Love Shrinks: A Memoir of a Marriage Counselor's Divorce

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For twenty years, Sharyn Wolf, a practicing psychotherapist and "relationship expert," has helped revitalize the marriages of countless couples. But while she was being interviewed on Oprah and 48 hours to talk about her nationally bestselling books that instructed millions on how to flirt, find mates, and "stay lovers for life," she was going home every night to a dark secret: a totally failed marriage of her own to a good man she just couldn't leave.

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For twenty years, Sharyn Wolf, a practicing psychotherapist and "relationship expert," has helped revitalize the marriages of countless couples. But while she was being interviewed on Oprah and 48 hours to talk about her nationally bestselling books that instructed millions on how to flirt, find mates, and "stay lovers for life," she was going home every night to a dark secret: a totally failed marriage of her own to a good man she just couldn't leave.

In Love Shrinks, Sharyn tells the mindbending—and yet deeply relatable—story of her (third!) marriage. In anecdotes that range from poignant to horrifying to side-splittingly funny to heart-rending, she explains how it is possible for two good people to make each other totally miserable and yet still be unable to leave. In fifteen years of marriage, she and her husband had sex twice. Despite the fact that Sharyn was a national bestselling self-help author, her husband couldn't bring himself to read a single one of her books. Communication between them had failed so utterly that the simple domestic activity of buying a couch together escalated to disastrous proportions. Yet through it all, they stay together—even though neither one knows why. Sharyn ends each chapter with a touching story of why she could never bear to leave this man who made her so unhappy.

Painted against the backdrop of her psycotherapy practice, real-life illustrative cases of her patients, and the wacky story of career trajectory, Sharyn turns her analytical eye on herself and her husband and deftly depicts a marriage on its long last legs. The result is this beautiful and sad tapestry of a hidden and omnipresent human condition. You will not be able to put her book down.

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“Riveting…”—Maclean's (Canada)

“Blending a conversational tone with tight, fast-paced prose, the author doesn't shy away from her flaws, resulting in a book that is touching, humorous and familiar.”—Kirkus Reviews

Kirkus Reviews

Oprah-sanctioned relationship expert dishes on the decline of her own marriage.

Wolf (This Old Spouse: Tips and Tools for Keeping that Honeymoon Glow, 2007, etc.) may be a bestselling self-help author, frequent talk-show guest and marriage counselor to the stars. However, she's also a woman who's been married and divorced four times, but is still grappling to stay in the ring. The author offers a disclaimer right from off the bat—the first line reads, "This is the story of a marriage counselor who couldn't keep her own marriage together." Wolf goes on to detail the ironies of being a woman well-known for her whiz-bang relationship tips simultaneously wiling away her time in a sexless, dead-end marriage. So begins an investigation of not only her own background, but those of her husbands and her parents as well. The author uncovers a number of painfully repressed childhood memories which afford the wisdom that most of her marriages were doomed to hurtle straight off a cliff from the get-go. Wolf turns to her patients for answers, mining their individual situations for comparisons to her own, and seeks solace while counseling them through their shared dysfunctions.

Blending a conversational tone with tight, fast-paced prose, the author doesn't shy away from her flaws, resulting in a book that is touching, humorous and familiar.

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Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9781569479360
  • Publisher: Soho Press, Incorporated
  • Publication date: 5/3/2011
  • Pages: 256
  • Product dimensions: 5.20 (w) x 8.10 (h) x 1.00 (d)

Meet the Author

Sharyn Wolf is a New York State–licensed psychotherapist who has worked with couples for twenty years.  She has been a frequent media commentator on celebrity marriage and divorce and has written five self-help books including This Old Spouse: Tips and Tools for Keeping that Honeymoon Glow, How to Stay Lovers for Life, Guerrilla Dating Tactics, 50 Ways to Find a Lover and So You Want to Get Married.  She has been a guest on Oprah eight times.  A jazz, big band and R&B vocalist for seventeen years, she has opened for B.B. King, David Brenner and Victor Borge.
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