Motherloss / Edition 1

Motherloss / Edition 1

by Lynn Davidman
     
 

ISBN-10: 0520232003

ISBN-13: 9780520232006

Pub. Date: 04/09/2002

Publisher: University of California Press


Lynn Davidman's pathbreaking study analyzes the immediate and continuing impact of a mother's premature death on the children she leaves behind. Drawing on interviews with sixty adults from a variety of class backgrounds, Davidman argues that the experience of motherloss is shaped by our social conceptions of women's roles in the family and in society. Speaking

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Lynn Davidman's pathbreaking study analyzes the immediate and continuing impact of a mother's premature death on the children she leaves behind. Drawing on interviews with sixty adults from a variety of class backgrounds, Davidman argues that the experience of motherloss is shaped by our social conceptions of women's roles in the family and in society. Speaking candidly, often with great emotion and insight, Davidman's interviewees were glad for the opportunity to break cultural taboos and silences about death and to create stories that reveal the power of this early loss to influence their lifelong conceptions of self, family, community, God, and love. With a profound sense of purpose and keen insight, Davidman highlights the narratives of ten respondents, weaving them together into a powerful book that reveals the numerous common themes--as well as the individual variations--in people's stories. This first study of the lifelong impact of motherloss on women's and men's lives will become the definitive work on perhaps the deepest and most complex disruption to occur in the course of a life.

Davidman, who was thirteen when her mother died of cancer, enriches the narrative with her own insights of growing up as the only female in an Orthodox Jewish home with her father and two brothers. The book is enlivened by her movement back and forth between herself and others, individuals and society, thereby challenging the assumption that the personal has no place in our quest for knowledge and understanding. She successfully uses others' experiences to better illuminate her own, and at the same time develops an empathic understanding of their stories by reaching deep into her own memories and feelings about her mother's death and its impact on her life. Despite the silences, isolation, and confusion that accompany a mother's death, and the cultural messages to "move on," Davidman's respondents find ways--in thoughts, prayers, memories, symbolic objects, and practices--to retain their mother's presence in their daily lives.

Product Details

ISBN-13:
9780520232006
Publisher:
University of California Press
Publication date:
04/09/2002
Edition description:
New Edition
Pages:
307
Product dimensions:
6.00(w) x 9.00(h) x 0.88(d)

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Table of Contents

Acknowledgmentsxi
Part 1Introduction
1.The Researcher and the Researched3
2.Narrating Motherloss as Biographical Disruption25
Part 2Narrating Motherloss
3.An Archetypal Narrative: Sheryl Smith59
4.The Myth of the Perfect Mother: Ben Adler, Sid Jacoby, and Ellie Collins79
5.A Different Script: Carl Diamond125
6.Becoming the Mother: Tina Martinelli and Darlene Jackson142
7.Reverberating Losses: Bob McPherson, Sarah Mulligan, and Neil Roberts166
Part 3Reading the Narratives
8.Elements of Biographical Disruption209
9.Elements of Biographical Repair234
10.Coming to Terms with Motherloss256
AppendixInterview Guide265
Notes271
References277
Index283

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