Lights in Cold Rooms: A Psychologist Reflects on Family, Aging, Love & Loss
An honest account of depression from poet and psychologist Joan Cusack Handler.
 
Lights in Cold Rooms shares Joan Cusack Handler’s personal experiences with depression as a licensed psychologist with forty years of experience treating patients. For many, including Handler, quarantine precluded the preferred treatment of psychotherapy. Handler turned to her own pathology to teach herself and others how to navigate both isolation and depression. Feelings of anxiousness and impending mortality intensified as she faced the death of her older sister and grappled with the guilt that erupted when she learned that an in-person memorial service was impossible. Opening both her personal history and pathology to public view, Handler chronicles her confrontation with eighty years of family dynamics and explores the path she took to return to a place of hope.
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Lights in Cold Rooms: A Psychologist Reflects on Family, Aging, Love & Loss
An honest account of depression from poet and psychologist Joan Cusack Handler.
 
Lights in Cold Rooms shares Joan Cusack Handler’s personal experiences with depression as a licensed psychologist with forty years of experience treating patients. For many, including Handler, quarantine precluded the preferred treatment of psychotherapy. Handler turned to her own pathology to teach herself and others how to navigate both isolation and depression. Feelings of anxiousness and impending mortality intensified as she faced the death of her older sister and grappled with the guilt that erupted when she learned that an in-person memorial service was impossible. Opening both her personal history and pathology to public view, Handler chronicles her confrontation with eighty years of family dynamics and explores the path she took to return to a place of hope.
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Lights in Cold Rooms: A Psychologist Reflects on Family, Aging, Love & Loss

Lights in Cold Rooms: A Psychologist Reflects on Family, Aging, Love & Loss

by Joan Cusack Handler
Lights in Cold Rooms: A Psychologist Reflects on Family, Aging, Love & Loss

Lights in Cold Rooms: A Psychologist Reflects on Family, Aging, Love & Loss

by Joan Cusack Handler

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An honest account of depression from poet and psychologist Joan Cusack Handler.
 
Lights in Cold Rooms shares Joan Cusack Handler’s personal experiences with depression as a licensed psychologist with forty years of experience treating patients. For many, including Handler, quarantine precluded the preferred treatment of psychotherapy. Handler turned to her own pathology to teach herself and others how to navigate both isolation and depression. Feelings of anxiousness and impending mortality intensified as she faced the death of her older sister and grappled with the guilt that erupted when she learned that an in-person memorial service was impossible. Opening both her personal history and pathology to public view, Handler chronicles her confrontation with eighty years of family dynamics and explores the path she took to return to a place of hope.

Product Details

ISBN-13: 9781960327161
Publisher: CavanKerry Press
Publication date: 09/02/2025
Sold by: Barnes & Noble
Format: eBook
Pages: 206
File size: 7 MB

About the Author

Joan Cusack Handler is a poet, memoirist, and psychologist. She has published three verse memoirs—GlOrious, The Red Canoe: Love in Its Making, and Orphans, and one prose memoir, Confessions of Joan the Tall. With Gabriel Cleveland, she coedited Places We Return To, an anthology of selections from the first one hundred books published by CavanKerry Press, the press she founded twenty-five years ago, and where she continues to serve as publisher.

Table of Contents

Preface

Depression & the Stories That Came with It



Patient Clinician



I. The Body, the Culprit

The Worst Day

Looming

Morphing

Twisted, Tilted

Homes

Tall Falls

Greedy

Lazy

Love Affair

Fractured

A Kindness

Fantasy



II. Heart Sick

The Heart Thing

The Falling

Pink Cheeks, Soft Silver Hair



8



On the First Night of Enforced Quarantine

Complicit

Unthinkable

Chained

Peace Be With You

All That Mattered

Regrets

Bereft



III. A House Divided Against Itself

Close Watch

Dark House

Selfish

Siblings

Another Look

Brothers Escape

Resentment Deepens, Guilt Festers

Peace, Finally

Still

No Room at the Inn



IV. Banquets & Cameos

Sustenance

The Crown

Reprieves

Integrity & Love in Abundance

Transfixed

Then the Poems Came



9



Finding Balance

Nesting

When Does the Gratitude Start?

Another Good Mother

Orchids in Tall Vases

It’s Still Not Safe to Return to Brooklyn



V. Keep Them Close

Privileged

Back to Square One

Silence

Another Fissure

X-Rays & Scans, Past & Present

Possessed

Preordained

When the Water Is There

Self-Parenting

A Birthday Picnic

As Long as There’s a Needle Holding On



Coda

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