Lives of Lesbian Elders: Looking Back, Looking Forward

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Lives of Lesbian Elders: Looking Back, Looking Forward illuminates the hopes, fears, issues, and concerns of gay women as they grow older. Based on interviews with 62 lesbians ranging in age from 55 to 95, this very special book provides a historical account of the shared experiences of the lesbian community that is so often invisible or ignored in contemporary society. The book gives voice to their thoughts and feelings on a wide range of issues, including coming out, identity and the meaning of life, the role of family and personal relationships, work and retirement, adversity, and individual sources of strength and resilience.
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This work is structured around lesbian issues of coming out, identity, family, work, aging, adversity, and resiliency. Clunis (The Lesbian Parenting Book: A Guide to Creating Families and Raising Children) and her coauthors interviewed 62 lesbians ages 55 to 95 living in California, Oregon, and Washington. The authors identify themes from their interviews and present verbatim excerpts from the interviewees to illustrate them. Inevitably, some of the women are more articulate than others, and jumping from one respondent to another makes the prose a bit disjointed. The reader is, however, given intimate glimpses into the lives of these women as they discuss struggle and triumph in their personal and professional lives. Mindful that we are all shaped by the times in which we live, the authors open with a brief survey of how homosexuality has been perceived throughout history, and they close with a chronology of significant events. These interviews demonstrate experiences shared by all women, as well as those unique to lesbians. Recommended for academic and large public libraries.-Debra Moore, Cerritos Coll., Norwalk, CA Copyright 2004 Reed Business Information.
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Table of Contents

  • Preface and Acknowledgments
  • Introduction
  • Getting Started
  • Historical Background
  • Chapter 1. Coming Out
  • Coming Out: What Does It Mean?
  • The Closet
  • Growing Up Different
  • Marriage and Motherhood
  • Resistance and Rebels
  • Coming Out Older
  • The Movements
  • Chapter 2. Identity
  • What’s in a Name?
  • Identity Development
  • Family Influence on Identity
  • Turning Points
  • Finding Meaning in Life
  • Chapter 3. Family
  • Defining Family
  • Biological Family
  • The Lesbian Family: Partnerships and Relationships
  • Chapter 4. Work
  • Work and Sexual Identity
  • Lesbians in the Military
  • Work and the Double Life
  • Work Satisfaction
  • Planning for Retirement
  • Retirement
  • Chapter 5. Aging and Hopes for the Future
  • Aging: The Challenges and Anticipations
  • Financial Security
  • Independence and Dependence
  • Housing and Community
  • Partnerships: Journeying Through Life Together
  • Hopes for the Future
  • Chapter 6. Adversity
  • Family Rejection
  • Education, Military, and Political Lessons
  • Social Isolation
  • Looking Trouble in the Eye
  • Chapter 7. Resiliency
  • I Know Who I Am
  • Sources of Support
  • Best Times
  • Spirituality
  • Dreams and Desires
  • Advice for Younger Generations
  • Chapter 8. Conclusion
  • Appendix A. Historical Time Line
  • Appendix B. Demographic Information
  • Appendix C. Suggested Reading
  • Index
  • Reference Notes Included
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