This Book Can Change Your Marriage & Your Life!
I doubt anyone has been more selfish or inconsiderate with their spouse than I have. Certain recent events in my marriage finally caused me to hit rock bottom and I realized recently that my marriage is in severe jeopardy. I had seen the movie Fireproof last year and I am a Christian (Catholic), and although I was touched by the movie, I did not act on it. I think as a person we all reach a point where we know we must change becuase if we want to be happy, we need to love and be loved, I reached that point.
It was last week that I decided to buy the book and change. I am white collar professional and a father of three wonderful and beautiful daughters who has longed to have a happy marriage, however it was not until I started reading this book that I realized I was my own worst enemy. I am only in Day 7 of the book, but I can honestly say, that my attitude and actions have taken a 180 degree turn for the better. I have already learned it is easier and less stressful to be unselfish than selfish. More importantly I have learned if you love someone than you do so through your actions and without hidden or selfish motives.
Although I know there are many challenges ahead, this book will always be part of my life, and it will inspire me and motivate me to honor, respect, and love my wife from now on. If those who knew me were aware I was writing this they would be literally stunned. The fact is that I now realize how much I love my wife yet up to now only I had only ever told her through words. Actions are far more indicative, but do so because it's how you should treat someone you love, not because you want something out of it. I like how I feel about my actions now because I know their making her happier and that's reason enough to continue. If you truly take this book seriously, than I can promise you that, you, your spouse, and your family will greatly benefit from it.
If your marriage is not what you want it to be, than take this challenge and change it. I do not want to be lonely or unhappy in my marriage, nor does anyone else, but it takes hard work and and alot of effort; this book is about that effort and how you love someone.
You must be open minded and honest with yourself, do not even inform your sposue that you are undertaking this challenge, just do it and see what happens for you, it could change your life, I know because it is changing mine.
If you love your wife, place her in front of everything else but God, including your children and yourself, and never, ever, let anything or anyone come between you.
Good luck.
- If my advice about this book helps even one marriage then it was
worth writing this review.
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