Mother Me: An Adopted Woman's Journey to Motherhood

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The adopted daughter of loving parents, Zara Phillips nonetheless felt out of place in her family and a misfit in the world around her. Although cherished by a well-meaning mother and father, she grew up feeling deeply insecure and alone, consumed by a void she found impossible to fill. Isolation led to alienation, yet her talent brought her to the center of the thriving London rock ‘n’ roll scene of the 1980s. Her downward spiral fueled by its lifestyle, Zara became lost in drugs, alcohol and destructive ...

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Overview

The adopted daughter of loving parents, Zara Phillips nonetheless felt out of place in her family and a misfit in the world around her. Although cherished by a well-meaning mother and father, she grew up feeling deeply insecure and alone, consumed by a void she found impossible to fill. Isolation led to alienation, yet her talent brought her to the center of the thriving London rock ‘n’ roll scene of the 1980s. Her downward spiral fueled by its lifestyle, Zara became lost in drugs, alcohol and destructive relationships. An intense search for the truth of her birth led to an awakening and successful recovery. Yet, it was her experience of becoming a mother that revealed what being an adopted person really meant to her. For the first time, she gained deep understanding and compassion for both her birth mother and her adoptive mother and was able to start the healing process.
The tale of Zara’s search for her birth mother and her path to health is riveting, as are the stories of many people sharing her past. Zara’s activism for adoptee rights springs from a very personal passion. Mother Me is a brave and compelling memoir that illuminates the lifelong impact of adoption on every member of the “adoption triad”—adoptee, birth mother and adoptive mother—as well as the families of each.

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"a brave and compelling book. " - Bob Geldof

"a much needed look at a subject that has been ignored by most writers. I recommend it to everyone connected with adoption..." - Nancy Verrier, psychotherapist and author, The Primal Wound

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Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9781934848364
  • Publisher: GemmaMedia
  • Publication date: 2/4/2011
  • Pages: 224
  • Sales rank: 1,031,558
  • Product dimensions: 4.90 (w) x 7.90 (h) x 0.70 (d)

Meet the Author

Zara H Phillips is a singer-songwriter, filmmaker, public speaker and advocate for adoptee rights. A backup singer to Bob Geldof and other rock bands in her youth, she recently released the song and video “I’m Legit,” featuring the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame inductee Darryl McDaniels of Run-DMC. Zara wrote, directed and starred in the documentary “Roots Unknown,” which won the award for best documentary short at the Garden State Film Festival. Her website, www.zarahphillips.com  features pages for music, film and events, as well as links to her BBC interview, the trailer for the documentary, the release “I’m Legit” and other original songs.

Zara speaks regularly at the American Adoption Congress, the main adoption organization in the United States, and gives presentations and workshops throughout the US and the UK. She has inspired stories in many publications such as  the New York Times and Adoption Today. Raised in England, Zara lives in Montclair, New Jersey.

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Table of Contents

Introduction xxi

1 In the Beginning 1

2 The Good Adoptee 12

3 Hidden Truths 17

4 Fantasy 22

5 A Yearning to Connect 27

6 Acting Out 32

7 Rock 'N' Roll Lifestyle 45

8 Turning Points 56

9 The Search 64

10 Contact 78

11 Reunion 89

12 Breaking the Silence 100

13 A New Life In LA 103

14 Marriage 111

15 Motherhood 115

16 Fear 125

17 Understanding 129

18 The Missing Link 133

19 Healing And Loss 138

20 Someone Who Looks Like Me 143

21 Birthday Blues 147

22 Telling The Truth 151

23 Letting Go 159

24 Full Circle 166

Epilogue 175

Resources 191

About the Author 197

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  • Anonymous

    Posted January 24, 2013

    Rainpaw

    Want me to tell my kittypet frends?

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    Posted January 22, 2013

    Max

    Are there any cats up for adoption yet?

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