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You have to give up a lot to make peace with yourself. You have to give up feeling sorry for yourself and others for not being perfect. You will have to learn to accept parts of yourself that you have been resenting for your entire life. You will have to grow to appreciate yourself exactly as you are, and not as you wish you could be. Women need not be so judgmental of her man. Part of becoming less judgmental is accepting that we all make judgments. The less you resist the fact that no man fits all your ideals of a perfect picture, the more you can appreciate whomever you are with.
Chill-out’ with the demands. It is okay to have some demands, but do not let them become the driving force of your potential relationship. Heavy demands are self-fulfilling prophecies that eventually make the other person go away. Men, as you develop yourself, you will be less likely to expect the impossible or seek to control your woman. The more you can fulfill yourself, the more you can lighten your demands into preferences. Fulfillment in your current state depends upon successfully healing and discovering from within. Unless you are willing to do so, internal conflicts will continue. Men, we need to understand that we are a very jealous people, and jealousy in most cases is the surest way to get rid of the very person you are afraid of losing. It also reduces both men and women to their most childish and possessive selves. We must learn to forgive ourselves, and start favoring the positive.
We have been lost for so long (since Adam and Eve) that we have become accustomed to living the lie laid down before us. We are attempting a great feat within itself. We are repairing or attempting to repair a situation that no modern man knows anything about. The road is long and hard, but is achievable. Men are now in a position to step up and be men, so we must seize the moment. We owe it to our children, our women, and ourselves.
The world is on the blink, our men cannot think; and as a sober man, I am damn near coerced to take a drink.