Love by the Numbers: How to Find Great Love or Reignite the Love You Have Through the Power of Numerology [NOOK Book]

Excerpt from Chapter 1: Introduction to Numerology

We come to love, not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.
—Sam Keen

When I wrote my previous book Glynis Has Your Number, I had so many topics to cover that I only put one chapter about love in the book. I vowed that my next book would be dedicated to love, because I believe there is nothing more important to our well-being.

I have been practicing Numerology for over twenty-one years, and one of my greatest pleasures is to bring two people together and help them find lasting love by the Numbers. It is a blessing when we share our lives with kindness and consideration to help each other achieve our dreams. I find equal satisfaction in counseling married couples whose marriages have lost their way. Numerology has helped them to understand each other, begin to work through their differences, and fall in love all over again.

It isn't as much fun if you have a great career and achieve success but have no one with whom you can share your triumphs. I strongly believe that God did not put us on a planet with millions of people and yet doomed us to live our lives alone. It only makes sense that He would want us to be able to share our lives with the right someone else. If you are dating and looking for a lasting love, I can help you find a loving partner through the power of Numerology. If you are already in a relationship and know that it is not a healthy one, help is on the way!

How It Works
Numerology, a 2,500-year-old science of numbers, was created by the Greek mathematician Pythagoras. Pythagoras believed that when we are born, we enter this world with very specific Vibrations. These Vibrations have a direct influence on our character and what our life purpose will be. Pythagoras attached a Number to each Vibration, using the Numbers 1 (new beginnings) through 9 (completion). If you have a person's first and last name, and full date of birth, you can discover exactly who they are by using the Pythagorean Number System.

There are three Numbers that come from the name (the Soul Number, the Personality Number, and the Power Name Number), and there are three Numbers that come from the full birth date (the Birth Day Number, the Life Path Number, and the Attitude Number).

Below are the brief definitions of what each number tells you about a person.

The Soul Number: Defines what will fulfill your Soul.
The Personality Number: Defines how people perceive you.
The Power Name Number: Defines the strength of your character.
The Birth Day Number: Defines how you appear to people when they first meet you.
The Life Path Number: Defines your life's purpose. This Number has the biggest impact on your Life.
The Attitude Number: Defines your general outlook on life.

Here is an example of what the six numbers above look like when they are laid out:

93345*/7Attitude

When you do a Numerology Blueprint, the layout of the numbers will always be in this exact order, going from left to right. The first number will be the Soul Number (9), the second number will be the Personality Number (3), the third number will be the Power Name Number (3), the fourth number will be the Birth Day Number (4), the fifth Number will be the Life Path Number (5), and the sixth number will be the Attitude Number (7). I will always put an asterisk (*) next to the Life Path Number, because it is the most important Number when it comes to love relationships. However, if your Life Path Numbers are a Challenge, all is not lost because I do give you advice on how to deal with this in Chapter 14.

When you have determined the six numbers for you and your partner, you will have the information you need to create a Personal Numerology Chart Comparison and see whether this relationship is worth pursuing or ending so you can move on. This book will help you answer this question with confidence. If you are in an unhappy marriage, and your relationship is mostly Toxic but you want to save it, perhaps because you have children or just do not believe in divorce, there is information throughout this book that will give you the tools to heal your relationship.

When you do a Personal Numerology Chart Comparison, there are three ways that each number interacts with another number:

A Natural Match Number means you have an instant rapport and an easygoing understanding of each other.
A Compatible Number means you get along most of the time and can learn to agree to disagree.
A Challenge Number means that no matter what you say, you will be misunderstood. More often than not you will find a break down in communication, which can feel very Toxic and make the relationship difficult.

I will discuss each of these further in Chapter 3.

As time goes on, there are couples who believe they have outgrown each other, and others who say they grew much closer in later years. I believe this actually has to do with the Maturity Number (what you achieve in midlife) and the Destiny Number (where you are headed), which are two Vibrations that reveal themselves later in life. Although these two Numbers are not one of the six Numbers used in your Numerology Blueprint, they do also help you understand each other better. By learning what they are and mean, you can prepare for them with your mate; or if you are dating and find they are Toxic, you may want to reconsider the relationship.

By studying your Numerology Blueprints with your partner, you can learn a whole new way to communicate, so that your partner will actually hear what you are saying—perhaps for the first time.