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Mean Girls Gone: A Spiritual Guide to Getting Rid of Mean


Mean girls are everywhere.

And they never seem to give up. In Mean Girls, Hayley showed you how to end the cycle of mean once and for all. Mean Girls Gone goes a step further. It is a trip inside your ...
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Mean girls are everywhere.

And they never seem to give up. In Mean Girls, Hayley showed you how to end the cycle of mean once and for all. Mean Girls Gone goes a step further. It is a trip inside your heart and soul-a journey of the spirit.

Do you spend your time and energy making sure the other girls like you? Do you feel like they control you with their mean? Dive deep inside your heart to see what might be hiding there that's adding to the pain of living with mean.

Hayley will show you how to:

- determine if you have a Mean Girl problem

- be free from the grip of mean

- heal from the inside out

- find inner peace in the face of mean

A look inside will change the way you look at your Mean Girl. Because when it comes to getting rid of the mean in your life, the only person you really have any power over is yourself.

Hayley DiMarco is the founder of Hungry Planet, the author of Mean Girls, and the coauthor of the phenomenally successful Dateable, The Dateable Rules, The Dirt on Dating, and The Dirt on Breaking Up. Hayley and her husband Michael live in Nashville, Tennessee.

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Editorial Reviews

This inane little book gets an A for attractive format and an F for useful content. Sequel to Mean Girls: Facing Your Beauty Turned Beast (Revel/Baker Books, 2004/VOYA February 2005), the book purports to help a girl "free your soul from the bondage of mean" and "find inner peace in the face of mean" by ignoring other girls' cruel remarks or behavior and by following God's teachings. At least half the lovely pastel pages are blank, intended for the young reader's personal, written reflections, and those that do contain text have few lines and wide margins. Many pages offer only Bible quotations or cartoon-like illustrations, often of the "teen" blasting her way to freedom from mean with her handy blowtorch. A pseudo-book containing only moralisms and essentially worthless advice, it has no place in any collection, with the exception of a Christian youth library. Anyone wishing to help a teenage girl with a "mean" problem would do better to purchase the Bible itself. VOYA CODES: 1Q 2P M J S (Hard to understand how it got published; For the YA with a special interest in the subject; Middle School, defined as grades 6 to 8; Junior High, defined as grades 7 to 9; Senior High, defined as grades 10 to 12). 2005, Fleming H. Revel/Baker Books, 176p.; Biblio., Trade pb. Ages 11 to 18.
—Laura Woodruff
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Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9780800730567
  • Publisher: Baker Publishing Group
  • Publication date: 3/1/2005
  • Pages: 160
  • Age range: 12 - 14 Years
  • Product dimensions: 5.54 (w) x 8.52 (h) x 0.18 (d)

Meet the Author

Hayley DiMarco writes cutting edge books like Mean Girls, the best-selling Dateable, The Dateable Rules, and The Dirt on Breaking Up among others. Her goal in writing is to give practical answers for life's problems and encourage girls and women into stronger spiritual lives. Hayley has traveled the world with a French theater troupe, worked for a little shoe company called Nike, and created a multi-million dollar teen book business from scratch for Thomas Nelson Publishers. Hayley has seen a lot of life and decided to make a difference in her world. Hayley founded Hungry Planet, a think tank that feeds the world's appetite for truth through authors, speakers, and consultants. Hungry Planet helps organizations understand and reach the post-modern generations by tackling life's everyday issues with a distinctly modern spiritual voice.
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Table of Contents

Mean Diagnosis
What it's all about 8
Do you have a Mean Girl problem? 10
Selah. Stop. Breathe. Think 11
Freeing Your Soul from the Bondage of Mean
What other girls think of you cannot determine your success 22
Controlling what others think about you is a giant waste of time 26
Don't judge who you can't control 32
At the moment you blame, you lose control 38
Don't take rejection as insight on the will of God 44
No one can insult you 48
Forgive over and over again 52
Friends are essential for a healthy spiritual life 58
Healing from the Inside Out
You grow the most in the hard parts of life 66
What you have lost has merely been returned to where it came from 72
Avoid the cares and anxieties of this world 76
If people aren't better for having known you, then you aren't loving them 80
You don't have to feel good to have peace 84
If a habit is bad, don't feed it 90
Girls are essential to life 96
Finding Inner Peace in the Face of Mean
The way to peace is acceptance 104
The afflication of affection 108
Refuse to be controlled 114
Practice indifference to circumstances 118
Fear is the fuel of faith 124
Think upon the divine, not the trial 130
Ignore the unimportant 136
God allows everything 140
The End of the Journey
Mean or not mean, that is the question 148
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