bring in the Reserves 150
Week 37 Fix What's Broken 154
Week 38 Preseason Checkup 157
Week 39 Settle for More 160
Week 40 Pamper Break 163
Week 41 Self-Care at Work 166
Week 42 Life Accessories 170
Week 43 The Power of Love 174
Week 44 Mental Self-Care 178
Week 45 People and Priorities 182
Week 46 Great Gift Giving 185
Week 47 The "Thank You" Game 188
Week 48 The Benefits of Boredom 191
Week 49 Stop the Madness 196
Week 50 Shake up Your life 200
Week 51 Sane and Special 203
Week 52 The Power of Prayer 205
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Introduction

How often do you daydream about living a better life -a life that reflects more of you, your values and deepest desires? How many times have you come to the end of a busy week and toyed with the fantasy of packing a bag and leaving it all behind? I'm sure I don't need to tell you that in today's world most people live with a nagging sense that something's missing or that life is passing them by. So many of us long for time to discover who we are and what we really want before it's too late.

For the last nine years I've worked as a personal coach helping clients to reevaluate their lives and connect more deeply with what really matters most. The goal was to improve the quality of their lives. The improvements varied, depending on the client. For some, new jobs that honored their values and their need for a life outside of work helped make a difference. For others, getting the right support or putting smart systems in place allowed them to eliminate the stress of success. And, it was not uncommon for clients to scale back or simplify their lives dramatically in order to reclaim the peace and serenity they desired. Each client's story was unique, and yet they all had one common goal to live a more authentic life, one that reflected their values and most treasured priorities. Let's see if any of these stories sound familiar....

As Olivia stands by the window in her office looking out over the city, she wonders where her life is headed. Working as a manager for a high-tech company, she feels like she's been on a wild ride. Stock prices are up, sales are strong, and she's been a major contributor to the success of her division. Her workused to be rewarding, but now Olivia feels miserable. Although she found the life she thought she wanted, she feels as if she's lost herself.

Olivia gets up early every day, hits the gym by 6, gets to her desk by 8, and on most nights leaves the office after 7:30. She daydreams about how life used to be when she spent more time with her friends, dated on a regular basis, and had more time to herself. At this point Olivia says that her life feels like one long routine day after another. She's tired, lonely, and ready for a change.

Olivia's situation is a good example of what happens when we dedicate so much of our life to work-we end up missing our life. We forge ahead, get many of our needs-such as the need for community, recognition, or accomplishment-met at work, and suddenly discover that we no longer have a personal life to go home to. This realization can be a hard pill to swallow.

Sometimes, however, the problem is a little different. For example, in David's situation, his success has given him much more than he bargained for. Sitting at his desk at the end of a busy day David wonders if all his hard work is really paying off. His consulting business is more successful than ever. He's made more money this year than in the last two years combined. And, he can barely remember the days when he worried about making payroll. Yet David walks around with a nagging feeling that something is missing. Although he's reached the level of success he always hoped for, it doesn't feel the way he expected it to feel. He has more responsibility than ever-a loving wife, three small kids, a large house in the country, and twenty-five employees to manage. Instead of feeling happy about the role he's created for himself, David says he feels like an employee working for everyone else. He often fantasizes about selling the business, downsizing his family's lifestyle, and trying something new. David's not sure he's willing to continue paying such a high price for success.

Or there's Margaret, whose unhappiness has more to do with an inner challenge than with her external circumstances. After dropping the kids off at school, Margaret drives to work feeling conflicted. The mother of two boys and the owner of a wholesale gift company, Margaret feels like she's being pulled in two different directions. On the one hand she thrives on the excitement and sense of accomplishment that she gets from growing a successful company; on the other, she longs to be with her boys while they're growing up. The stress of this conflict is starting to wear her down. It's hard enough juggling what feels like two full-time jobs (her business and her family), but the added pressure of this inner turmoil makes it unbearable. Margaret knows that something's got to give.

Although the details of your life may be different, the feelings of frustration, exhaustion, and loneliness may be all too familiar. For many of us who live in a fast-paced, adrenaline-fueled society, questions about meaning, purpose, and true happiness are faithful companions in the day-to-day creation of our lives. We long for something more. Years of searching for happiness and fulfillment in the external world of work have taken their toll. We've lost ourselves in the daily madness of our busy lives.

As a personal coach I became a partner with my clients, and during our weekly meetings I'd help them to reevaluate their priorities, redefine success based on a more holistic perspective of life, and take the necessary actions to bring about the positive changes they desired. Each week clients would leave with an action plan, and I quickly noticed that the small weekly homework assignments started to make a big difference. One client, who had lived in a chaotic, cluttered environment for years, started creating order out of chaos and regained a whole new perspective on his life. Another client, who had suffered from the heavy burden of debt created by years of financial irresponsibility, began to make small weekly changes that improved her financial health, and her savings started to grow.

During my time working with clients I learned a lot about what prevents us from living authentic, meaningful lives. And as I shifted my attention from working with individuals to working with groups, I received a lot of feedback on what was holding them back as well. In December 1998 1 published Take Time for Your Life in order to share this knowledge with a larger audience. In this book I took readers through the same coaching process that I used with clients in my private practice. The steps in the book were designed to help readers take a realistic look at their lives and to help them evaluate what needed to change in order for them to feel happier and to live a higher-quality life.

For example, I encouraged readers to begin making self-care a top priority, so they could make proactive life choices instead of reactive ones. I led them through a process of getting their priorities straight, identifying and eliminating those things that were draining their energy, and investing in their financial health, so they would feel more fully in charge of their lives. I introduced readers to the challenges of living in an adrenaline-crazed society, and I showed them how to slow down and begin exchanging unhealthy forms of fuel, like caffeine, sugar, and anxiety, for healthier forms, like a supportive community and a personalized spiritual practice.

I also went out on the road speaking about these topics to larger audiences who felt disillusioned with their lives. As I spoke to audience members and read through the letters and e-mails I received from readers of my first book, it was clear that these strategies were working and that my readers wanted more. They wanted to continue to hear about others who were making changes in their lives, and they wanted bite-sized homework that they could implement on a weekly basis to support them in making the changes I had outlined in the book. That's when I decided to use technology to my advantage.

In January of 1999 I launched an on-line newsletter called Life Makeover for the Year 2000. I designed the newsletter to support readers by providing simple, practical strategies that they could use to improve their personal and professional lives on a weekly basis. Based on my experience while coaching clients, I decided to use the "one week at a time" process not only to help make change easier for more people, but to make the process fun and effective as well. Each week I chose a random topic that addressed a certain area of personal or professional growth, and I added a specific action that readers could take during the week to help improve this area. As readers began taking action, their lives started to change. And all of the small changes they were making started to add up.

The Life Makeover community began to grow as readers started forwarding the weekly newsletters to friends, family members, coworkers, and colleagues around the world. For example, one woman, the dean of a well-known university, distributed the newsletter to everyone at her school. Another reader, the president of a manufacturing company, decided to send the weekly newsletter to every employee at the company. What started out as a community of a few hundred quickly grew to several thousand within one year.

The foundation of this weekly process was rooted in my basic coaching philosophy of extreme self-care. This concept, introduced to me by my colleague, Thomas Leonard, challenged readers to take such good care of themselves that at times the program even felt a bit self-indulgent. There was an important reason for this. In my experience as a coach I learned that when clients took extremely good care of themselves by doing things like taking time off on a regular basis, saying no more often to people or projects or situations that drained them, and listening to and acting on their inner wisdom, their stress levels went down and their life satisfaction increased. They also began to care for others in a much healthier way. This realization became my guiding vision-to help people care more deeply for themselves so they were better able to care for others and the world around them.

THE "LIFE MAKEOVER" PROGRAM is a powerful year-long program for change. It is designed to support you in changing your life one week at a time. Each chapter (week) consists of a topic of the week and contains a Take Action Challenge and a Resources section to support you in taking action quickly and easily. (Many of these resources were provided by our online community.)

The process is meant to be simple and fun. Although I have kept the original theme of starting at the beginning of the year (January) and working through until the end (December), I invite you to use this book in your own unique way. Whether you decide to start from the beginning and work from Week #1 through Week #52, dip into the book at random, or find a chapter that covers a topic you'd like to work on, what matters most of all is that you do something with the material you read. After all, taking action is the only way to create positive, long-lasting change in your life. As you begin to engage in the weekly Take Action Challenge homework, you'll see how one week builds upon another, and before you know it, you'll start to experience important positive changes in your life too!

As you begin this weekly program, the most powerful motivating force that will help you to take the actions outlined in this book is a partner or group of like-minded friends who are interested in changing their lives for the better too. I can't stress this point enough. Community is an extremely important ingredient for your success. Partnering with a coworker, family member, or friend is like providing yourself with a life-insurance policy that will pay far greater dividends. You might even create your own book club, work-study group, or family team. Once you have your partner or team in place, follow these four simple guidelines:

1. Make a plan for how you'll support each other. For example, will you meet in person or over the phone? How often will you meet and when?

2. Review the topic of the week and discuss how the topic relates to you and your life.

3. Make a commitment to a specific action related to the "Take Action Challenge" and let your partner or team know what you'll be working on during the week.

4. Plan a time to reconnect so you can share your progress and celebrate your success together.

Don't be afraid to ask for support during the week. In the beginning you might need a helping hand more often. These simple stories of inspiration and action can make a world of difference in your life and the lives of those you care about. It only takes one small consistent action to make a big change in your life, so don't let fear, procrastination, or doubt get in your way.

As you start to make changes on a weekly basis, be prepared for your life to unfold in wonderful ways. As you clean up the clutter, reconnect with your inner wisdom, strengthen your character, and take on the challenges of high-quality living, you'll find that the lost parts of yourself start to come together to form a pretty amazing life. Good luck!

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  • Anonymous

    Posted February 4, 2001

    Stress Relief for Those Overly Busy with Work and Family

    This book is designed for the work-obsessed, and will be most valuable to women who have both demanding jobs and busy home responsibilities. It is easy to turn the demands of others into a compulsion to work all the time. In that process, you can lose sight of yourself and the purposes you want to serve. The main weakness of this book is that it has you take on a great many new activities without letting most of them continue long enough to become good, new habits. Converted into a book from 52 weekly on-line newsletters, this book would have been greatly improved by editing it into a less demanding regimen with more repetition and fewer new things to do. Ms. Richardson is a personal coach, and normally meets with her clientele weekly to check on how they are doing and to give them new direction. She has attempted to match that model by encouraging you to find a friend or a group to provide support for you, and to prescribe (blindly) exercises for your weekly pursuit. Although this one-size-fits-all approach may work fine for some, for many it will not be optimal. I suggest a different approach. Treat this book as a resource guide instead. Start by reading the whole book. Make notes about which sections relate to problems that you are sure you have, and are having trouble dealing with. Then think about how solving these problems with help you have a better life. Next, reorder the sequences to get help for yourself in the areas where you need it first. When doing this, continue with a set of exercises until they become new and improving habits before taking on the next thing. Otherwise, I think you will find your busy schedule simply filled up with new self-oriented activities. If you are not careful, this will just create a different kind of stress, being busier and having spent more money. Most people will find that they need to repeat something 45 to 60 times before it becomes a firmly entrenched habit. Since many of these exercises are to be pursued once a day, I suspect that you will be able to add a new exercise (unless you have a lot of spare time) only about every 6-9 weeks rather than once a week. So if you found all of these exercises helpful, it would take several years to make the adjustment. I see that as good, rather than as slow progress. If you made 4 or 5 major changes in important areas for you in the next year, that would be an exceptionally good year for personal progress. Once you are ready to begin, I commend the first two weeks to you. The first one suggests that you begin by 'acknowledging yourself for what you've already acomplished and . . . who you've become over the last year.' This perspective is a good one for thinking about where you need to focus and how much progress you need. The second one calls for goal setting. Writing down your goals is the best advice in this book. If you review those goals regularly, you will undoubtedly make a lot of progress. Research on personal progress continuously validates that method to progress. The rest of the book is mostly a set of techniques to break you out of old habits and routines, so that you consciously choose how you focus and spend your time. Having taken a lot of self-improvement courses, I agree with her advice to both keep a journal in many of these areas and to regularly check in with your buddy or self-help group. That provides perspective, structure, as well as motivation to continue. Early in the process, be sure to do one or more of the exercises that is designed to help you reduce your commitments. Otherwise, you will become even more overwhelmed. You have to start doing less of something unimportant before you can do more of something important. This book seems to encourage a lot of self-indulgence . . . massages, new goodies for the house or office, and relaxation. However, that may not be what's missing for you. You may need more excitement and company. So part of the answer may be to go skiing more often, and t

    3 out of 3 people found this review helpful.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted June 29, 2012

    This book is so great !!!

    I can't begin to say how much this book has helped me. It not only get through chemo treatments but it was a positive way to make a stake in the future life here on earth. I just enjoyed the process and doing the action plan. In the year it takes to do this book, you have the time to do the action plan and to digest the growth and make adjustments where you want to, and to take off and to grow where you want to. You have to know the sky is the limit and then some.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted February 1, 2006

    Okay, but not miraculous

    This book has a lot of standard advice you will find in other books like setting goals for yourself, exercising, decluttering, eating right, etc. There's not much new here. If you've never read a book like this, you'll probably like it, but I thought it was pretty much the same old advice that other books in this genre have spewed out. Advice only works if you take it, not if you just read about it.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted December 27, 2005

    She's terrific

    Bought it and loved it. I listen to it in the car when I'm driving and just need some quiet time to regroup. She's right on with most all of her assessments. Really enjoy it.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted May 20, 2001

    making it right

    The questions and answer segments are longer than one might think. They are the key to getting to know yourself. If you skip around, always go back to the beginning. Don't think certain things don't count. It is a full circle life work out. Stick with it and you will be amazed.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted April 29, 2001

    Starting over

    What I like about this is book is that Cheryl Richardson gives an outline to create the life we want. Of course, if your looking for someone to do the dirty work for you this might not be the book for you. But, if you are willing to be responsible for your life, this book can provide some effective tools you will need to create a great life.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted January 14, 2001

    A Helpful Book

    I enjoyed the book though it may not be quite as real world practical as a somewhat more business oriented book like 'Filling the Glass' or 'Shakleton's Way' or Chopra's books.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted November 16, 2000

    Out of Control

    My life and my marriage was out of control. This simple yet poignant 52 ways really helped me to get everything under control and have an enriched life once again.

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