Missing Persons: or, My Grandmother's Secrets

by Clair Wills

Overview

Blending memoir with social history, Clair Wills movingly explores the holes in the fabric of modern Ireland, and in her own family story.

"Clair Wills shines a brilliant, unsparing light into the dark recesses of her family’s history—and the history of Ireland. Missing Persons is a stunningly eloquent exploration of how truth-telling, secret-keeping, and outright lies are part of all family stories—indeed, the stories that unite all communities—and how truths, secrets and lies can both protect and destroy us." —Jeannette Walls, author of The Glass Castle and Hang the Moon

When Clair Wills was in her twenties, she discovered she had a cousin she had never met. Born in a mother-and-baby home in 1950s Ireland, Mary grew up in an institution not far from the farm where Clair spent happy childhood summers. Yet Clair was never told of Mary’s existence.

How could a whole family—a whole country—abandon unmarried mothers and their children, erasing them from history?

To discover the missing pieces of her family’s story, Clair searched across archives and nations, in a journey that would take her from the 1890s to the 1980s, from West Cork to rural Suffolk and Massachusetts, from absent fathers to the grief of a lost child.

There are some experiences that do not want to be remembered. What began as an effort to piece together the facts became an act of decoding the most unreliable of evidence—stories, secrets, silences. The result is a moving, exquisitely told account of the secrets families keep, and the violence carried out in their name.

Product Details

ISBN-13:	9780374611866
Publisher:	Farrar, Straus and Giroux
Publication date:	04/02/2024
Pages:	208
Sales rank:	228,078
Product dimensions:	8.30(w) x 5.60(h) x 0.90(d)

About the Author

Clair Wills is the King Edward VII Professor of English Literature at the University of Cambridge. Her books include Lovers and Strangers: An Immigrant History of Post-War Britain, named the Irish Times International Nonfiction Book of the Year, and That Neutral Island: A Cultural History of Ireland During the Second World War, winner of the PEN Hessell-Tiltman Prize, among other works. She is a frequent contributor to the London Review of Books, The New York Review of Books, and other publications. She lives in London.

Editorial Reviews

02/19/2024

Wills (Lovers and Strangers), a professor of English literature at Cambridge University, excavates her own family’s secrets in this intimate and probing history of Irish mother-and-baby homes, Catholic institutions where unwed women and girls were sent to deliver babies throughout the 20th century. Beginning her research in the wake of the international outcry over the 2013 discovery of 800 bodies of babies and children in an unused septic tank on the grounds of a former mother-and-baby home in West Ireland, Wills seeks to understand how so many women and children could have gone “missing”—not just sent away, but “disremembered” by their communities. Eventually, the search leads to her discovery of an erased lineage within her own family. An uncle impregnated a neighbor, who was deemed ineligible for marriage due to disability, and was sent to a mother-and-baby home, where she gave birth to a daughter. Afterward, the mother moved to Cork, far away from her family; the child, who was never adopted, grew up at the home and later died by suicide; and the uncle left for England, never to return. Driven onward by a sense of indignation, Wills’s narrative voice is wounded (“How could it have been worth it?”) and her conclusions heartbreaking. It’s a devastating reckoning with cruelty and conformity. Agent: Sarah Chalfant, Wylie Agency. (Apr.)

Publishers Weekly

Clair Wills has long been among the most supple and illuminating explorers of the intertwined cultural histories of Ireland and Britain. . . Her new book, Missing Persons, pulls on the threads of her own family’s stories and silences to unravel a dark history of loss and forgetting.” – Fintan O’Toole, New York Review of Books

"An expertly crafted work, at once vigorous and subtle, which manages its effects and conserves its revelations with all the skill of a master novelist." —John Banville, The Guardian

“Missing Persons is as close to perfect as a memoir can be; the richness of its subject honed to a poised and discerning brevity, written in unexpectedly lambent prose. It is the sum of Wills’s life: both the family history she carries with and within her, but also the four decades of research and analysis that have been her intellectual existence. Only she could have written it, but it will speak to and about the lives of many.” —Lucy Scholes, Financial Times

“Brilliant and moving . . . fascinating . . . a riveting study of a 'typical' 20th-century Irish family, one both destroyed and bound together by its secrets . . . As it progresses, Missing Persons becomes less an effort to recover those missing relatives and more an inquiry into the mechanisms of disappearance, the ways that communities conspire to erase certain people from public life and collective memory.” —Maggie Doherty, The Atlantic

"The stories [Wills] uncovers are remarkable: touching, tragic, terribly human . . . Her book, written with care, wit and vulnerability, shows that ordinary tragedies deserve our anger and attention too." —Laura Hackett, The Times (UK)

"Not just a vivid, compelling account of Clair’s family and ancestry, but an intriguing snapshot of Ireland’s social history . . . rigorously researched . . . empathetic." —Tanya Sweeney, Irish Independent

“Wills performs a kind of delicate archaeology on the very concepts of familial and historical knowledge . . . Frank, self-aware, and deeply moving, Missing Persons draws attention to what (and who) gets forgotten and left out of history.” —Jenny Hamilton, Booklist

"A searing yet nuanced investigation into the lives of complicit relatives, such as her mother, as well as tender portraits of those affected. The author’s prose is stellar; her cadence complements this compelling tale, which grew increasingly complex over years of meticulous research . . . Fascinatingly, viscerally haunting." —Kirkus Reviews (starred review)

“[Wills] excavates her own family’s secrets in this intimate and probing history . . . [Missing Persons is] a devastating reckoning with cruelty and conformity.” —Publishers Weekly

"Clair Wills shines a brilliant, unsparing light into the dark recesses of her family’s history—and the history of Ireland. Missing Persons is a stunningly eloquent exploration of how truth-telling, secret-keeping, and outright lies are part of all family stories—indeed, the stories that unite all communities—and how truths, secrets and lies can both protect and destroy us." —Jeannette Walls, author of The Glass Castle and Hang the Moon

"Clair Wills retrieves from time’s abyss a speculative history of universal import. This is a penetrating and affecting study, essential reading for anyone who seeks to understand the profound contradictions, the secrets and lies that define post-famine Ireland." —Paul Lynch, author of Prophet Song

"This extraordinary, utterly gripping book reads like a thriller and offers the satisfactions of a mutigenerational novel. Memoir, social history, detective story, ghost story: the singular weave of Missing Persons is brilliantly animated throughout by Wills’ distinctive ethos, a kind of impassioned, rigorous, open-hearted attentiveness. Wills reads for the gaps in official stories—familial, social, institutional—and feels out the palpable absences and semi-buried violence in her family’s history. The book tracks a complex transgenerational haunting—institutionalized mothers and children, dead babies, migrant laborers, wayward men and women, land-hungry farmers, unspoken yet momentous decisions, those who left and those who stayed. Alert to the vibrations moving through her family over two centuries, Wills refuses the “enormous condescension of posterity” (as E.P. Thompson put it) and turns the white heat of her moral intelligence toward this rich and vexed inheritance." —Maureen N. McLane, author of What You Want

"In its account of one family's history of silence and secrecy, Clair Wills has written a compelling book which demonstrates the uncanny universality of even the most personal stories. Attending to the ways that the past ruptures and grows through the present, this is a history shaken by intimacy—a brave and rigorously humane book." —Seán Hewitt, author of Rapture's Road

"If the past is a mass of tangled wool, Clair Wills frees a long strand and knits it into clarity, line by line, inviting the reader to see the complexity of the pattern she reveals. Written with elegance and erudition, Missing Persons is an extraordinary, moving achievement." —Doireann Ní Ghríofa, author of To Star the Dark

From the Publisher

★ 2023-12-26
An excavation of a familial cover-up illuminates broader mysteries of 20th-century Ireland.

In her 20s, Wills, a professor of English at Cambridge and the author of Lovers and Strangers and That Neutral Island, learned she had a cousin she didn’t know existed. The book begins with a cast of characters, all of whom are relatives of the author, divided into four temporal categories: the Victorians, which include Wills’ grandmother; the post-revolutionary generation; the postwar generation, which includes the author; and the next generation. “I keep returning to a story of a generation gone wrong in my own family,” she writes, “a mother not married, and a child stifled.” In the 1950s, the author’s uncle fathered a daughter (the aforementioned cousin) with his lover and, with the mother’s knowledge, abandoned both to a “mother-and-baby home.” Between 1922 and 1998, these institutions homed at least 56,000 unwed mothers and even more infants. In 2014, nearly 800 of their bodies were found in sewer chambers, which sparked a massive investigation into the inhumane conditions. “They did not survive, yet they have not gone away,” writes Wills about the mistreated mothers and children. The author describes her family’s story within this larger context: “To us, now, it seems pretty much unthinkable, yet the distance between us and the people who believed in the system (or believed enough) is very small.” Wills explores the specific ways in which inherited past lives on, offering a searing yet nuanced investigation into the lives of complicit relatives, such as her mother, as well as tender portraits of those affected. The author’s prose is stellar; her cadence complements this compelling tale, which grew increasingly complex over years of meticulous research. Ultimately, she emphasizes that “everything I’ve been describing was not out of the ordinary.”

Fascinatingly, viscerally haunting.

Kirkus Reviews