My Mother, My Self: The Daughter's Search for Identity

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When Nancy Friday began her research for My Mother/My Self in the early 1970’s no work existed that explored the unique interaction between mother and daughter. Today psychotherapists throughout the world acknowledge that if women are to be able to love without possessing, to find work that fulfills them, and to discover their full sexuality, they must first acknowledge their identity as separate from their mother’s. Nancy Friday’s book played a major role in that acceptance. The greatest gift a good mother can ...
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When Nancy Friday began her research for My Mother/My Self in the early 1970’s no work existed that explored the unique interaction between mother and daughter. Today psychotherapists throughout the world acknowledge that if women are to be able to love without possessing, to find work that fulfills them, and to discover their full sexuality, they must first acknowledge their identity as separate from their mother’s. Nancy Friday’s book played a major role in that acceptance. The greatest gift a good mother can give remains unquestioning love planted deep in the first year of life, so deep and anassailable that the tiny child grown to womanhood is never held back by the fear of losing that love, no matter what her own choice in love, sexuality, or work may be.

Through candid self-disclosure and hundreds of interviews, Friday investigates a generational legacy and reveals the conflicting feelings of anger, hate, and love the daughter’s hold for their mothers–and why they so often “become” that mother themselves.

Dell celebrates the l0th anniversary of this groundbreaking bestseller (3 million now in print) just in time for Mother's Day. Hailed by Publishers Weekly as "a landmark study, " My Mother/My Self explores a daughter's search for her own identity.

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  • ISBN-13: 9780440060062
  • Publisher: Random House Publishing Group
  • Publication date: 9/28/1977

Meet the Author

Nancy Friday established herself as a magazine journalist in New York, England, Italy and France before turning to writing full time and publishing her first book, My Secret Garden, in 1973, which became a bestseller; Friday has regularly returned to the interview format in her subsequent books on themes ranging from mothers and daughters to sexual fantasies, relationships, jealousy, envy, feminism and beauty.

Her writings argue that women have often been reared under an ideal of womanhood which was outdated and restrictive, and largely unrepresentative of many women's true inner lives, and that openness about women's hidden lives could help free women to truly feel able to enjoy being themselves. She asserts that this is not due to deliberate malice, but due to social expectation, and that for women's and men's benefit alike it is healthier that both be able to be equally open, participatory and free to be accepted for who and what they are.

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Table of Contents

Author's Acknowledgments
Introduction to My Mother/My Self
Ch. 1 Mother Love 1
Ch. 2 A Time to Be Close 27
Ch. 3 A Time to Let Go 62
Ch. 4 Body Image and Menstruation 92
Ch. 5 Competition 132
Ch. 6 The Other Girls 171
Ch. 7 Surrogates and Models 192
Ch. 8 Men the Mystery 228
Ch. 9 The Loss of Virginity 254
Ch. 10 The Single Years 294
Ch. 11 Marriage: The Return to Symbiosis 337
Ch. 12 A Mother Dies. A Daughter is Born the Cycle Repeats 378
Notes 414
Bibliography 421
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  • Anonymous

    Posted May 6, 2012

    all baby girls should receive this book at birth as required reading when they are teenagers.

    Read it my self as adult just ordered one for my 17 year old granddaughter. She loves it

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  • Anonymous

    Posted January 27, 2012

    Great book thanks Nancy!

    I read this book many years ago! Great for all women and their mothers!

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  • Anonymous

    Posted December 30, 2002

    Mother of 3 daughters

    This book gave me some solid reminders to not repeat the same patterns with my own daughters. I thought the book was interesting.

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